How To Play With Her Breasts

Grab those boobs and give her the nipple orgasm.

Babe, what comes to your mind when I mention breast play? Touching boobs and a bit of licking? Well, that’s a boys’ game! There are many more tricks than that for the man who is not afraid to play. Most tutorials will invite you to be soft and loving, but that is a vile approach. I am inviting you to fully express your desires and truly take her with passion using my 5 tips. And I will also reveal to you my number one secret to make sure all these tips work like a charm.

Breast play can be very erotic and pleasurable for both men and women. We all know that men love breasts both big and small, and a few lucky women can have an orgasm from nipple stimulation alone. So go through my 5 tips and explore breast play in the bedroom tonight.

Tip #1: Massage her breasts

Coconut oil massage

Grab some coconut oil and massage her breasts. Start slow and soft and give her some time to warm up.

Instead of massaging her timidly with two or three fingers, spread your whole palm over her skin and press into the flesh. Then slide to her belly and run your hands over her hips before returning to her breasts.

Tease her this way, sliding all the way up to the back of her neck. Many women enjoy a bit of neck massage. You will soon feel her body pushing into your arms because she will be wanting more.

Deep tissue massage

Female breasts can be heavy, and there is a lot of tension that we can feel in our chest after hanging down all day long. You can help by offering a deep muscle massage. What you’re targeting here are chest muscles, not breasts as such. The breasts consist of fats, so deep tissue massage won’t do any good there. Instead, reach for the chest. Because there are muscles there you can use a bit of pressure, but be careful because it is so close to the breasts. Massage all around the breasts: on top of the chest, underneath the breasts, and on the sides.

The easiest way is to press in and do small circles. Encourage her to breathe and make sounds to release the tension. Be advised, pain is not welcome here, so you have to find the right balance. Explore different speeds and pressures. Always communicate with your partner to find out what she enjoys.

Tip #2: Pinch, pull, and roll the nipples

Nipples are sensitive and not everyone enjoys nipple play. Here is a simple test to see if she enjoys it: take your finger and circle around her nipples to see how she reacts. Ask for feedback. If she likes it, play with some pinching. It might feel painful for a second, but then it turns into a rush of pleasure. Pinch with care though.

Another way to create an exciting sensation is to pinch the nipple at the root and roll it between your thumb and your index finger. The twisting sensation is a very strong experience itself but if she can handle more, start gently pulling. Keep in mind, you have to figure out how firm you can go. Start with a scale from 1 to 5, where 1 is soft play and 5 is pushing the boundaries. Watch her body language and ask her what feels the best. At any point, you can ask where she would rate it on this scale, and eventually you will learn her preferences.

Tip #3: Play with sensations

Let’s take it to another level and bring some other sensations into play.

Ice and tea

We all know nipples react to cold by becoming aroused and firm. So mix up different temperatures and play with an ice cube on her nipples. Have a hot tea next to you so that once you’re done with the ice you can have a sip of tea to warm your mouth. Then lick and suck her breasts. You can even try blowing some air on them for a further new sensation.

Food

Give yourself permission to be creative and playful. Grab a strawberry and lightly slide it around and over her breasts and nipples. Follow it with your tongue and lick the taste of the strawberry from her body. Lastly, feed her the strawberry. This will get her juices flowing.

Mints

I know this might be a surprising one, but hear me out. You know that feeling you get when you eat a mint and inhale? The tingling in your mouth? Imagine that you can create the same sensation on her nipples. Get some mints, chew on them, and use your mouth to play with her breasts. The mint will stimulate her skin and she’ll feel a tingling and freshness all over her breasts.

Tiger balm

Tiger balm is available in most drug stores. People use it to release tension and pain from their muscles. A few minutes after use, it creates a cool sensation on the skin. This is something you can try on her breasts, and timidly on her nipples. But be careful: everyone can react differently, so perhaps you should first test it on her arm to see how she reacts.

Tip #4: Engage her whole body

Sex is not just about the genitals, so engage with the whole body even during breast play.

Tie her hands

Do you want to intensify things even more for her? Tie her hands. Many women thoroughly die for the feeling of surrendering to the partner. All the tips I gave you done with tied hands are a whole new experience. One important thing though: never abuse her trust. Do only what you have agreed on. If there is something else you want to introduce, ask her permission and never act against it. Some great advice here is to establish a safe word.

Blindfold her

Anytime we eliminate one of the senses, the receptivity of the other ones intensifies. Covering her eyes will make all her tactile sensations much more present. Plus, it’s way more fun this way, right?

Clamps

Not everyone will enjoy this, but it might be worth a try. Don’t get hung up on having special breast clamps, as there are other things you can use that are easily found around the home, such as clothespins or clips. What is important here is to check with your partner because clamps can be quite painful. Communicate all along the way. Attach the clamps, leave them there for a bit, then remove them after a while. The sensation of removing them is very arousing because the nipples become incredibly sensitive in that moment.

Feather

Just as there is rough play, there is also soft play. The magic comes when you know how to use contrast as a source of fun. Using clamps and then, for example, a feather to play with the breasts while the clamp is on can create quite a variety of sensations. Introducing a bit of tender feather-light touch intensifies her sensitivity to everything else. You can use feathers, scarves, wool, or other soft materials for this.

The magic comes when you know how to use contrast as a source of fun.

Tip #5: Sex positions for breast play

Let’s talk about how to bring breast play into your sex as well. Here are three positions that will give you a great opportunity to touch and savor her feminine beauty.

Cowgirl sex position

This is a classic but very effective position for introducing breast play. Men often grab their partner’s hips during this, but if you want to switch it up, take hold of her breasts. Not only is there plenty of room for play, but the view is very engaging as well.

Spanking sex position

This position is a slight variation of the doggy style. Not only can you penetrate your woman from behind, but you can also engage her even more with dominating slaps. And her breasts are in perfect reach.

Get on your knees and face the same direction as your partner. With your legs close together, enter her from behind. Instead of pushing her butt down, lift her closer towards you. That will allow you to control her body. Bend toward her and play with her face, pull her hair, and play with her breasts. The options are endless.

Bent spoon position

This position brings a little more variety to the classical spooning positions. Her body is super open and there is a lot of space to play with her breasts as she lies on top of you.

Lie on your back and get your partner to lie on top. Enter her and find balance. Hold her on top while having some capacity to penetrate her. The more she pulls her legs towards her chest, the shallower the penetration will be. So encourage her to relax and let go. If she arches her back, you will be able to penetrate her more deeply. When she finds her balance, use your hands to caress her breasts.

Are you thinking that breast play is boring? I doubt it.

Now as I said, there is something important you need to make all this work: it is YOU. If you are unengaged or bored, no technique will help you. Anything you do to a partner you need to enjoy yourself. All the energy and excitement and passion you want from her, give her the same. Play with her breasts with the same dedication you approach with when you want to have sex with her. Keep respecting her wishes and boundaries and she’ll go absolutely wild for it.