Anything You Need to Know About Clitoral, G-Spot, and Cervical Orgasms

If you wanna be the best lover, you gotta know the difference.

Babe, do you know that there are many types of orgasm that women experience? There’s basically no limit to our orgasmic capacity.

When you research orgasms, you come across things like nipple orgasms, fantasy orgasms, and anal orgasms. I know women capable of full-body orgasms, and some of them can do that even without any external stimulation. The possibilities are endless. In this story, let’s start with the basics and cover the 3 most common orgasms women experience.

To be completely fair, there are women who have struggled their whole lives to experience any type of orgasm, and there are men and women that are familiar with only clitoral orgasm. So, chances are, this is the first time you are going to hear about this. And that is perfect! Some people will never discover this information, so you are lucky.

Let me introduce you to the clitoral, the G-spot, and the cervical orgasm and give you some tips on how to get your partner to experience them.

#1: The clitoral orgasm

This is certainly the most well-known orgasm. The clitoris is a small, nerve-dense structure located at the top of the vaginal opening. It has eight thousand nerve endings — that is twice the amount the penis has. It actually serves no other function than to provide sexual pleasure.

And that’s not even the best part — the clitoris you see is just the tip of the iceberg. There’s more to the clitoris than you can see on the surface and it’s all hidden under the skin.

So why am I telling you this? Because all of that is an erectile tissue, meaning that any stimulation on top of the vulva will cause your partner to feel many sensations, and it will indirectly enhance the pleasure she feels in her clitoris. So, never underestimate the power of caressing her genitals.

Clitoral orgasm is definitely the most accessible, quickest to reach, and easiest to experience.

On a biological level, a clitoral orgasm is a muscle contraction. It’s quite similar to the male ejaculatory orgasm. You feel arousal, you keep the pleasure going, and eventually you reach the peak. Then, there is a release.

So, what are the specific ways to bring her to a clitoral orgasm? I’ll give you several techniques to stimulate her vulva; however, never forget that the female body is more responsive after you warm it up. So, get her wet first and then do these techniques. You’re way more likely to get her to orgasm this way.

Clitoral orgasm’s techniques

Ask her whether she likes direct — touching her clitoris — or indirect — caressing her labia and clitoral hood — stimulation. Some women can simply be too sensitive down there in a way that it can be a painful experience for their clit to be touched.

The movements for you to do are:

• up and down
• side to side
• circles around

To add variety:

• change the speed — fast or slow
• apply varying amounts of pressure
• use a finger, your tongue, or even a sex toy

Just focus on finding out what works for your partner. Be aware that similar to a male’s penis, the clitoris is very sensitive after she climaxes, so she might need a little break before you try again.

Also, some women will have difficulties to achieve even clitoral orgasms. There are both physical and psychological reasons that influence a woman’s capacity to reach orgasm. Often, women are simply paralyzed by shame or fear. Sexuality is a very vulnerable topic, so allow her to be where she is. You don’t want to shame her even more as that will only worsen the situation. Rather, be supportive. Eventually, the more she trusts you, the easier it will be for her body to open up.

#2: The G-spot orgasm

For some, G-spot orgasm is the mythical, elusive type of orgasm they’ve never reached. But it’s definitely possible.

The G-spot is located 1–2 inches inside the vagina on the front wall — the one towards her belly. Its surface is different from the rest of the vagina — it feels more like a sponge and can be found easier when aroused because it grows slightly larger due to an increase in blood flow.

Women have reported G-spot orgasms feeling fuller, more intense, more emotional, and more full-bodied. It feels like an expansion rather than a contraction. It’s not such a high peak; it feels more like waves, and they keep on coming. Women can have unlimited numbers of G-spot orgasms in a row, so long as it feels good. She will experience pleasure not just in one location, but throughout her entire body.

G-spot orgasm’s techniques

As with clitoral orgasm, give her some time to warm up. It’s even more important with the G-spot orgasm because she needs more stimulation to experience this one. So, from my experience, the more you caress her whole body, including her vulva, before you get to G-spot stimulation, the easier it will be for her to relax into it and let go into pleasure.

Once inside her, you can engage her G-spot with the same techniques you used with her clitoris — movements that go up and down, side to side, and round in circles, putting them to work at various speeds and different pressures. Don’t be afraid to experiment.

One of the most effective moves is the come-to-me movement. Sit to the right of her with her legs open, and then slide two fingers of your right hand into her vagina. The move goes from the back towards you, over her G-spot. Start with a slow and gentle movement, then change it as you feel her respond. Watch for her reactions and listen for the sounds she makes, as her body will tell a lot about how arousing (or not) it is. You can help her to relax by telling her how sexy she is and by letting her know how this is turning you on. Just say what you really feel though.

With this move, eventually, she’ll relax enough and climax. Some women can even be open enough to squirt. I talk more about the how-to of this in two other stories:

Be aware though that not every woman has experienced G-spot orgasm. Once again, the reasons can be physical or psychological.

What you need to know, and what I’ve experienced myself, is that many women can start crying or feel a lot of sadness and even anger once you stimulate their G-spot. The reason for this is that the vaginal walls actually store emotions. Her expression of any emotion is just an emotional purge. It has nothing to do with you. Your role is, in fact, to just keep going with gentleness and allow her the space to express it all. In that moment, she will release, and as a result her body will open to more pleasure. So, what can happen is that she will be crying one moment and suddenly burst into one of the wildest orgasms she has ever had the next. That is all normal.

#3: The cervical orgasm

The cervical orgasm is the queen of them all, yet it’s even rarer than the G-spot orgasm. Fewer women have ever been lucky enough to experience it.

The cervix is positioned at the deepest spot of a female’s vagina. It’s the point where the uterus connects to the vagina, but you can’t penetrate it. There are many energy pathways coming from the cervix to the heart and all the way to the brain through the vagus nerve. When the cervix is stimulated, some women report feeling very intense emotions of euphoria, sadness, and bliss. It requires a lot of openness and a feeling of safety to fully let go and experience this orgasm because it really does bring experiences of ego death and overwhelming feelings of love.

Cervical orgasm’s techniques

It’ll take a way longer time to reach cervical orgasm — be ready for at least 30 minutes of stimulation on the cervix to reach this goal.

If you want to give it a go, start with doggy style or any other position that will allow you to penetrate her really deep because you need to be able to reach the other side of her vagina.

Be prepared that it can be a bit painful for her at first, and it will take some time and releasing before she’ll be able to open up fully. But it is well worth the effort!

I bet having all of this information gives you more confidence and understanding about the female body; there’s so much you can experience with your partner.

Never forget that women can mix and match the different orgasms.

Take this information and explore! And just one more note: if the woman goes through an emotional release, there is a component used in tantra called AFTERCARE. What it means is that the process she went through can make her quite vulnerable for a couple of hours. She will need an extra hug and some extra reassurance. Just be aware of that and invite her to speak up about it if necessary. This will create an extra level of safety and will allow you both to go even deeper next time.