The Best Sex Advice to Cure Bedroom Boredism

Sure, you’ve had fun in bed, but have you ever reached that orgasmic point of no return?

So first of all, lose the regressive trope to have to please your man, and only your man, because it’s totally backwards. Your orgasm is just as important as your partner’s (it doesn’t matter what your genitals look like). Do you follow? Okay.

Now, if you are just curious about what your man would like in the bedroom, get this completely.

In a good sexual relationship, you touch yourself all the time — not just in bed. When talking to your loved one, put your hand on him or rub his back for a few minutes. While driving, place your hand on his thigh.

When couples touch, it’s a way of expressing warmth and keeping that ‘united’ feeling alive. Touching everything doesn’t have to lead to sex, but it is part of physical intimacy.

These are some helpful tips that will ensure you have a super sex life

Rigidity is boring

Everyone has secret sexual fantasies that they don’t even reveal to their partner.

Here’s a way to divide them: write down three fantasies on a piece of paper and number them accordingly. Roll a die and choose the number you promise to play. He may want you to shave your pubic hair or go to the supermarket with just a raincoat on. You may want him to have sex with you in the shower or tie you up. You both insist on doing something!

Or better still call him — even if he’s in the same house — and have great sex on the phone. By not looking at each other in the eye, both of you can say things to each other that might embarrass you when you’re face to face.

When you put him online, let him know how hot you are thinking about his penis. Hearing someone describe how he or she feels and reacts is huge excitement.

For most guys, speaking vigorously is an excitement. You can start small — say, “I love to feel your tongue out there” — and slowly move on to using four-letter words. If you are wondering how a partner might respond to explicit sexual speech, ask them. Say, “Sometimes when we have sex I just want to scream dirty words, but I don’t know how you would react. If you want him to join him, say, “It really turns me on when I hear disgusting sex from you — are you okay with that?”

Create an erotic stage

Most men like it when a woman takes charge. Why don’t you send him an erotic email? Tell him exactly how much you want him and what you will do with him when he gets home. When you send the message to his work computer, make sure no one else can open his email!

You might consider leaving some lights on and asking him to watch you while you are having a blowjob or sex or even getting ready to sleep with him. If you’re ashamed of your body, do it half-dressed; wear one of her shirts completely unbuttoned; men like women to borrow their clothes.

Women usually take longer to become sexually aroused, so start with yourself before going to bed. Take a bath with candles for 30 minutes and hug yourself.

Oral supersex

If you want to get your guy down orally, first spend some time stimulating his body from navel to knees with your hair. He will feel good.

Then direct your hot breath and kiss to the head of his penis and the area just below it. For most men, it feels the same as having your entire penis in your mouth.

Also, make sure your hand is playing an active part of oral sex — lightly pat his testicles and pat the shaft of his penis. It helps to increase the intensity of everything you do with your mouth.

Tips: Freeze a few grapes in a Ziploc bag. Once they are frozen, put them in your mouth. Then start with oral sex. The temperature and sensation the grapes produce when you give her a blow job is incredible. You can try spraying your mouth with Binaca or using a mint toothpaste just before taking it. This gives his penis a pleasantly warm feeling.

If you don’t like the taste of semen at all, or want to protect yourself from illness, have your husband wear a Sheik Elite mint condom. It tastes great.

The dirtier the merrier

If your partner didn’t please you orally and you want him to, talk about it. Just say, “I really wish you’d bumped into me, but I haven’t seen that happen yet. Can you tell me what’s going on?”

You have to believe that men consider vaginal fluids an aphrodisiac. Stop worrying about vaginal odor and get used to men getting aroused when they have oral sex with a woman.

When you feel comfortable, keep your hips open so that your man can reach them better while he gives you a blowjob. Spreading your hips increases the feeling, and if he uses his hands there to keep everything open, they can quickly clamp together and get stuck — that is why his hands need to be free to please you elsewhere.

Magical hand job

This the part most people shy away from. It may seem complicated at first, but when you get into the rhythm your movements will just flow.

Take the following steps, alternating your hands:

• Make a U with your fingers and thumb at the bottom of the shaft and your palm facing you.
• Rub up, and when you reach the head, turn on top with as much palm in contact with the head of the penis as possible and work your way down the other side.
• Then do the same with your other hand and continue alternating hands — while it can last!

Another great craft technique is what I call basket weaving. Use a water-based lubricant and, sitting in front of him, tie your fingers together and wrap them around his penis.

Instead of a simple up and down motion, turn up and down with your thumbs facing you. You can also add a little pulsation by spinning.

Getting your man to masturbate you while also caressing his penis is huge excitement for you and your man.

Start by watching a sexy video like Tracy, I Love You or Insatiable. You can look them up at your local video store, download erotic movies online. Have him play out some of the moves from the movie.

Take time on foreplay

Give her plenty of coaching and be patient to help her surprise you the best she can. Wrap your hand around one of his fingers or his penis, and if he does something that you particularly like give him a go-ahead signal, squeeze if you don’t like it.

This kind of non-verbal feedback can be very helpful to someone who is doing their best to please you.

If your partner is masturbating you, let him playfully pull your pubic hair. It adds a slight sense of tension that arouses many women.

Use pillows. Slide one under your hips so that you are less likely to escape during sex in a missionary position.

Even if he gives you oral sex, his neck won’t be that narrow. You can support his head and lower back with pillows so that he has a better view while sitting between his legs.

Hitting ‘The Big O’

Here’s a tip to help each of you last longer before you explode. He needs to know what you are going to do. Before either of you has an orgasm, stop having sex or touch yourself directly and change gears.

You can step out and massage yourself for a few minutes. Then you can continue. Keep getting closer to an orgasm, building on that peak so that by the time you finally reach climax, your orgasms will be all the more explosive.

Use each piece of furniture for a different sexual act or position. Make love under the piano, on a chair, and in front of a window.

During a relationship, you have created sexual memories, making your home a more erotic environment.

Live in the surprise of the moment — you never know when you will start to feel that special intimacy that is so related to deep and amazing sex.

You might both be sick and dragging, pale and sniffling, but then you give each other a passing kiss, and all of a sudden it turns into a touching kiss, and before you know it you’ve got the robes and you’re on the floor.

This moment cannot be planned. So when the passion hits, go for it — don’t let the practicalities get in your way.

G-spot toys

The new soft manual toothbrush is a great sex toy that both of you will enjoy. Let your man run the hair over your breasts and all over your body — the feeling is erotic.

He should brush gently around your vaginal area, especially the opening. Then you can stimulate her body — try to focus on her nipples.

While most men don’t say it (and many don’t even know!), Nipples are usually very sensitive — a secret erogenous zone.

Use a vibrator during sex. You can get one at Amazon for less than $40. A one-foot dildo with a head the size of a tennis ball that is used on the go outside of your vagina.

Couples love it because it’s great for foreplay — it gives a great massage — and you can fit it into sex. During sexual intercourse, in a face-to-face position, the rod slides well between two bodies.

A man can enjoy the indirect vibration when he is inside you, using the rod to stimulate your clitoris.

Wear a long beaded cord around your neck — almost all men think pearls are super sexy. Seductively untie them and pull them off.

Gently run the beads all over your man’s body. Start with his head and face and work your way to the toes, but avoid his penis, save it for last.

When you finally get there, wrap the beads around his penis and roll up the individual beads and press them onto his skin. This unique stimulation is great excitement.

Use different products during foreplay to make things interesting. Bring chocolate to bed and apply over one another. Use a feather duster to apply honey dust on various parts of the body, then lick it off. The good sex is the sex that is always different.