Women/Sexuality
Sometimes A Woman Just Wants A Quickie
No muss — no fuss.
Sometimes I don’t want foreplay. Sometimes I’m not interested in romance.
There are times when I have zero patience for a long and drawn-out lead-up to the inevitable act of sex with my partner.
Sometimes a woman just wants a quickie.
There are times when I’m simply not in the mood for anything other than just sex — right to the point, unadulterated sex.
Of course, this isn’t every time. There are times when I do want more mental and physical lubrication — so to speak — in order to enjoy sex with my partner to maximum fulfillment. Yet, there are other situations when I’ve been in the mood all day — or for days on end and I’m ready to go on the spot.
I think this is true for many women. There are simply moments when the charade of wining and dining before sex becomes arduous, even boring.
I can safely say that when I tell my partner I’m in the mood for a quickie — I mean it. No muss — no fuss. No pretty words or extended foreplay session. A quickie has no time for that. That’s why it’s called a quickie, right?
I listen to my body and when my body is telling me to skip all the steps that usually go into the ritual of creating the mood for sex — I listen.
Quickies have their place. It’s a solid place. Somewhere in between the hectic bustle of life and the desire to have sex. Quickies matter. They can be a satisfying release without all the pomp and circumstance — especially when you’re in the mood and ready to go.
I don't always want to kiss and make out. Unabashedly, there are times when I just want to have an orgasm, and if my partner is willing to swoop in and be there for me in that capacity without much notice — that’s even better.
Quickies are underrated and they’re most certainly not utilized enough. Perhaps it’s because the idea of the quickie is misunderstood.
It’s not always true that a woman needs hours upon hours of relentless foreplay to have an orgasm. Although there certainly may be situations where this is the case — it’s not all of the time. Additionally, it’s not necessarily true that quickies are mostly unsatisfying for women because it takes less time — which I think is a common misconception.
It takes the average woman about 20 minutes to orgasm during sex with a partner, however, if a woman is really in the mood and has been itching to have sex, it can take only minutes. Some women get so riled up that they have a premature orgasm before they're even ready. That’s a real thing.
Sometimes sexual tension has been building for days — or even weeks and a woman in that kind of state needs a sexual release just as much as a man does. It’s just not talked about as much.
Not only can quickies produce a terrific sexual release, but they can bring a couple closer together.
Let’s say you and your partner have company coming over and you spontaneously decide to engage in a quickie before they arrive — or perhaps you have a young child napping and you try to go for a quickie before they wake.
Not only do quickies make things exciting but they can provide a refreshing connection between two partners who are probably quite exhausted from the daily routine of life and/or raising a family.
You won’t be in the mood for a quickie ALL of the time — that’s just a fact.
However, the occasional use of the quickie sex card can bring a sudden spark back to where it may have faded between two partners.
Let’s appreciate the quickie for what it is. It doesn’t have to be quick every time. Just some of the time.
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