Relationships/Sex
When Having Sex With Your Partner is More Productive Than Talking
Honestly speaking.
I write and read about all kinds of ways to improve romantic relationships.
There are vital lessons in compromise, communication, and compassion — just to name a few — that can keep a healthy, functional relationship going smoothly.
However, in some relationship circumstances — sometimes you just need to have sex.
You and your partner. Sex. Have it.
Scrap the discussion. Do away with the bickering. Grab each other and have at it. At least every once in a while. Make love — not war, as the saying goes.
There are days between many couples when frustration levels rise way above tolerable levels and this can sometimes mean that having the same conversation over and over again about issues that are driving the relationship tension into overload simply isn’t cutting it.
Quite frankly, there are days when you and your partner just need to have sex instead of talking. It’s as simple as that.
Humans are sexual creatures who carry tension within their bodies, and there’s no doubt that an excellent and satisfying sex session can alleviate a significant amount of that tension which tends to build up over time.
Of course, having sex to dissolve all of your relationship problems isn’t really practical advice on a day-to-day basis, — of course not. Who’s got time for all that?
However, every once in a while, it can do us a little good to stop taking ourselves so damn seriously and just melt into each other’s arms for a little while.
Sexual solace can be much more meaningful to a relationship than we think. Don’t underestimate the healing power of human touch.
I’ll admit that I need to practice what I’m preaching. This is one of my current relationship goals. To make more of an effort to add more physical touch to the frustrations that arise. There’s definitely something to it.
I often underestimate how much my husband loves me to touch him, whether it’s just a hug, a hand on his shoulder, or even a quick kiss. His eyes just light up and his mood changes dramatically.
Perhaps if we as couples chose to make more physical contact with our partners we could avoid unnecessary arguments about silly things.
And it IS usually frivolous things that couples end up bickering about especially after a long day of working, handling kids, running around, dealing with stress, or whatever other dynamics are going on that cause tension.
Sex CAN be healing in so many ways. It gets the blood flowing, (if done right) it creates a connection between partners, and it also reduces stress (again, if done right).
So, the next time you find yourself squabbling with your partner over ridiculous things and realize it’s because your frustration level is extremely high and your patience is ridiculously low — trying having sex — making love — getting it on — however you want to describe it.
Because sometimes you just have to do it.
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