Want To Be Loved? Get Cancer And See What Happens
For cancer patients, finding love involves talking about the illness and the changes it has brought…
One of my friends (Samantha Austin) was stuck in a relationship when she got to know that she had stage 2 colon cancer. The Wichita (Kansas) resistant found it difficult to leave her partner in the midst of the relationship. At first, she was living single and had enough to stay alive. However, things didn’t go as planned and Samantha Austin found her love. When she discovered that she had cancer, she decided to dip her toe back into the dating pool after getting treatment.
Another story is that of a cousin (Robert Dallman). In 2012, he became a stage III colorectal cancer survivor. He is a nature enthusiast and avid hiker. Robert Dallman’s tumor was detected during a routine checkup. He responded well to radiation and chemotherapy and was back to normal life in the summer of 2013. He was provided with utmost love and support from his whole family especially his partner.
These two real-life stories prove that love can be found in cancer patients too and that having cancer doesn’t mean you won’t be loved and cared anymore.
Bald Is Beautiful
Beauty lies in the eye of the beholder.
You cannot call yourself ugly or bad if you get cancer. In fact, your partner and the people around you will continue caring for you before, during and after chemotherapy.
Most cancer patients are praised for the way they respond to different treatments. This can be an emotional process and you may feel hopeless, but at the end of the day, you have to face the challenge and defeat the disease.
No matter what physical symptoms you are experiencing, you will surely get an opportunity to be loved and the one who loves you sincerely will continue considering you the most beautiful and amazing person in the world.
Feel Proud Of Yourself
Feelings of hopelessness can cause even more problems for you.
It is important to feel proud of your look and the treatment being given to you. Try to respond to chemotherapy and radiation positively so that your chances of getting recovered are increased.
Even when you never had cancer, you can still appreciate how hard you are being loved for fighting with the disease every single day. Allow yourself to get the recognition you actually deserve and everything will be alright soon.
You Are Not Alone
Cancer can make you feel alone, but your loved ones will manage time to be by your side. Everyone who loves you has his or her own health journey, so there is nothing to worry about. Maybe, someone has battled the disease in the past.
Anytime you need to talk, they will listen to you and help you in the best possible ways. Having someone there to listen to and speak to will enormously help you fight cancer, so don’t hesitate to ask for help.
