How To Become A Masculine Man: The Mindset Method
Invisible to women? What I learned after nearly a decade of change
So 7 years ago I’m working this minimum wage job at my college library right?
It finally hits my 15, so I decide to grab a cappuccino from across the street.
The coffee there literally tastes like raw dirt. But I’m in love with this baddie that works there.
So I go faithfully.
Of course, I can’t talk to her.
But still.
Anyways I’m chillin enjoying my trash coffee when this dude walks in…
He’s at least 6'2 dressed in all black linen with some pristine white Nikes.
He radiates money.
(Def isn’t a brokie peon like me)
So I can’t help but watch this guy from across the room…
He orders.
Chats up my crush.
Gets her number.
Leaves.
Effortlessly.
I’m here feeling like Kendrick’s fourth album.
How?
It took me a few years, but I finally realized that I was an unactualized man.
In other words…
A giant baby.
So I made the effort to swap out my pissy pampers for some Hanes.
In the process, I gained a completely new mindset on masculinity.
Here are the 3 lessons that changed me:
#1: SUPERHERO MINDSET
Look at yourself in the mirror.
What do you see?
Is it a broke dumb ugly loser?
Guess what?
YOU’RE WRONG.
Change your self-perception right now.
Because the way you see yourself becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Pygmalion Effect.
In other words…
If you even momentarily think that you’re unattractive and undeserving of beautiful women…
It becomes reality.
You can get anyone.
Feminine women are attracted to masculine confidence.
So shift your subconscious.
How?
Alter your self-talk.
Challenge your insecurities and do this:
I’m broke = I have a high income potential.
I’m ugly = I’m on a self-improvement journey.
I’m dumb = I’m learning everyday.
Everyone has their own story arc.
Nobody starts at 100.
That would be meaningless.
You are a superhero in the making.
Once you KNOW that you are HIM…
Women will become obsessed over you.
#2: NO WHITE FLAGS
Confidence and positive thinking is a prerequisite to masculinity.
These two qualities alone separate the boys from men.
But rules are determined by reality.
Action is required for success.
Women HATE whiners and complainers.
Despite what you hear…
Nobody wants to date a man child.
If you are of sound body and mind — there is no sympathy.
So:
STOP COMPLAINING
START SOLVING
Our forefathers used to work relentlessly in factories for 16 hours days.
Before that, they fought in wars.
Our problems are not life vs death.
You really only have two options:
A) Accept the cards you were dealt.
B) Fight to create your own luck.
So keep pushing.
#3: PURPOSE IN PAIN
Average men waste their paycheck on junk food, drugs, and OnlyFans.
But you’re not average, right?
Masculine men never distance themselves from suffering.
In fact, they embrace it.
Why are women so attracted to firefighters, doctors, and athletes?
All of them conquered pain through purpose and made something of themselves.
Anyways…
It’s not that deep.
I’ll have you decide for yourself.
Which is more attractive:
A) A man who overcomes unimaginable pain to achieve greatness
B) A man who cries and complains because life requires effort.
The women you want are thinking the same.
Masculinity Tips:
- Practice positive self-talk and visualize success.
- Create monthly goals and a roadmap to reach them.
- Study tragic optimism
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