Abuse Has No Excuse
Where Have All Good Men Gone?
Vicious things that women do to men
“In Sicily, women are more dangerous than shotguns.”
The famous quote belongs to Mario Puzo, the creator of “Godfather”. I believe this quote to be true. My grandmother was born in Sicily, and trust me, you would not want to cross her.
My grandmother was one of the strongest women I’ve ever known — she fought against Nazis, at one point she was a spy and that’s how she met my grandfather.
Her life is still a mystery to me: she spoke fluently six languages, she was helped Jewish people flee Rome during the Second World War. She was a paratrooper. But there is so much I don’t know about her.
But what I do know is that she was always loyal to the family — to her husband and her children. She was a good mother and an amazing grandmother. But not all women are like her.
Nowadays society is very different. In some sense, it has become very anti-male. I hear so many single women around me ask the same question all over again:
“Where the have all the good man gone?!”
My answer to that would be a question of my own:
“Where have the good women gone?”
I know too many men who have been abused (and continue to be) by their ex and current partners. Many of my good male friends stopped believing in marriage and having children because they are scared. And they have a right to be scared — the system is against them.
A scorned woman is a woman that even Satan would stay away from. These women are dangerous, unpredictable and are ready to do everything and anything to destroy a man’s life. Here are just a few of the things that I’ve witnessed these women do:
They Use Children To Punish Men
I know too many men who had to oblige to every ridiculous demand from their ex-partner because they fear losing contact with their children. Just recently my friend who has separated from a narcissistic woman has texted her over 20 times asking how his son was — she never responded.
But when he called she called him names, threatened that he will never see his child because he left her and that she would report him for the emotional abuse — even though the situation is reversed. It is her who has not only emotionally abused him but physically too.
Scorned women would do everything in their power to turn the kids against their fathers. They would lie and exaggerate and they would hold children as “leverage” to get what they want.
They Make False Reports
I know of women who have made false reports to the police over and over again: emotional abuse, harassment, stalking, and physical abuse. The issue is that even when the police figure out who they are dealing with they rarely take any action.
Women don’t suffer any consequences for their false accusations and for threatening the man by way of making false accusations. Women simply walk away.
They Manipulate The Family Of Their Partner
Some women try to manipulate the family of their ex-partners, telling them their false sob story only to gain sympathy and try to get them on “their” side. They rarely succeed.
But there are men who don’t have great relationships with their own family and when their narcissistic ex goes to their family they might actually believe her lies. These women are pros at lying and manipulation.
They Indulge In Litigations
No sane person wants to go to court.
But narcissistic women just can’t stop — they will keep involving solicitors, they will rather pay solicitor and take their ex-partner back to court than carry on with their “miserable” lives. Even when the child is in their care, even when there is a court order, even when there is no need.
They will just never stop.
They Try To Hurt Close People To You
These women will spread rumors about you. They will use very personal and sensitive information about you, anything that she can she will use against you. They will contact your family, friends, your workplace.
If you have a new partner — they will do everything to destroy her as well.
Once a narcissist tried to do this to my friend, first she used the child against him, then his new partner, then his mother, and at last his father. She failed though because everyone saw right through her. But he is the lucky one.
Years have passed and she still keeps trying to destroy him…and she keeps on failing.
They will poison your pets…
Just to send a message like in a Godfather.
My friend’s ex used to send gifts through his sons to him whenever he was spending time with them. These gifts were actually very toxic to pets. My friend has two dogs. Thankfully he figured it out in time and nothing happened to his two pups.
Again, never underestimate a scorned, hurt and narcissistic woman. Be very careful of who you get emotionally or sexually involved with because not everyone is seeking love. There are a lot of evil people out there with mental instabilities.
They set traps
Never trust your narcissistic ex. If she wants to do something for you or is suddenly very friendly, please know it’s a trap.
I’ve seen too many men who have fallen for this, believing naively that they are able perhaps to co-parent, communicate or resolve things amicable when actually the ex was just planting things. Everything they do — they do for their own advantage!
These women have literally nothing to lose because they aren’t capable of love even if they have children. They are though capable of revenge.
To be frank, it is quite impressive what these types of women can do and what they are truly capable of. I’ve witnessed many of them lie and manipulate so many people and it was truly an eye-opener.
Not everyone is as they seem to be — you must always look closer.
You must be very careful because these women can ruin a man’s life, by means of emotional abuse and false allegations and obviously through separation and parental alienation.
But then again, it is up to you whether the Witch will manage to ruin your life.
Unfortunately, some people rush into relationships very fast and one day wake up realizing that they were abused, others realize that they’ve had a child with a psychopath.
I have witnessed many of my close male friends being in mentally and emotionally abusive marriages and relationships. I’ve realized and so have they that it was them who gave the power to the abuser.
They have given the power to their ex-partners to completely destroy them over the years. Until one day they stopped and walked away.
So don’t give anyone the power to destroy you. Because it is ultimately up to you whether you will be destroyed. If you do they will ruin your life because they can. You have given them permission.
So take the power back while you can and don’t allow anyone to have any kind of power over you.
Look we all make mistakes. There are a lot of evil people out there, women and men. I am specifically talking about women in this article because it’s a topic that is not covered enough.
Because the truth is, women abusers walk away freely more often than male ones.
Be careful, stay strong know who you are (and how amazing you are) and don’t let anyone take your power from you and ruin your life.
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