When I Doubt My Twin Flame, I Think of These 3 Things.

Is that person my twin flame? You never know. You just have to believe.

Doubt is multilayered in the twin flame path. Generally, we focus on the topic “Is this person my twin flame?” from the start of the Journey. On this journey, everything is pretty abstract. Sometimes we lose faith in the person we thought was our complete twin flame. We may also think that we made everything up ourselves.

When we accept the thoughts of our mind as our own, it becomes impossible to progress on the twin flame journey because the mind is there to find doubt in everything.

Our mind also says a lot about our twin flame. But they are a combination of too many subconscious thoughts based on assumptions. When we realize that true knowledge is what we feel, we come to our hearts. Here we always know why we are on the twin flame journey. But our physical body and worldly responsibilities can sometimes see the twin flame journey as just a “fairy tale”.

Why do we doubt our twin flame?

When we look at the word meaning of doubt, many definitions emerge. First, doubt comes from our feeling of “not being sure” about a situation. Here we have low trust in some people or situations. When our trust is not complete, our disbelief begins to form. And we all know that the most important thing in the twin flame journey is faith.

I've been dealing with an exhausting “wanting to be sure of everything” scenario from the start of my journey. Because our attitude regarding life’s uncertainty demonstrates how willing and strong we are toward our lives. But, like many people, I am terrified of uncertainty. My need to know everything stems from my controlling behavior.

Being sure and believing are two opposite concepts. Being sure is a state of being that brings together all the information and constantly searches for evidence to trust and believe. When we remember the unconditional love in the twin flame journey, we must accept things as they are. If we need to know or see something to believe, then we cannot talk about sincere belief here.

Unconditional love is a powerful state of being that grows with faith. When we reach the surrender stage in the twin flame journey, we must leave all the memories, knowledge, and everything else we have accumulated to the vast source of the universe and continue our journey from point zero. Because we cannot continue without surrendering what we know.

Knowledge has always been the most crucial aspect of my existence. I always judge myself on what I know. Because, in my opinion, knowledge is a valuable asset. Given my twin flame journey, I anticipated everything to be supported by knowledge for me to believe and trust in this journey, which exacerbated my skepticism. Because the more certain we want to be, the more doubts we have.

I learned the hard way that there is no need to be sure on the twin flame journey. Because it was not what I knew, but what I felt that mattered. I was someone who always thought that what I felt could be misleading. However, our emotions are misleading, not what we feel.

When we look at the twin flame journey from a higher point, I see that we believe in everything we trust. This is a process that develops only by feeling. We believe in someone if we love them. Love here is about how much we value that person. When we trust someone we love, they don’t have to constantly explain or show us evidence. That’s why the feeling of mutual trust is established not by evidence (wanting to be sure) but by believing.

In this article, we will talk about my twin flame and what I do to bring myself back to my core when I doubt the journey.

I go into my heart and see why I love my twin

We always talk about how “loving ourselves” is the key to everything on the twin flame journey, but let’s be honest now, Loving ourselves takes a lot of effort. And to continue this effort is to know and accept ourselves more internally. In this journey where we try to know ourselves in every aspect, remembering “why” I love my twin flame often helps me love myself.

When I look at my twin flame, I can see myself in him very clearly. I realize that the biggest reason I love it is all the reflections I see in myself. This is a love so deep and essential that the mind cannot understand. I see how the love within me takes shape in the outside world. This love feels very soft, empathetic, and safe. When I see the characteristics of myself as an existence, I allow these feelings to open new doors within me.

I love my twin flame because it helps open the unconditional love within me. I love him in non-romantic ways too because I see myself in him. It is a part of me that I can talk to for hours and trust unconditionally.

I see my progress by going back to the versions I had before the Twin Flame journey.

Returning to the beginning of my twin flame journey always shows me my growth. My self-compassion grows as I consider how far I’ve come and how much I’ve overcome. I make certain that what is crucial is not my twin flame’s physical presence, but the lessons and feelings we acquire from each other.

Most of the things we feel as 5d may be very bright, but our whole existence is not that “perfect.” Sometimes I find myself feeling anger in low vibrations, doubting everything, and shouting. Sometimes I feel filled with a feeling of jealousy that I hate, and this time, I apply the “silent treatment” to myself and the love within me. These are other versions of me. When these versions of myself feel love, I interpret it as a reaction of my ego to that love.

Some dark parts of us don’t know how to feel love healthily. These low-vibration parts of us may think that love is jealousy, mind games, or weakness. But as we progress in our development, we can find out which emotions are distorted in our subconscious and how. Thus, our 5d self will tell our 3d character how we sabotaged this desire even though we always wanted a happy and healthy love. We just need to take a deep dive into our past versions.

I disable my ego mind

The way the ego mind works is to always protect us. That’s why the ego mind often doesn’t even look at what is beneficial or harmful. If there is a bad memory of an emotion or situation in our past that challenges us, the ego will mostly continue to keep it away from us. And this method of keeping away is often shaped by patterns in our subconscious. If we do not discover the patterns in our subconscious, we will stay in the same cycles for years without understanding why. It wasn’t until later that I realized why I stayed away from romantic relationships, even though I was always inspired by falling in love.

In the twin flame journey, the mind only focuses on our fears. When we think with our minds, we always question everything. And this is a very ideal behavior to create more suspicion. The mind has no role in the twin flame journey. On the twin flame journey, we need to think with our hearts. And it’s about learning to disengage the ego.

Our ego can be described as our behaviors that keep us in a limited state and prevent us from progressing. Here I take a closer look at my fears, anxieties, and habits. The most difficult part of the twin flame journey is understanding our patterns and behaviors within painful emotions. When we understand the reason for something, we break the motivation underlying this behavior. Everything we do to protect ourselves here comes from fears in our subconscious. When we begin to look at ourselves from the heart space, we begin to understand the reasons for all our behaviors.

When I take my mind off the twin flame journey, I no longer ask “Why?” I look at the cause-effect relationship between my own emotions and behaviors. I’m just trying to understand myself without questioning anything. When I show compassion for my actions, the hurtful reasons underlying my doubts begin to soften. And thus, I am one step closer to my inner essence.

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Hi, I’m Bensu. I write about the mind, hard feelings, and self-love. Thank you for taking the time to read my article. If this article was useful to you, I would be happy and motivated if you applauded.