This Unknown, Beautiful Journey of Love Is Everything You Need To Know
From soulmate to oneness of soul.
If you’ve tried to search for your soulmate, you’ll know it is a stumbling block. You can’t really find them.
But if you have stumbled upon them and are living happily, you’ll know they are just a part of your life. They can be a beautiful support system, but they don’t define who you really are.
But if you are here, you may want to realize the life that goes beyond the obvious soulmate satisfaction. It means you have an itch to know if it is the end of all seeking.
Your heart is driving you to understand more about life and love.
Connect the dots
My most desperate moment came when I had my first heartbreak.
It felt as if life came crashing on me. I had nothing to live for. I felt worthless when my devotion and unconditional love were kicked away mercilessly.
I might have lost my life to the depression that was eating me up from the inside. But I lived through the darkest phase. At snail’s speed, I recovered. It took me years to heal my wound completely.
Now, when I look back at the incident, my heart is filled with immense gratitude.
Not just to the life which miraculously saved me. Not just to me, who strived each day bravely. But also to that person who I thought was responsible for it.
I’m still in contact with him. Every time we talk, I express my heartfelt appreciation.
Once, I told him, “I can touch your feet with my head in profound gratitude.”
“But why? I did the most unthinkable to such a kind soul like you. I should be punished.” he says.
“Because of you, I learned what love really is. Because you gave me a glimpse of how pure love can be. You pushed me to the gift of devotion.”
I consider him one of my best soulmates.
Because through him, I came closer to my own soul. He became a stepping stone in my self-realization.
He opened my heart and pushed me to see that life is much more than what our mind thinks it to be. It is much beyond the security, possessiveness, and expectations.
Realize your false belief.
I know how hard life can be for those who feel lonely. And I know how easily we clutch the people who support us.
As social beings, we love a company that fills us with love and encouragement. Being with a loved one gives immense satisfaction. The love, care, and laughter become precious.
But many people get stuck in a false belief.
You think you feel happy because of the other. To extract that satisfaction, you cling on more.
That is why you hold on to relationships so tightly that sometimes, it suffocates you and the other.
The problem is not the interdependency but your belief that you are not sufficient for yourself.
If you struggle to prioritize your heart, you’ll fail to provide more value in the relationship.
Use the blessed opportunity.
A soulmate relationship doesn’t mean a dead end. When you become secure in a place, it doesn't mean you hide and stay tight in it.
Instead, it can be the start of something more beautiful.
Flowers grow best when nourished by proper sunlight, nutrition, and water. Similarly, you can flower best when you are shaded and provided with everything you need.
The space can turn you from a satisfied caterpillar to a beautiful butterfly ready to open its wings and fly in its majestic beauty.
But many people keep themselves on the back burner. They forget to go within and ask what they truly want.
You can get fulfilled by outer satisfaction of love and security. But it can never run long. Its fuel is limited because you subtly depend on others.
Instead, use this beautiful opportunity to —
- Discover your real self.
- Do what you are passionate about.
- Explore your heart and be expressive.
- Be comfortable being alone and fill yourself with love and care.
You are seeking yourself.
Relationships can be fulfilling. Your soul partner can be an extremely rewarding journey.
But when you go inside and realize your infinite self, then the quality of the relationship touches the divine level.
Then, you don’t seek fulfillment from others. Then, you share your fulfillment with them.
When I was in a relationship, I thought this was the end of my search. Now my life is all sorted out. I don’t have to seek anything else.
I was so wrong.
Those beautiful connections pushed my spiritual journey. I was in awe of their lovely personalities and kindness.
When you are in love, you want to merge completely within them.
For me, this love served as a foundation to dissolve my ego. The love turned into devotion. This love strengthened my heart.
Slowly, my open heart became rebellious and got out of the mindless race of mind.
Heart is a powerful tool. The more you feed it, the more you dissolve. The more pure your love becomes, the more flexible your mind becomes.
Love is the goal and journey.
In life, we all seek something greater than ourselves.
Some seek that greatness in love. Some in power.
Blessed are those hearts who seek in it love. I know how painful the journey of love can be. But it is the myth that love hurts. It is actually the ego that feels the hurt.
Your heart wants to give and share freely. But your mind wants security and fears losing.
Make your heart a powerful tool in your inner journey. The journey of love does not stop at finding or living with the soulmate.
It is just the start. The start of the unending pure love that you actually are. The journey from soulmate to the oneness of soul.