The Heart Is Made To Be Loved
If you think you don’t need anyone to live happily, you are totally wrong…
What were you made for? Well, it is obvious that you were made for somebody to study you, to spend their life with you, to read you, to understand you and to reflect on you. Let’s admit that we cannot live our lives happily and peacefully if we are kept in isolation. We also need to admit that the heart is not only made for pumping, but it needs to be loved.
All of us need a person who sits with us whenever we feel alone, who can feel our pain and who is ready to sacrifice everything to bring a single smile on our face. You have definitely been made for someone who can attune to you.
What Is Attunement?
Attunement is the willingness or desire of someone to travel into your inner world in order to explore who you actually are, who you should be and who you may become in the future. In a relationship, this type of connection can cultivate unconditional love, respect, and trust; these three things can make you feel happy and relaxed.
To truly love one another, we all need to read our partners well. It is not that we should continue expecting a lot of things from them and are not ready to give anything in return. I am not talking about the kind of reading where you can skim to the chapters of a book you think are more interesting than others. It is a kind of reading that can engage you and your partner in such a way that you both are ready to stand by each other’s side in all situations.
What About Attentiveness?
To read your partner well, you need to be attentive. It is not good to keep ignoring them all the time and then expecting that they would love you forever. Pay attention to what your partner is trying to say in the same way you want them to listen to you. Even when their conversation is boring, you are responsible to listen to them and to be attentive.
When Couples Refuse To Care
It is one of the worst things; love can end if lovers stop paying attention to one another or do not bother to know each other well. A successful and happy relationship requires you to spare time for your partner on a daily basis; it is not just about sleeping with them the whole night; it is about having moments of enjoyment and happiness and about discussing matters and exchanging ideas openly.
Facts Can Ruin Lives
There is no need to go into the depth of certain stories; such facts could destroy your love life. For example, if your partner had a relationship in the past, you should not bother yourself or them to know more about that relationship. Let it go and keep looking forward. Sometimes, these types of facts can ruin a relationship within seconds, so there is no need to try to know them.
Being Known Together
As a couple, you should be intimately connected; you should give enough room or space to your partner, and at the same time, you should not stop loving them. Always behave nicely and do not try to be rude. The feelings of love and affection should never vanish from your heart, as your heart has been made for somebody and it may stop beating if you leave your partner and try to live alone.