Editors Are Not Trying to Hurt You
They are not the big bad
You’ve done it. You finished that one article that you have been spending a long time on. But it was because of the work, not for lack of skill. You give it another read, then you submit it.
Writing is important to you. I get it. It’s important to me, too.
You get an email back, and it is not the one you were expecting. It has come back with notes. ‘But why?’ you think. ‘I spent a lot of time researching and I even proofread it.’
What do you do?
Lower Your Defenses
The editor is not attacking your article, and especially not you. Most of the time, they just want the story done so they can get it published. If someone is editing your work, know that they are most likely professional and know their stuff.
Unless they flat out insult you or yell at you, they probably did not intend the criticism you heard.
Own it
Realize that not everything you create is a masterpiece. Unless it is a misinterpretation of voice, email back and say, ‘Thank you.’ Don’t defend against the suggested changes, apply them and re-read the piece. They will most likely improve your piece.
It might even make you a better writer.
Persevere
Any successful writer will tell you that success is not immediate, nor is it forever.
It is not owed to you.
Like any job, you need to keep at it. Practice. Practice. Practice. The more criticism you hear means the more you have put your work out there and the easier it will get to take criticism.
Writers are sensitive. If we weren’t at least sensitive to what our readers want, then we wouldn’t be writers. All that said, don’t take it personally. If you do, find a different profession or hobby.
Reference:
I have contributed to the publications Illumination, An Idea (An Ingenious Piece), Tell Your Story, and Fellowship of Writers.
My fiction can be found on Vocal: Vulture Writer
Poetry:
On Illumination and An Idea (An Ingenious Piece)
Zombie Bait: Pieces of my brain for you to digest- A book of poems Kindle Edition






