My Friend Revealed His Most Secret Desire to Me
I’m just shocked by what I heard
You know that friend you trust with your craziest and most unusual stories? Everyone has one, and I have mine too. But this time the tables turned and he was the one who told me a great piece of gossip — In detail, he told me his biggest secret desire and asked me, a woman, for some advice to try to help him achieve his biggest male dream.
But wait a moment, hold back your emotions, and don’t jump to hasty ideas. I wasn’t the subject of any indecent experiment or anything like that — I just listened to my friend’s “problem”, judged the situation, and tried to give some advice that could somehow help him calm his heart.
That said, I didn’t expect to find out that he had such a deep and different desire. This shocked me a lot when I found out. He may have an innocent face, but deep down he is someone who is quite “lively”, lol.
But what the hell is this desire that he has so much and doesn’t dare to fulfill? And why ask my advice on this? I bet you’re biting your nails with curiosity, and I’m going to reveal that now.
My friend’s greatest desire is: to have an intimate experience with his partner, dressed as a woman.
No, you didn’t get it wrong. Yes, he has the desire to dress up as a woman (he is straight), and wants to try “something” different with his partner when it comes to “action”.
It’s, I know, a peculiar taste. But don’t worry, you’ll understand this better from now on.
From now on I’m going to tell the whole story he told me and we’re going to discover the real reason behind this “different” fantasy that he wants to fulfill. And I’m already saying that what’s to come is really curious and fun — So, take the opportunity to reflect on this too.
Detail: he let me talk about this with you (but I will keep his name confidential for ethical reasons)
Okay, let’s start with the main point: why he wanted to dress up as a woman.
You see, everyone has a hidden repressed desire. He has his, I have mine and you have his. There are several reasons for someone to create a hidden desire, it could be due to trauma, excess stress, repressed emotions, etc. — But according to what he told me, this is something recent that started to emerge in his thoughts around 08 months. What’s more, this all started after his girlfriend handcuffed him and made him feel “dominated”.
He told me that maybe that was the trigger. After he felt the sensation of domination from his partner, he began to want to feel more of that emotion and realized then that he was enjoying the idea of being “submissive” and that made him horny.
It was then that he began to have the idea of wanting to dress like a woman, to feel more “vulnerable” and to let his girlfriend take control of the situation. But it’s not that simple — After all, he’s afraid of telling his partner this and being judged as a pervert.
In fact, this is not a topic you can talk about with your partner in a coffee shop, for example. It’s something more complex. Even worse is not knowing if she will be willing to do this for him — But taking into account everything he told me about him, her, and her turbulent relationship, I took up the cause and gave him some advice:
- He told me that his partner was open to new experiences, so I encouraged him to start slowly, giving him small ideas like asking her to dominate him, be rougher, etc.
- I also recommended that he sit down with her and talk more openly about his desires. Both he and she must understand each other to be able to better share their experiences.
- I also told him not to get so caught up in the fear of being rejected. I believe that a frank conversation is the best option for her to understand her partner’s needs and vice versa.
Overall, I didn’t have much to help with. I tried to keep him excited, I supported his goal, and I told him to talk to his partner and try to find some valid way to accomplish this — I believe he will be able to achieve his dream, but it all depends on how she will react to it all. Well, I hope everything works out for both of you.
Fun fact: After doing some online research, I ended up discovering that it’s not that rare for straight men to have the desire to dress like women. This was new to me, I never imagined this was something so common. This just shows us how big the world is and there are people with all kinds of tastes and desires. Very cool.
Ah, I just wish you would respect my friend’s “fantasy”. It may be something different, but each person has a personal taste and a desire to achieve something that they cannot tell anyone about. I consider you very strong for revealing this to me — And I will definitely help you in the best way possible to achieve your goal.
Thanks for reading. Have a great day!
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