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Stephenie Magister's Medium page is a comprehensive digital library of her writings, covering a wide range of topics including personal memoirs, short stories, interviews, transgender advocacy, pop culture analysis, writing advice, and more.

Abstract

The website presents an extensive collection of articles and essays by Stephenie Magister, a transgender author, editor, and film critic. The content is organized into various categories such as memoir shorts, short stories, interviews, transgender advocacy, and storytelling hacks. Magister shares her personal experiences, including her journey through trans conversion therapy and her life as a trans woman and mother. She also offers insights into writing and storytelling, with a focus on empowering diverse voices in media. Additionally, the page features a blend of humor, serious reflection, and critical commentary on pop culture, including movies, TV, and comic books, all while maintaining a strong advocacy for transgender rights and representation.

Opinions

  • Magister's writings convey a strong personal narrative, particularly regarding her experiences with gender identity and trans conversion therapy.
  • She expresses the importance of representation and diversity in media and storytelling, emphasizing that representation matters more than the quality of the story itself.
  • The author provides critical analyses of popular culture, reimagining characters and narratives through a queer/trans lens, suggesting alternative interpretations and highlighting the need for more inclusive storytelling.
  • Magister offers practical advice for writers, including tips on crafting synopses, understanding genre fiction, and creating compelling characters and conflicts.
  • The page reflects a blend of humor and seriousness, with sections dedicated to memes and fun exercises alongside more somber discussions of trauma and healing.
  • She

Everything I’ve Written On Medium (updated every Sunday except this one)

Come with me and we’ll be in a library of pure imagination

Graphic made by author, photos from Minator Yang and Jean-Philippe Delberghe on Unsplash

The easiest way to support me is to read as much of my stuff as possible. Fortunately, I’ve got it all collected and categorized for you in this digital library.

I won’t hate you if you skip to the memes at the end first. As long as you come back up top for my memoir shorts :)

TABLE OF CONTENTS WHAT’S NEW MEMOIR SHORTS SHORT STORIES INTERVIEWS TRANSGENDER SOAPBOX DEAR CISTERS TRANSITIONING WITH A QUEER TRANS MOM TRAUMA, HEALING, AND RECOVERY POP CULTURE, MOVIES, TV, COMIC BOOKS STORYTELLING HACKS TRUE CRIME IN PUBLISHING FUN AND GAMES MEMES, MEMESELF, AND MIMES THE END (DAMN GIRL, THAT’S DARK) How to Support Your Girl (that’s me)

WHAT’S NEW

How Sex Works For Boys In Mental Institutions

The Same Person Without Hormones Vs With Testosterone Vs With Estrogen

Gender Hacks: The Transition Toolkit

#MyFirstTime

Requiring A Doctor’s Note For Gender-Affirming Medical Care Is Stupid

Dance Lessons — Part 1 Dance Lessons — Part 2

Two Classic Comic Strips Reimagined On The LGBTQ Spectrum

The Far Side (Of The LGBTQ Spectrum)

Christopher Nolan’s INCEPTION Wouldn’t Exist Without These Three Movies

Transgender Doctor Jekyll And Mr. Hyde Is Coming To A Theater Near You

Kiefer Sutherland Improvised Audition In Bar, Snatched Cult Classic Film Role

MEMOIR SHORTS

Photo by Aziz Acharki on Unsplash, graphic and selfie by author

Dear Diary: I Am Trash (surviving trans conversion therapy)

Dear Diary: I am Trash (the video essay)

I Was Today Years Old When I Understood My Family Sent Me to Trans Conversion Therapy

My Daily Routine In Trans Conversion Therapy Saved My Life

What Do I Do Now That The World Didn’t End? (…yet)

What I Am Not Is Not What I Am

That One Time my Beard Saved my Life

The Book I Risked My Job To Publish

KITE

SHORT STORIES

Photos by Timothy Meinberg, JV,and Alan Chen

Burned into the Night (Queerly Trans)

INTERVIEWS

Graphics and selfies by author with photoshopped Pennywise, Inception, and Christopher Nolan elements

A conversation on STEPHEN KING with: Jeffrey Reddick, creator of Final Destination (no way!); Diana Ossana, screenwriter for the film adaptation of Brokeback Mountain (OMG!!!); and Stephenie Magister (me!), director of a high school short film that deserved better than a B-

My first featured article at Script Magazine!!

Who tf is Stephenie Magister? (that’s me! a transgender success…ish story)

TRANSGENDER SOAPBOX

Graphics by author

**** YOU!! Five Love Letters to Five Hateful People

What Joe Rogan Got Wrong About Michael Jackson

DEAR CISTERS (an advice column more like Dear Abbey than the Savage Lovecast…except trans)

Selfies and graphics by author

Dear Cisters: Why does everyone keep telling me to stop JAQing off?

