How Do You Know If Your Twin Flame Connection Is Real? Here Are 4 Powerful Reasons

A true twin flame connection reveals truths about yourself and touches your deepest wounds.

A twin flame is a love that forms within you and flows into you from a seemingly unreasonable source. Of course, this love has a subject. But our twin flame is the source from which our love reflects. When we realize that the true owner of our love is our true self, our perspective on our twin flame also changes. Because we now realize that we do not receive love from someone outside or from any status.

You’ll know if our twin flame connection isn’t coming from a place of lust or a desire to get someone. If your twin flame connection is real, you will have an unstoppable love, a sense of caring for someone. Your priority is not a consumable physical activity. Beyond the physical relationship, the true twin flame journey shows one the true desires burning in one’s heart.

In order to see our true desires burning in our hearts, we will also need to destroy the egoic 3D selves we have created so far. Our ego is not a bad formation. A healthy ego keeps us alive and allows us to calmly find solutions to the difficulties in our lives with self-confidence. This is an ego strength. When the ego takes over us, it restricts our lives.

Our ego tries to keep us in the circle of everything right or wrong that we learned until the age of 7. But when we become adults, we now have the capacity to deal with the things that upset us in our childhood. Our ego is also the biggest friend of our traumas. Because the ego does not want us to resolve our traumas. An unhealthy ego wants our traumas to rule us. In this way, we always live in our pain body with our fears.

A true twin flame connection reveals truths about yourself and touches your deepest wounds. The twin flame journey is difficult. Because no one likes to look at their deep pain or fears with the naked eye. This is where we do the work of self-healing. A true twin flame relationship is not a love story. Nobody likes to hear this, but it is the truth.

Today we will talk about the 4 points that make a twin flame relationship real.

You have some unexplained feelings and knowledge about your twin flame.

This is a labyrinth in which every twin flame gets lost. After seeing or meeting our twin flame, we have a deep familiarity or some intense knowledge about that person. This is a typical “I found the person in my destiny” moment in the movies. But in real life, we don’t use such clichés. (our logical mind immediately rejects) With our limited love beliefs, we try to explain to ourselves why we are so attracted to this person. We have several options.

• Our hormones have taken over our emotions.
• We try to believe in the phenomenon of love at first sight.
• There is something about this person that attracts our attention. (We check our list, tone of voice? Dressing style? Physical features? Perfume?)

But later, months or even years after you meet, you realize that all the items I wrote above belong to the physical world. These have an expiration date. Your desire for someone without any real connection or love is also for a few days. Or you like someone’s appearance, but if your energy does not match when you talk or spend time with that person, it will no longer matter what that person looks like.

As time goes by, you realize that what you have with your twin flame is much more than a physical attraction, it is a spiritual bond. This is not that easy to understand. Your soul needs to expand and grow. Your mind needs to become smaller and its limitations are less effective. All these journeys of self-discovery prove the truth of our twin flame story. And the reason we are so impressed by our twin flame, at first sight, is our admiration for them as well as our curiosity about ourselves.

An intense feeling of unconditional love arises.

After seeing our twin flame, we think we are truly in love. This is the effect that the physical chemistry of love has on us. We may feel dizzy from happiness, our hormones, or all the intense emotions we feel. But when the twin flame separation comes, we experience a rapid fall toward the ground. We crash to the ground. If our twin flame relationship is real, this separation will awaken some deeper feelings within us, such as some self-worth and compassion. The pain of separation turns into unconditional love within us over time.

A twin flame separation is not like the separation of a physical relationship. It has a specific purpose. First of all, it makes the person experience true love. This is the twin flame’s honeymoon period. After experiencing true love, our two flames need to remind us of some things. The departure of our twin flame from our lives returns us to our machine settings, that is, to our essence. This separation sheds light on understanding ourselves.

Most twin flames begin to understand themselves and the blockages in their lives during the twin flame separation period. The divine feminine must grow through her own efforts during this period of separation. Feminine energy cannot remain in its old wounded self. We pass through the dark night of the soul. And we discover all those patterned behaviors we do to ourselves.

You learn to be your own guide

As the divine feminine, twin flame moves through the journey, they must understand the symbolic language of the universe if they are to find something real. In a true twin flame journey the universe will never give you clear evidence. Because this journey is about connecting with our inner power and intuition. Our intuition or the power within us is not something that can be seen directly in the physical world. If we want to progress on this journey, we have to believe in the abstract. So don’t expect everything to be handed to you on a silver platter on your twin flame journey. You have to find your own meaningful lessons and curiosities by following the symbols of the universe.

The language of the universe contains some codes from our entire lives. It’s complicated, but there’s nothing in these symbols that we don’t know. It is a more advanced version of the language we know. We have experienced and know everything the universe has to offer us. We just forgot over time and now we need to remember again in order to move forward to our essence. This information forms our unconscious library.

The best way to understand our unconscious library is to decipher our dreams. The universe speaks to us through our dreams. It also teaches synchronicities to reach us from our conscious self. Numbers, song lyrics, and sometimes a movie character come into our lives and teach us something. In the twin flame journey, we learn to live life with our eyes open and beyond our 5 senses.

You learn to accept, be patient, and not control.

The universe is really big. On the Twin Flame journey, we learn countless lessons about life. We know that we are a unique part of the universe. But we are only a part of it. Humans are not the sole rulers of the universe. Before the twin flame journey, you may have thought that your life was something very important and serious. But actually, it was just about being able to control everything. The only difference between human beings and other creatures that share the earth is that they have a ‘’thinking brain’’. That’s it.

For centuries we have considered ourselves so important that we even rejected the great universal intelligence that created everything. Whatever you call it, there is always a power greater than human.

The Twin Flame journey taught me how limited I think. I was like a rebellious child and wanted everything to be my way. I would first complain and then punish myself for everything that didn’t happen as I expected. But in fact, there is always a universal system that disrupts our plans and relationships because it cares about our well-being. I’ve never tried to be an optimist before. But I realized that being optimistic actually means gaining both time and other things. The biggest thing that helped me realize that my twin flame journey is real. There was this change in me.

Thank you to everyone who reads my articles and writes to me. You increase my belief that I am on the right track. And truly seeing my writings touch someone’s life makes me happier than believing that the twin flame journey is real. After all, the union will come one day, I can’t live depending on it. But inner happiness and doing good things are things we should always ensure. I get my energy from acting in accordance with my own life purpose.

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Hi, I’m Bensu. I write about the mind, hard feelings, and self-love. I enjoy wandering through the depths of my emotions and writing about what I find deep within my soul. I am a romantic INFJ with deep feelings. If you like my articles, you can subscribe to my articles on my homepage to be informed every time I publish a new article.