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May</li><li>preparing an application for a coaching certification</li></ul><p id="f352">All of these tasks were stimulated by the productivity urge.</p><p id="d2f7">I was overloading myself. Also, I noted with more than a hint of regret that many of these quests to be productive were putting undue pressure on others to be productive too.</p><p id="cd85">It was time to be <i>less productive</i>.</p><p id="fb98">I set about culling my list.</p><h1 id="47d5">Forgiveness</h1><p id="fbe1">Let’s be real for a second. There’s a pandemic out there. We’re all in quarantine. A lot of people have lost their jobs and even those of us lucky to still be working have all but lost the structure to our days and weeks.</p><p id="dc2f">News cycles are punishing. Everything takes more effort. Energy levels are low. Mood can be low too. It is not a time to overload: it is a time for self-care.</p><p id="4f3b" type="7">That can actually mean doing less. And that is ok.</p><p id="3467">I began cancelling things. I cancelled the webinar on remote working. My friend who was organising it with me immediately said thank you.</p><p id="1f94">I postponed the second work-related webinar. Two work colleagues agreed it was a good idea.</p><p id="09b7">Launching the new Medium Publication is still an ambition, but I am taking my foot off the gas with that. It can happen later in the year. I forgive myself.</p><p id="0812">I am also taking the pressure off myself to write at all. I still get huge enjoyment out of writing for Serious Scrum, but my inspiration is lower, and that is ok: it always ebbed and flowed. I forgive myself for my lower rate of publication.

Illumination is a new project for me. I have no idea how much I will write here and, you know what, I forgive myself for that uncertainty as well.</p><p id="e954">Writing this feels confessional and unusual for me. It is not how I normally write. But it feels good. As I write, I forgive myself for over-sharing.</p><p id="4a1d">I hope others will recognise something in my story and perhaps begin to forgive themselves for doing less too.</p><h1 id="87bd">Distraction</h1><p id="a2be">It’s probably fair to point out: I didn’t cancel <i>everything</i>.</p><p id="e2c4">The meet-up in May was a request from a friend and the topic is one I’ve written ab

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out already, so I’m going to continue with that. My friend did ask me this weekend if I was still ok to do it, and I had an opportunity to say no. For once, I didn’t automatically dismiss the idea of saying no. I forgive myself for thinking about saying no.</p><p id="0f00">Also, I continue to be inspired to apply for a coaching certification. This is a long-term ambition of mine, and there is no time-sensitivity to the application process. I choose to take that pressure off myself now, and I also choose to forgive myself for taking my own sweet time with it.</p><p id="d7b2">I allow myself these distractions because they are meaningful to me.</p><p id="53ec">Also, without the overload of other tasks, I can do these at a pace that makes more sense to me.</p><figure id="20f5"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:800/0*IiUm2PXzVt6r4zhg"><figcaption><b>Flight Safety Instructions</b></figcaption></figure><h1 id="e2b3">Moving forward, one step at a time</h1><p id="9703">You do not <i>have to</i> be productive.</p><p id="c7d3">You need to care for yourself so that you can care for others. Watch out for the to-do list and that feeling of being a little overwhelmed. It can creep up on you.</p><p id="9383">Forgive yourself for taking on less. It’s ok.</p><p id="2b1a">Forgive yourself for your low energy. It’s ok.</p><p id="4d89">Forgive yourself for your low mood or for those days when you don’t want to do anything at all.</p><p id="5160">It’s ok to not be ok.</p><p id="b459">Flight safety instructions tell us:</p><blockquote id="a104"><p>“If you are travelling with a child or someone who requires assistance, secure your mask on first, and then assist the other person.” (Source: <a href="https://activerain.com/blogsview/2535480/put-your-own-oxygen-mask-on-first">Active Rain</a>)</p></blockquote><p id="0be5">Self-care means that, rather than feeling pressured to be more productive, you might need to go out for a walk instead.</p><p id="45ff">By taking on less and looking after yourself, you will put your figurative oxygen mask on. This will help you to breathe better.</p><p id="5277">First things first. Breathe.</p><p id="8085">If you can, cancel the things you don’t need to do right away.</p><p id="5e33">It’s ok. You can forgive yourself.</p></article></body>

EDITOR PROFILES

Meet Carrie Alice Kelly

Senior editor of ILLUMINATION Integrated Publications on Medium

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In this post, we introduce Carrie. A. Kelly who is a former English instructor transformed into instructional designer and content creator.