Dear Cisters: the false self

Dear Cisters: I’ve never seen JK Rowling hurt anyone, so why won’t you shut up about it?

Dear Cisters fan mail (YAY!!) from JK Rowling fans (uh-oh…)

Dear Cisters: Why do trans people get upset about the wrong things?

Dear Cisters: Why did a trans person block me when I just wanted to discuss their rights and safety?

Dear Cisters: Shouldn’t liberals be willing to compromise on trans issues if it protects cisgender people?

Dear Cisters: What’s the big deal about calling them trans women?

Dear Cisters: How do you voice concerns about trans people without getting lumped in with the transphobes? (Ten Trans Questions #7)

Dear Cisters: What if I just hate how men look in dresses?

Ten Extremely Bigoted Questions Most People Ask Anyway (including you)

Dear Cisters: Do good parents raise their kids to think of elephants? (Strict Fathers vs Nurturant Parents)

Dear Cisters: How do I get past whether my kid can stop being trans?

Why people are losing their minds about Harry Potter and JK Rowling AGAIN

Dear Cisters: How do I tell my child that Harry Potter’s mom abuses women and children?

Dear Cisters: Resorting JK Rowling

Dear Cisters: Has every trans person shown signs since childhood?

Dear Cisters: Ask your cis-gender friends this question TODAY

Dear Cisters: How do I get past wishing I had transitioned at a younger age?

Dear Cisters: How to ignore losers and harassers while practicing your trans voice

Dear Cisters: Is it okay to laugh at a man dressed as a woman if they aren’t trans?

Dear Cisters: Should cis writers tell trans stories?

Dear Cisters, you (probably) transitioned too

TRANSITIONING WITH A QUEER TRANS MOM

Selfies and graphics by author

Gender Hacks: How To FEEL Your Transition

Cool Trans Videos On YouTube to Fill Your Downtime (Vol 1)

Top Ten Vocal Feminization Videos

Claim Your Gender As Boldly (And Fluidly) As Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson

May Your Journey With Gender & Pregnancy Be As Fluid As Arnold Schwarzenegger’s

Does Trans You Need a Trans Mom Today?

Seven Great Reads to Get You Through Today’s Dysphoria

Gender Hacks: the Cookbook Method

Jobs with Six-Figure Salaries for Trans Folks (according to Reddit)

An article where all you do is go to the comments, clap for the person ahead of you, and leave a positive comment about them

Dear Cisters: Fun Trans Voice Feminization Exercise (two magic words)

You’ve Got Me Feeling EMOTIONS (fun trans voice exercise)

A message from a queer trans mom

TRAUMA, HEALING, AND RECOVERY

Photo elements from Unsplash by Sander Sammy, Noah Buscher. Sydney Simms, selfie on right by author

All of My Articles On Being Raised By Narcissists (and put through trans conversion therapy)

A new name for A-N-X-I-E-T-Y

Seven Quotes About Narcissistic Abuse Everyone Should Memorize

Is Someone Hurting You?!? Fast Phrases for Easy Boundaries

Writers for Hope Donor Spotlight

Reasonable Responses to Unreasonable People (insufferable bigots, transphobes, racists, abusers, narcissists, the cat you forgot to feed…)

POP CULTURE, MOVIES, TV, COMIC BOOKS

Graphic photoshopped by author

Watch This Movie If You Loved The Good Place

Let’s Rewatch Iron Man (2008) With Mario As The Main Character

How To Literally Defend Yourself With A Book (the Ancient Art of BookShido)

Why THE VILLAGE (2004) is M Night Shyamalan’s Only True Horror Movie

If You Were Confused By DOCTOR STRANGE IN THE MULTIVERSE OF MADNESS…

Why did Sunny in Hulu’s THE DROPOUT seem so familiar?

Which Character Did You Relate To Most In These 18 Movies?

Five TV/Movie Posters You’ll Wish Were Real (And Five You’ll Be Glad Aren’t)

Avengers: Age of Consent

Let the movie JUNO speak for trans men and non-binary people

CW (almost) SOLD! Superman and Lois could undergo potentially dramatic reimagining

I can’t believe ScreenRant let me publish these…

Did David Lynch secretly make a Superman movie?

Movies that make you go WTF?! (repeat viewings of Primer rewarded)

And the Oscar goes to…Benevolent Chauvinism

A Former Addict Named Desire

Three Stories about Ten Queer Girls (and two queer boys) Discovering Their True Power

Superman and Lois just gave a HUGE nod to Superman ’78 (and a bunch of other cool easter eggs)

The Greatest Anime Bible Story Ever Told (Superbook Classic Anime S1E3 “The Flood”)

The most offensive moment in THE BATMAN (2022)

The Movie that Sabotaged Sister Act 3

Additional Reading for Sister Act 3/Theodore Rex

The only reason you’re not watching IS IT CAKE?! is because you think it’s easy to tell if it’s cake

Superman said WHAT about Mental Health?!

