6 Secret Erogenous Zones That Will Drive Them Crazy

How to create even more pleasure during sex

Do you want to improve your sex game and drive your partner crazy? Well, stimulating erogenous zones is the next-level foreplay that will make sex better.

You might think erogenous zones are only body parts. Our skin is the largest organ and has tons of nerve endings. Applying intimate touch on certain parts such as the nape of the neck, the scrotum, the breasts, or the nipples can be very arousing.

But hear me out — erogenous zones are more than sensually caressing different parts of your lovers’ skin! There are more orgasmic points that are stimulated during sex.

I will share with you 6 little-known erogenous zones that you’ve probably never thought of before. They will drive most people crazy. If you want to experience more pleasure during sex and be an incredible lover, learn about these different erogenous zones.

So what is an erogenous zone?

Erogenous comes from the Greek “eros,” which means desire or love. An erogenous zone is a part of the body that excites sexual feelings when touched or stimulated. They are separate from the genitals yet produce similar feelings as direct stimulation of the genitals. When your erogenous zones are stimulated, you feel sexy and alive. You sense an unexpected electric shock surging through your body, and it’s a delicious feeling.

So without further ado, here are 6 secret erogenous zones that will drive your partner crazy.

#1: The Brain

The brain is the biggest organ inside of us. For most people, our sexual turn-on starts in the brain, which is especially true for women.

Some women don’t want sex unless their brain is stimulated. Sexually arousing the brain means giving compliments, talking sexy, or showing that you desire your lover with your words.

You can also turn on your partner with ASRM-type of sounds. ASMR stands for “Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response.” When someone whispers in your ear, it activates a part of the brain that results in an electric sensation from the scalp and down the body. It can be incredibly pleasurable. Whispers or sensual sounds whispered in my ear can turn me on, and I can even have an orgasm from them.

#2: The cervix

For a woman, the cervix can be a source of deep orgasmic pleasure. The cervix is a part of the uterus located at the end of the vagina. It’s the opening point to the uterus where sperm can travel to reach eggs and potentially lead to fertilization. It makes up one-third of the uterus, but it isn’t very large — only about 3–5 centimeters thick and 2–3 centimeters across.

You can stimulate the cervix with a finger, a penis, or a dildo. Some women can have cervical orgasms, which give intense euphoria, sadness, and bliss. You can learn more on how to give her a cervical orgasm by reading my article Anything You Need to Know About Clitoral, G-Spot, and Cervical Orgasms.

#3: The prostate

For guys, the prostate is a source of deep pleasure. The prostate is located an inch and a half (1,2 centimeters) from the anus. It’s on the front wall, below the bladder, and in front of the rectum. It is the size of a silver dollar. It’s a muscle and a gland. The gland is responsible for the “milky,” white fluid in sperm.

You can either activate the prostate by stroking or pressing it during oral sex or a handjob. You can even press it during intercourse or give your man an internal anal massage for an ecstatic prostate experience.

#4: The eyes

Your eyes are another erogenous zone that are often overlooked. I’m not asking you to rub your partner’s eyes, no! But looking at someone can be a massive turn-on that tingles up the spine with hot desire.

When you want something, your pupils dilate, which can be a source of sexual attraction. The longer and deeper you gaze into your partner’s eyes — especially during lovemaking — the deeper the connection. If you want to enhance intimacy, spend five minutes eye-gazing with your partner before you make out or make love.

#5: The toes

Some people love having their feet licked, touched, and caressed. There are even people who can have foot orgasms. But even if this isn’t a recognized erogenous zone for your partner, there are some sexual reflexology points in the feet that can be stimulated. Reflexology is a type of massage that involves applying different amounts of pressure to the feet. It’s based on a theory that the feet are connected to specific organs and body systems.

The inside and the outside of the ankles correspond in Chinese medicine to the uterus, the prostate, and the cervix. So playing with the ankles can activate your partner sexually. Lick or massage the upper-middle inside of the foot to open and activate the heart space. It will send electric waves of pleasure through your partner’s heart and entire body.

#6: The anus

For many people, touching the anus is taboo. However, the anus has thousands of nerve endings and is sensitive to touch, penetration, and even to gaze. If you make sure the area is super clean, you’ll be more open to anus stimulation. Some people can experience powerful orgasms from stimulation of the anus alone. It’s personally one of my favorite sources of orgasmic pleasure.

Anilingus — also called rimming — is a form of oral sex when one partner stimulates the anus using their lips or tongue. It can be very intimidating at first, but if you’re not afraid, give it a go and observe your partner’s reaction. It’s a sensitive area for both men and women, but it’s even more sensitive for men as it’s the entry to the prostate — often referred to as the male G-spot.

Everyone is turned on in unique ways, and everybody responds differently to stimulation. What feels sexually arousing to one person may not excite their partner. So, activate your partner’s erogenous zones — or even your own — and see how your sex game improves!

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