The Power Of The Affirmation “I Expect To…”

Figure out your imbalance expectations.

I have heard from a few people that expectation is the source of disappointment in life. But I will beg to differ from that statement. Usually, a person who believes in that statement has probably been disappointed a significant number of times or has been deceived by others multiple times.

It can be a good reason to not expect any more from life or people but:

The true answer is what you expect to happen in your life is what you will receive.

If you expect good, positive, and abundance, you will receive it in divine timing.

If you expect bad, negative, and limitations, you find it on your path as well.

When I say, I expect this… to happen, well; it happens. That’s simple. I am not trying to be an expert at knowing what is not working in my life, who wronged me, or what the world is doing that is not serving me. Still, I kept on sending possessive energy until any negativity vanished from my reality. Of course, it takes time, but it gets better every day when your mindset only expects the best.

The magic behind positive expectation is metaphysic in nature. You see, Higher Being, Angels, Spirit, Ancestors, Ascended Masters, and so forth, read our expectations based on the intensity of our emotions. Thus, it is our emotions that say what we want, desire, expect, and love.

With those expectations, the universe work behind the scene to help manifest that into our life. It is like having an entire team or army ready to help make all your expectations true.

The secret behind mastering your expectation is done by categorizing your emotions, which requires you to monitor them, to eventually know which expectations will bring a good or bad outcome.

It is like assigning a tag called emotion, good or bad, to your thought and beliefs. Let say you use an excel spreadsheet and write all expectations you have about yourself, your life, your beliefs, and what you desire to happen to you in the future. Then add another column next to it with the tag name Good emotion or Bad emotion.

Suppose you think about a particular outcome and have a negative expectation of it, either conscious or not. In that case, you will experience it until you change the feeling you attach to that narrative.

Sometimes you have a good expectation but can still experience the negative aspect of what you expect. In those cases, you need to be patient for the change to happen; some are fast to manifest, others require more planning from the higher energies to get you where you need to be to receive or experience your expectations.

How long does it take? It is all about your understanding of what you need to remove or update from your life in terms of physical, mental, and emotional attachment. When you clear space for what you desire, it can come to you faster than you expect.

Honestly, time really doesn’t exist; it is from a moment to another moment to the next moment. It is because we have a moment after the other one that makes us feel that it is time-based. Just like a movie filmstrip, you see one picture after the other one. Your life is moving in that fashion.

When you make a decision or change something about your life, the change occurs right away, but seeing it requires maybe a couple more moments to be seen in your reality. So the more space you have in your mind, the easier the new expectation can come forth.

In addition to that, the longer it takes, the bigger and perfect it will be for you. That’s why every healer or spiritual book will tell you to be kind and patient with yourself as all the pieces are put together for your success.

Bigger stuff required more energy to work or be created.

The Universe, with its different forces, do their work by sharing their energy in the form of guidance, support, love, direction, and opportunities; and you, on the other side, with your effort, focus, belief, expectation, and faith work to bring it together in your reality; hence Co-creating with the Universe.

To get back to what inspired me to write this little nugget of understanding is for you to pay very close attention to what you expect. If you say something but expect differently, the Universe and higher being will catch up on your divergent emotion and bring you something that will trigger a negative feeling to rectify the imbalance between what you think, say, do, and, more importantly, feel.

You are the boss of your life, whether you know it or not, and it is my pleasure to let you know about it today. What are you going to do about it? Of course, only you can control that, but I hope this information brings you closer to running your life the way you desire it.

I leave you in peace and love, go forth and rejoice in the guidance you received from the Universe, monitor your expectations, and align yourself with your best and highest expectations.

Bonaventure Barry

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