Every Girl You Secretly Heart the Most Has Shallowly Buried Quite a Few Problems

Uncovering what these women aren’t saying

This woman in question is an individual that has men ruining their life. She is who Dr. Louann Brizendine has described as who the brains of men lean more towards. A woman with men saving their pictures would defend himself like a hurt animal if caught looking at her in public or through a social media feed. These are individuals that, in the minds of men, are most valuable. Every country has them, and in America, I call them “The ‘Ideal’ American Woman that when a man is with her for 5 days, they think ‘I’ve made it to where all men want to be.’”

But, what is the problem?

I’ll Detail Some Situations She Finds Herself

1: Most of these “American Women” do not want their picture taken unless it was a planned event that they spent 4 hours prepping for. Their parents took a lot of pictures of her when she was a child, but not as many when she was a teen and only during Holidays now for their choreographed picture — which you’ll be expected to know is coming, or you will not be in the picture. Even some families only add spouses into the picture. She might not invite you to a Holiday event, yet.

If you try to take a picture, she loses interest and asks, “why are you taking a picture?” but in her mind, she is saying, “I don’t want to be on men’s phones. I’m tired of this.” She might transition from that to taking up a modeling contract without mentioning it. When you see the picture album, it’s only half the album, and the half you don’t see is modeling with a guy in a couple’s album.

2: We can’t detail the roots of these women’s behavior or mannerisms. There are too many. Some have a chemical imbalance in the brain that explains why. But, they have something to hide from most men and possibly a trauma diagnosis, physical or mental. You know, normal. Nature has not protected her more than anyone else, although men think nature worships her.

Nonetheless, we know that much of it comes down to her parents being very demanding and controlling to keep her safe from you vultures who will use and leave her. Everywhere she goes, she is in danger, she has come to believe. She doesn’t want to be near your friends or possibly family, either. A woman that when a man is dating her, soon wishes he wasn’t but doesn’t want her with anyone else, either.

So, her distance and not letting him in all the way is not going away. This is the same across all social statuses. It does not necessarily look different for each social status; it looks different when the parents are respected or not and have local connections. Still, the effects for the girl are similar.

Unless you are the one “pursued,” you will NOT be able to do the choosing. By “pursued,” I mean you are a man in which women will disregard other men quickly and brush them away to clearly show singlehood when you’re around so that you will approach. Respectable men don’t approach women who humor other men in giving conversation, but that’s beyond the point. Shallow women still have hidden problems, just like us all. Wait until you see them as parents.

3: Similarly to #1 above, there will be undisclosed expectations based on how you presented yourself and her idea of a relationship (which will be different from others).

3A: And the #1 component these women seek is: A 100% secure and safe place to hide while not being regulated and trusted 100%.

3Ai: And to be 100% secure, she needs house expectations for him, him to be completely independent financially, and him already knowing about her psychologically (which I can write another whole story on how to navigate that, too).

3Aii: To delve deeper, and hit the root, we are talking about her needing therapy. But it’s REAL hard to walk into a place where the sign reads something about mental health or counseling. Some call it “humbling,” and others call it “embarrassing.” Make no mistake, all 3 components in the 3Ai drop-down section are talking point expectations in my book.

You see if you put someone to a level that must be kept, AND that would change by any unpreventable accident such as a car accident, then you love the idea of a relationship and not the person. I get it; no one wants to be alone.

Nonetheless, this works for MANY women (maybe not even 51%), but it adds a level of pressure and stress to the men. Each and every time. Some of the time, the men can withstand the elements, and probably most of the time, men cannot. This is where adultery comes in, adding to her psychological measure/behavior/mannerism that trusts less in the next relationship.

I Know, It’s Sad

So, why is it this way? It’s because, just like men, the whole world wants her. That’s a lot of unwanted attention! That does a lot with the brain. Instead of preparing her, her parents boxed her up. She just wants to live her life normally, but she can’t.

To Women Dating Men

This situation still is good for you. If the men cannot fully pursue you in mind, body, learning, and spirit, then it’s best for you if they just go.

Secondly, men will not be attracted to who nature has created them to be. They are still attracted to you, but their brain does not automatically shift to “family” and “faithful” as yours does. There is A LOT of psychological science behind your brain and his. Both are needed for a family, but men are meant to be the perimeter defenders, and there are some aspects that are much different. Defenders and protectors have a degree of death involved. The mother of the family is the only glue the family has.

I want to leave you with this sad reality:

Most men would still leave the lifetime girl for a shot at the “American Girl” (and the most pursued of other countries, too), even when the shot is literally 1/300 guys. In the chance she settles with him (because settling is what she’s doing because women hold the power), he will soon realize she cannot give him the American dream. She has unresolved barriers. She might not even know it.

Only you can ❤️. The mentally and spiritually healthy woman can give the American Dream; no one else can. Nature says the woman who can be a lovely mother, wife, and house manager is the most valuable. To note: physical health does have a degree of nature survival in it, which adds to subconscious male selection based on natural law. Men can’t see your cancer; thus their brain can only gear one way — visuality.

Conclusion

The chances of men finding their version of the American Girl, who doesn’t look bad without makeup, is that one chance in his life that has already passed him by. Nonetheless, visuality will always be in a man’s head. He has to have the initiative to not feed it without your prompting, or you become his mom in his head. A bad placement category to be for you.

Do not feel or act like you are less than other women, be fully woman in all its power. Comparison is unattractive, be feminine competitive, and confident. Or you’ll be in the same boat as the women we just talked about.

Thank you for reading! Thank you for the positive comments!! Thank you for sharing!!!

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