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I’m Not a Nice Guy, But I’m a Good Guy

This might help you in your search for a good man.

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I am a gentleman and on my way to being a master in mental health, public relations, and people management.

I am not your friend. But, I’ll be the nicest person to you and around you.

I’ll also be the one to drop someone who is violent towards another person, then go have ice cream.

Bad Boys

Bad boys have a chemical imbalance in the brain. Many of them will end up in the back of police car like a dipshit. Soon after, will have tattoos on their fingers. Soon after, will be diagnosed with depression and PTSD. Soon after, will go on a downward spiral about having a bad life where he can’t stay afloat — and you’ll be with them, like a dipshitgirl.

Mafia can tear your little bad boy up, who was emotionally neglected by his parents. But, they won’t, because he doesn’t pose an actual bodily threat to them or the family. And mafia members do not end up in the back of police cars or believe what investigators say about anything. They are professionals. Professionals are not nice, but we are not bad either. We obey law that we want others to obey.

Nice Guys

Nice guys are passive. It’s hard to say anything good about them.

  • They will let you run off
  • They will let you get taken
  • They probably cannot stop you from being taken
  • They have bed issues
  • And the list goes on.

The key point about them is they have a weak grip on everything.

The Perfect Balance

This is the the perfect balance

Men of victory have scars. Always will. Men of victory are professional in ALL venues. Always will be.

Men of victory know the difference between murder and taking a life in other ways. And they will perform such duties. Bad boys are selfish and are only susceptible to doing good by accident. Nice guys are only susceptible to doing good if it lines up with holding the door for someone.

But, neither of the two will last in a third-world country.

You want a man of perfect balance. Of humility, of love, of passion, of grace, of wanting to learn all about you, and of war (I’m not talking physical combat like in the military, this is principle).

This is the only type of good guy. Bad boys are hurt and fragile. Nice guys are broken and fragile.

The perfectly developed man changes landscapes. Even if he stands alone. And even after standing his post for years, he doesn’t need validation now.

Thank you for reading! Thank you for positive comments!

Men
Mental Health
Nice Guys
Psychology
Sports
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