She’s worked as an English as a Second Language (ESL) teacher in Vietnam and traveled to over 40 countries.

Carrie has a mixed background in media, healthcare, and education. She started a postgraduate law degree during the lockdown in the United Kingdom and loves to continually learn. Her ultimate dream is to start a charity organization. She is very passionate about humanitarian issues in two places — India and Vietnam.

Carrie lives by the sea with her little white dog Alfie in the South West. She loves the therapeutic sound of the waves and finds the water inspiring. When she’s not out exploring, she loves to learn more about humanitarian issues, user interface design, plan her future travels, and cook katsu curry.

Carrie likes to write about design, technology, digital marketing, humanitarian issues, and her travel experiences. She vlogs about writing and design over on her YouTube channel.

By using her YouTube channel and writing platforms, Carrie loves to share her experiences to help new writers and teachers who wish to change their careers to writing, content development, and instructional design.

Carrie helps many writers by reviewing, proofreading, and line editing their articles. As an editor on the Illumination Integrated Publications, she enjoys reading about the experiences of writers from all over the world.

As a prolific editor, Carrie also edits articles over on the wonderful Show Your City and 24 Hours publications. I

n addition, she runs the Evolve publication with JS Adam which is a general publication that accepts all writers.

Moreover, Carrie runs The Publication Station with Nikki Waterson too, which is currently on hiatus. You may read an interview with Carrie why she writes and runs six publications.

Carrie is grateful for the opportunities that writing on Medium has brought her. She’s been able to form connections with many writers and designers. She’s gained the confidence to create a YouTube channel to help others.

Interestingly, Carrie’s gained a design content internship through her content creation. When she started to support our publications as an editor, she learned the process and tools very quickly.

After a few days, she reviewed articles, managed checking plagiarism, edited articles, and published them without supervision.

These activities made our contributing writers very happy. We are grateful for her excellent support delighting our writers and readers constantly.

We’d like to give a quick taste of Carrie’s articles selected from her large writing portfolio.

Top ten articles by Carrie on Medium

1 — I Left My Teaching Job Today

This article shares Carrie’s experience of leaving teaching for a less stressful and supportive career.

2 — How I Marketed Myself on LinkedIn and Gained 4700+ Views in 24 Hours

This article is about how Carrie achieved her initial success on LinkedIn and was able to form connections in the design and writing sectors, leading to an internship.

3 — Curation Mistakes I’m Making with My Articles

This article is about curation and distribution on Medium.

4 — How To Make Those Pesky External Views Work For You

This article is about how you can pivot your external views into potential Medium members through your profile.

5 — I Now Understand — LinkedIn is the Future

This article is a summary of Carrie’s initial LinkedIn experience.

6 — Five Unusual Korean Dishes I Want To Try

This article is a roundup about some of the unique dishes in Korea.

7 — Vocal Are Giving Out Free Memberships Again Until Feb 2022

This article is about how Carrie is going to join Vocal through their free membership offer.

8 — Why Won’t You Link Other Writers’ Articles In Your Footer?

This article is about seeking the reasons behind why some writers don’t wish to share the articles from other writers on their pieces that are submitted to Carrie’s publications.

9 — Please Read This if You Submit Old Self Published Articles to a Publication

This article shared advice in relation to submitting old self published articles to publications on Medium.

10 — I’m Deleting 80% of My Articles Today — Why You Should Do It Too

This article is about how Carrie’s focus has changed. She wants to use Medium as a portfolio to share her design and marketing-focused pieces.

Thank you for reading Carie’s stories. If you wish to connect with her, the following options are available:

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