Why Nice Guys Finish Last

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"46d4">However, if you stay true to your values and principles even towards a beautiful woman, if you dare to contradict her, and if you don’t let her beauty throw you off track, this is especially attractive. It demonstrates self-confidence and that you don’t see her as something better, for which you have to be as nice as possible.</p><p id="03be">This is probably also the reason why the so-called bad boys often get so many women. They are absolutely confident and unlike the nice guys, they don’t change their behavior just because they interact with a pretty woman.</p><figure id="12e2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:800/0*2MezSSo4pVSFFl6o"><figcaption>Photo by <a href="https://unsplash.com/@seteph?utm_source=medium&utm_medium=referral">Allef Vinicius</a> on <a href="https://unsplash.com?utm_source=medium&utm_medium=referral">Unsplash</a></figcaption></figure><p id="d166">Nowadays, this phenomenon of nice guy behavior is observed more and more. You only have to look at how a pretty woman is showered with compliments from men on social media. It is so common that even the new word <b>simping </b>has spread.</p><p id="a1c7" type="7">It is when a male is overly submissive to a female and gains nothing from it. So overly submissive that other guys cringe and feel ashamed when seeing them. This applies to males in relationships when they are so submissive that they say literally anything to be in favor with the female.-Urban Dictionary</p><p id="ecda">I myself used to have nice guy tendencies. I can highly recommend <a href="https://amzn.to/3MRcgzp"><b>this book </b></a>to anyone who has similar problems.</p><p id="7476"><b>Wait a second.</b> Y<i>ou should get my articles in your inbox. <a href="https://medium.com/subscribe/@whitep"><b>Subscribe here.</b> </a>Maybe you also want to start writing on Medium yourself and make money. I made $2300 in my second month! You only need a membership for$ 5 a month. If you sign up<a href="https://medium.com/@whitep/membership"> <b>with my link</b></a>, you support me with a part o

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Stop simping, guys

Hear me out before you get angry.

I’m not saying be an asshole. On the opposite. You should be nice. However, I’ll explain to you now what a typical nice guy is, what he does wrong and why he does badly in the dating game.

Many men think that by being nice they can get a woman’s heart and/or get her into bed. They are only nice because they want something in return: most of the time sex. This behavior is always picked up by women and seems very unattractive. This is widely known as the nice guy syndrome.

In contrast, it is even more attractive if you do one of the following things:

You help old people across the street

You offer your seat on the bus to women with children or old people

You are good with small children

You play with dogs

…and much more. I think you understand what I mean.

What these things have in common is that you do them without wanting to benefit from them. You are genuinely nice. Not a nice guy.

Why do nice guys act like this?

The underlying problem is that the nice guy does not have very good self-confidence. He thinks that he only has a chance with a woman he likes if he fulfills her every wish, gives her gifts, and never contradicts her. He thinks that being himself is not enough.

But the effect of these actions is exactly the opposite. Beautiful women know that they are beautiful. 95% of men, therefore, act as just described, which subconsciously communicates a lower value.

However, if you stay true to your values and principles even towards a beautiful woman, if you dare to contradict her, and if you don’t let her beauty throw you off track, this is especially attractive. It demonstrates self-confidence and that you don’t see her as something better, for which you have to be as nice as possible.

This is probably also the reason why the so-called bad boys often get so many women. They are absolutely confident and unlike the nice guys, they don’t change their behavior just because they interact with a pretty woman.

Nowadays, this phenomenon of nice guy behavior is observed more and more. You only have to look at how a pretty woman is showered with compliments from men on social media. It is so common that even the new word simping has spread.

It is when a male is overly submissive to a female and gains nothing from it. So overly submissive that other guys cringe and feel ashamed when seeing them. This applies to males in relationships when they are so submissive that they say literally anything to be in favor with the female.-Urban Dictionary

I myself used to have nice guy tendencies. I can highly recommend this book to anyone who has similar problems.

Wait a second. You should get my articles in your inbox. Subscribe here. Maybe you also want to start writing on Medium yourself and make money. I made $2300 in my second month! You only need a membership for $5 a month. If you sign up with my link, you support me with a part of your fee without any additional costs for you.

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