Why people don’t understand introverts
Introverts are a bunch that people really don’t get. The term introvert is considered very unfashionable, and social media is known to glorify the go-getters.
In today’s society, one is required to rise to the occasion and be strong enough to take on challenges. It is not considered the norm to think differently.
Let’s take a moment to understand and further examine the meaning of the term ‘introvert’. In this article, we will try and discover more about the meaning of introversion, and what introverts are usually like.
What is an introvert? Why are introverts so unpopular?
Introverts are a very rare breed of individuals who as mentioned above, prefer to stay indoors and perhaps read or play board games. They are said to hate having to make small talk, and the idea of a long-term relationship is not at all threatening to them.
On the contrary, they might rather enjoy long-distance relationships as well, and they have uniquely different perspectives on life. Introverts as the term suggests are usually very fixated on their inner world.
They also tend to focus strongly on their own thoughts and ideas. Such people are often thought of as reticent or shy, and hence it is obvious why the concept of introversion is underrated as compared to extroversion.
What are some of the traits that identify introverts? Perhaps you, or a friend you know is actually an introvert.
Being an introvert in a world full of extroverts is hard. How can you identify if you or someone close is an introvert? Sometimes knowing that one is an introvert can help them cope with life and its complexities better.
If you are an introvert more than a couple of these conditions could be applicable to you:
- You are considered reserved, and slower to interact socially
- You hate making small talk
- Social gatherings like parties, and weddings have you feeling drained
- You simply love your alone time, and thrive in your solitude
- As mentioned before in this article, you like being indoors
- Quieter activities like reading and journaling excite you
- You are quite energetic with people that you feel a level of familiarity and comfort with
- You are a very good listener, and your friends love to confide in you
- The things that appeal to extroverts do not resonate with you
- You are a loyal friend and have friendships that span several years
- You may prefer minimalism as a lifestyle, and it is non-threatening to you
Why it is okay to be an introvert
It may seem as though introverts have anti-social tendencies to those who don’t understand them. However, once you get to know an introvert, you will find they are wonderful people.
When discussing things, they have thought-provoking ideas and enliven any conversation. A conversation with an introvert is one you don’t forget, given that they tend to be very thoughtful, and reflective individuals.
Introverts given their sensitive nature, tend to feel things deeply and have a strong social conscience. They may not be the life of the party, but they can be the sort of friend you can actually count on. They also are very different in their attitude and approach to life and seem more genuine.
Conclusion
If you identify as an introvert, remember that it is something acceptable. Perhaps the uncomfortable thought of opening up to new people is not as welcoming as it appears.
Today’s world may favor the fittest, but remember the battle doesn’t always belong to the swift! Introverts ought to feel at ease with who they are since more people identify with this personality trait than you know.
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