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This Will Make Women Go Crazy For You

How to become unforgettable

When I dated my ex-girlfriend, I was very focused on my athletic career. My training came first. This ambition was probably what made me so attractive in the first place. She often told me that she admired my determination because she wasn’t used to that. She was very pretty and many boys were interested in her. Most ran after her and would have immediately thrown all their plans overboard to go on a date with her. With me, she was at the back of the queue. “ I can’t today, training” I often said to her.

But over time, this very ambition in sport became a problem in our relationship. I was often tired and could not go with her to every birthday party. When I was there, I didn’t want to drink so much. That bothered her. She said that it was impossible to have fun with me. It bothered me that she wanted to distract me from my goals by having me go out and drink with her all the time. It bothered her that I didn’t want to do those things that normal couples do. Ultimately, our relationship went to pieces.

My realizations

One attractive feature, as in my case ambition, can get you the woman. But it will not keep her.

To be unforgettable and irreplaceable, I would probably have to combine my ambition with the ability to switch off from time to time, do more things and have fun at parties. A rare combination of positive characteristics, so to speak.

I already told you what happens when you are only ambitious and can’t really enjoy yourself. If, on the other hand, you just want to have fun, that’s not very attractive either. You probably won’t be very successful without any ambitions at all.

I recently came across an interview with dating expert Matthew Hussey on Youtube. He describes exactly what I have experienced myself. Here are two quotes that bring it to the point.

One quality can make you really attractive, but it won’t keep someone

The more unique pairings you have, the more you become a rare bird in the dating marketplace

Imagine you are going on a date with a woman. Afterward, she tells her friend:

“I like that he is so ambitious” — Not bad, she is probably attracted to you, but this does not make you irreplaceable. There are many other ambitious guys out there.
“He is so ambitious, but fun to be around at the same time. He is also able to switch off and enjoy himself” — There you go. You showed her that you possess a rare combination or unique pairing of traits, as Hussey says. This makes you very hard to replace and will most likely make her obsessed with you.

Thanks for reading!

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