avatarMani Goel

Summary

The author recounts the emotional journey of starting and parting with houseplant collections due to relocations, and the joy of nurturing a new 'corner of happiness' with plants in a new home.

Abstract

The narrative "The tale of houseplants lost and new beginnings" is a personal reflection by the author on the emotional connections formed with houseplants and the cycles of growth and separation that come with moving homes. The author describes the deep attachment to a Pothos and other plants that became the centerpiece of their home, the heartache of leaving them behind during relocations, and the comfort found in passing them on to friends and family. Despite the sadness of parting, the author finds solace in the ongoing care and flourishing of these plants in their new environments. The story takes a hopeful turn as the author starts anew in Canada, rekindling the love for houseplants with a small Pothos that has since grown into a vibrant corner of happiness, affirming the intention to continue this green tradition wherever life may lead.

Opinions

  • The author believes in the concept of a 'green thumb' and takes pride in the thriving plants under their care.
  • There is a sense of melancholy associated with leaving behind plants that have become part of one's life and home.
  • The author views the act of giving plants to friends and family as a positive continuation of the plants' lives and influence.
  • The author perceives the cycle of nurturing and passing on plants as a 'cycle of goodness and greenness,' spreading joy and life.
  • The author holds a philosophical view on the transient nature of plant care, accepting that their role in the plants' lives is one chapter in a longer story.
  • The author finds emotional solace and happiness in the continuous process of creating a personal green space, regardless of the permanence of their living situation.

The tale of houseplants lost and new beginnings

How a new house has always led to new houseplants

Plants all around my TV unit. PC Mani Goel

My Pothos had taken over the entire TV unit in 18 months. It was the statement piece of my home and made it to multiple Instagram posts of mine and those of my friends.

I would look at it longingly every day, excited about its vines and new growth. I would touch its leaves, talked to it almost every day, and ensured that it always gets the water and nutrients it needs. It responded well and flourished in my house.

Giving it company were Areca Palm, Snake plant, peace lily, and ZZ plant. They were all happy together inside my cosy home and I like to think were having the time of their lives. I had started believing that my ‘green thumb’ was for real.

And then, we changed cities and eventually countries.

I could not take the houseplants with me. So I did the next best thing, gave them to my close friends and my mother who I knew could keep a plant alive.

So, was I heartbroken? Well, yes!!

After giving almost two years to those plants, I had to part with them. And this did not happen for the first time.

Before this, I was in Bangalore and had to give up all my plants when I changed cities and moved to Gurgaon and now was doing it all over again.

collection of succulents in Bangalore. Sadly, had to give away all of them. PC Mani Goel

But those plants are now the center stage of someone else’s home.

My friends share pictures of plants sometimes and I can see they continue to thrive.

My balcony Bougainvillea thriving at my mother’s place. PC- Mani Goel

Perhaps my role in their lives was limited and I did my best and now they belong to someone else. And maybe get passed on to new people later, who will have these plants in their lives for another time.

I have started thinking of it as a cycle of goodness and greenness. The abundant joy that my plants must have given to the nursery owners where they came from, and then to me, and now to my friends and my mother, they will keep going on till they are taken care of.

I moved to Canada and the moment we had a house, a pothos came into our lives. It was small then but it made me happy. A year later, it has blossomed and I again have multiple plants to give it company.

The little pothos and how it all started PC Mani Goel

I call it my ‘corner of happiness.

The same plant an year later. Corner of Happiness PC Mani Goel

I don’t know if I will continue living here or for how long shall I have these plants. But I know for sure, that I will create my ‘corner of happiness’ with houseplants wherever I go and my plants will keep responding to me or to others as well, where ever they go.

Me eyeing another houseplant. I am always searching for more plants. PC Mani Goel

This article has been written in response to Dr. Preeti’s prompt of ‘Loving Houseplants’

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