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I No Longer Chase After Happiness

You were never meant to pursue that manifestation

I have come to the place in my life where I no longer feel the need to chase after happiness or rush anything, so I can finally be satisfied. Because, damn, I am already happy.

I no longer force others to accept me, love me, because I am already whole. I have found it through self-love and self-acceptance.

I no longer hold grudges or regrets not doing things differently. Instead, I appreciate the route I have traveled and make the most of the lessons given. I enjoy and relish in the process of becoming. Since I have created my past, I can observe and change my beliefs to mindfully design the future.

Living in the end

The key to any manifestation is to live, think and feel like you already have that desire. Precisely: when you wake up and prior to falling asleep. Preferably: as much as you can.

You must participate in the imaginary action, not merely stand back and look on, but FEEL that you are actually performing the action, so that the imaginary sensation is real to you.

— Neville Goddard

Since you already have what you wanted for so long, how do you feel?

• relieved
• at ease
• satisfied
• like you can take over the world
• kind and generous to anyone because all your dreams came true

The best technique to enter that state of having it is to experiment and find what works for you. In the end, whatever you believe becomes true in your reality. It may be visualization, scripting, affirming, journaling, and whatever you come up with that works for you.

Stop chasing, and become it

Receiving is paying attention to what you already have, as staying grateful is the ultimate state of reception. How come we tend to apply the opposite approach? When did we lose ourselves in the never-ending pursuit of more?

Once you go for something you don’t have, you are chasing it.

Chasing brings resistance into our life. When you are pursuing, you are also introducing pressure, and quantum physics states that if two atoms are pressed together, they cannot coexist with one another. They are being pulled apart. So whenever you are burdened with unrelenting pressure to achieve, you are simultaneously repelling it.

Chasing is always connected with a desire for something we do not have. Think about the message you are sending out to the Universe: I am lacking it, which I think about frantically.

Desire stems from the place of lack.

Lack is born out of fear. Lack is an illusion. You cannot create from the place of lack. Otherwise, you can only multiply more of it.

What is more, chasing means building the foundation for your happiness on the external outcomes, and you cannot change anything within yourself while relying on the external. If you are not truly satisfied with the current situation, no outside condition will change that in the longer run. It is your perception that may change your state of being, therefore your point of attraction.

How to deal with unfavorable circumstances?

Whenever undesirable conditions pop up in your 3D, remind yourself that this is only temporary, as your past beliefs have created the current situation. Since you are already affirming your new state into being, persist in the absolute knowing that whatever you wish to have, whoever you wish to be, is just a matter of changing your assumptions. Persist no matter what. Your 3D world is just a distraction, not a condition for your beliefs.

When you allow for worrying thoughts: why it is not here, doubting how something may come, you are stuck in the wishing situation. You are operating from the place of lack, so nothing new can enter. Your reality responds to your state of being and not sheer luck or coincidence.

Think how powerful you are. Since you have already created your current reality, with mindfulness and deliberate awareness you can change your circumstances around to your liking by trusting in your abilities and the power of the mind.

You want to have a good time on your way to the manifestation

When you go on holiday or even a gateway weekend to the beach, you want to have fun throughout the journey. You want to savor the landscapes when driving there. You feel the thrill at the thought of packing your suitcase with great bikinis and playful outfits. You compose a playlist to listen to while driving there, sing in the car. You want to stop on your way to enjoy some coffee. Those little things make the journey interesting.

Following that thinking, apply the same mindset to your manifestation journey. Whenever you cultivate the desire for something, approach it with the mantra: I am already there, I am just having fun along the way. This mindset puts everything in a different perspective. You get to see the whole picture, not just the missing pieces of it.

We tend to see the glass half empty. We focus on obstacles, what-ifs, or the reality of the current situation (a result of previous beliefs). Consequently, they throw us off, failing to understand the whole picture. Such an attitude will not bring you closer to the dream.

• I acknowledge I may not be where I want to be. However, it will not stop me from having fun along the way and reaching that goal.
• I am getting there. In fact, I am already there. 3D has no bearing on my beliefs.
• I am already healed. I am nurturing my body to extraordinary health, and I will make the most of it to have fun on my way.

Your life is a never-ending journey. There is no destination you need to reach. Do not sacrifice your contemporary well-being to reach the potential carrot-on-the-stick: joy. You were never meant to chase happiness in the first place. You were meant to discover it, no matter the external conditions. No matter the social media status. No matter the opinion of somebody else.

You want to cherish your journey to the perfect relationship. You want to grow so that you can match your potential partner. You don’t want to get into a messy partnership. If anything, life has taught me is that everything happens for the right reasons, at the right time, as long as you believe in your worthiness and the power of creating your reality. No coincidences. No missteps.

When you elevate your emotions into a positive state by claiming that you already have that desire, relief and ease wash over you. In that state, your whole day unfolds differently than you would be stressed out or irritated, right? You can operate from the place of clarity and abundance because you already own whatever you have been seeking. Isn’t that the best reason to live in the end? When you feel good, you do good.

Thank you for reading!

I write to empower and inspire with self-love. Your biggest strength lies in your authenticity, so embrace the whole package. Wear your unique attitude proudly.