The unproduced sequel to THE ROCK we’ll unfortunately never see

HEAT and the baked goods of a good genre mashup (AKA the last good movie Michael Mann ever made)

Brightburn does what the Snyderverse couldn’t (how to make sure your genre mashup doesn’t suck)

YOU’VE GOT MAIL’S SECRET TWIST ENDING (trying and failing to save a movie about a gaslighting villain)

Is THE WHITE LOTUS a comedy or a tragedy?

THE (thematic) PLOT OF THE MATRIX 4 REVEALED!

COMMENTARY ON COMMENTARY: The Invisible Man (2020)

QUEER/TRANS RETELLINGS OF POPULAR CHARACTERS

Graphics photoshopped by author

Avengers: gEnderGame (Phase 1)

When Harry Met Harry

Wait…the Little Mermaid was trans?

Wait…Doctor Strange is non-binary?? (SPECIAL GUEST: non-binary literary agent Naomi Davis)

Wait…the Ancient One was trans? (MCU: Doctor Strange)

If you think Loki is evil, wait until you meet this guy

Wait…Batman is trans?? (the video)

Wait…Batman is trans?? (the article)

Elseworlds: What if Superman were trans?

STORYTELLING HACKS

Graphic by author from screenshot of Beauty & the Beast (Disney)

Eight Things to Listen to When Writing (other than music and TV)

Buy This Book TODAY (So You Can Read It Tomorrow)

Six books you need to read NOW! (the seventh one isn’t mine)

The book I risked my job to publish

Dear Writers: What are the primary emotions readers need to experience in Women’s Fiction (and maybe Romance)?

Dear Writers: Why you should rewrite your synopsis TODAY (it’s your most important selling tool)

Dear Writers (and haters): The Last Jedi is a masterclass on goals/motivations/conflicts

Dear Writers: How to grab your reader by the gut

Dear Writers: Just the Questions from the sci-fi/fantasy course

Dear Sci-fi/Fantasy Writers: Don’t write your book until you answer these questions

Dear Writers: Representation Matters More Than Whether A Story Is Good

Dear Writers: Unlock Your Book’s Secret Synopsis

Dear Writers: How to Write the Perfect Meet-cute

Dear Writers: How to Write (good) Character Conflict

Dear Writers: You 100% don’t understand your genre

Dear Writers: Why Genre Fiction is More Important Than Ever

Dear Writers: MINARI and the Break into Act II

Dear Writers: Three Tips to Write BCCs/Blurbs for Best-selling Books

Visceral Reaction Progressions: the secret to perfect pacing and deep POV

Dear Writers: Twelve Tough Storytelling Truths from Stephen King’s ON WRITING

Dear Writers: What makes a story feel true?

TRUE CRIME IN PUBLISHING

Does it matter whether Stephen King is a goddamn liar?

Does it matter whether your favorite writer is a goddamn liar?

How to fraudulently sue your publisher for millions (and win!!)

FUN AND GAMES

Screenshot from Avengers: Endgame, photo by Max Harlynking, by Zdeněk Macháček, Rudolfo Spott, and BP Miller on Unsplash

The Best Possible Video Game For THE FLASH Already Hit The Indie Best-Seller List

Super Mario Bros: What Does Your Favorite Power Up Say About Your Personality Type?

How To Win Monopoly Every Time (and lose your friends…every time)

Remember that stupid $#@!ing mobile game Flappy Bird? This other game is just like that!

MEMES, MEMESELF, AND MIMES

Graphics made by author, photoshopped elements from Avengers: Endgame, Toy Story, The Dropout, and Grumpy Cat Meme (see articles for further credits)

Ten New Trans Memes to Brighten Your Day

Ten More New Extremely Queer Memes

Twelve Extremely Confusing Gifs

Wait…Thanos invested in Theranos?

Wait…Thanos is running for President?

THE END (DAMN GIRL, THAT’S DARK)

Photo by author

Stephenie Magister is a transgender author, teacher, writing coach, business owner, and mother of one daughter in college (with three fur babies at home). Her work has been featured in Writer’s Digest, Script Magazine, and ScreenRant (offsite links). She uses her ten plus years of experience to empower diversity throughout media. She has served as a managing editor for magazines, an acquiring and developmental editor for USA Today best-selling and award-winning authors, and as a general media consultant helping storytellers in all formats find their voice and monetize their brand. She continues to run Stephenie Edits, serves as an editor for Impacting Millions and Inkers Con, and manages her Medium columns for Transgender Soapbox, Dear Cisters, and random quizzes to tell you what your favorite Mario Power Up says about your personality type.

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