If I “Pull Away” From You Part II
One More Reason

Shaky is very subtle and is extremely hard to pinpoint.
Similar to the “salesman” is shaky. Shaky is when a man legitimately thinks he likes you and could love you in relationship. After a while, long or short while, he begins to fade for a reason he cannot think of. We know there is always a neurological or psychological reason, he cannot pinpoint why, though.
Shaky comes from his shaky life. His life was grand, as a single man. When another person comes into the picture he then sees, subconsciously, that his life cannot hold them. This is similar to the male personality type Quitter, as stated here:
But this one is not quite like that. It’s just that this ended up being in a relationship that he does not feel like he is the right part for it and maybe in a different life if he chose different paths in the course of his journey, the relationship could have worked in his mind.
So, it’s not quite a quitter, he just never knew how much he coasted in his current life. It’s possible for him to kick it into gear; but that requires kicking it into gear and learn to love a woman.
What it might look like
This could look like when his life does not line up with her dreams and he comes to feel as if he just liked her as a woman, but “pulling away” from the facets of her world at the same time. He loses interest because he feels he will pull her down.
He still likes her, even loves maybe, just cannot grab onto the ropes. Again, this goes back to the components of his life, more so, his occupation.
I know this point was way psychological and maybe over some heads, but it is a true point. This is just one reason why communication is so important. And why a good communication connection is foremost in any potential relationship.
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