Blowjobs Aren’t Just About Sucking

Giving good head is about making love to a man’s entire pubic region.

Men often compliment me on my blowjob skills. That’s because, for me, giving head isn’t just about sucking. It’s about making love to a man’s entire pubic region. It’s about making love to him.

Below are a few of the techniques that I include in every blowjob I give that have nothing to do with sucking. Instead I focus on “worshipping” a man’s body as part of the act of fellatio.

Doing so not only heightens the pleasure I can give a man, but it’s even more pleasurable for me.

Kiss from the ankles up

I always start every blowjob session by first kissing a man’s legs. I like to begin at his ankles and then kiss up from there.

I plant soft pecks on his calves while I caress his thighs. Then I continue to kiss upward until I reach his pubic region.

But don’t think I rush to put his penis into my mouth. No, I prolong the anticipation by kissing around his penis.

Then I keep kissing upward, past his navel, to his chest. There, I circle his nipples with my tongue until I move back down his belly again. Only then am I ready to concentrate on his cock.

But I don’t start sucking just yet. No, a man must wait patiently for the final act.

Lick the vein

Before I put a man’s penis into my mouth, I also like to run my tongue up and down the length of the vein on the underside of his shaft.

You have no idea how much a man’s phallus twitches when I do this. Apparently this vein is extremely sensitive.

Lick the balls

Licking the balls is another important part of any blowjob I give.

After I run my tongue over the surface of the vein on the underside of a man’s penis, I like to dive down to tend to his scrotum.

First, I run my tongue over his ball sack. Then I take each one of his testicles into my mouth, sucking on his gonads gently.

I also lick each testicle tenderly with my tongue as I suck on them. Trust me, this drives my lovers mad with desire.

Use the hands

My hands also come into play during every blowjob I give. While I make love to my guy’s testicles with my mouth, I like to reach up to stroke his shaft.

And then, after I’m done licking his balls, I continue to jack his cock before I ever put it into my mouth.

I get both hands involved. Wrapping both of my palms around my man’s phallus, I caress it up and down.

Usually the only issue then is trying to make sure a man doesn’t come too soon before I actually get to suck him.

Use flavored lube

While playing with my man’s cock with my hands, I always add extra lube. Because the point of all this attention to his penis is to eventually put it into my mouth, I always utilize a flavored lube.

The flavored lube ensures that once I finally suck my man’s penis, the experience will be much more palatable.

Lick just the tip

When I’ve decided it’s time to finally put my lover into my mouth, I don’t suck in his penis all the way. I like to tease my lover first by only licking the tip of his cock.

To do this, I run my tongue around the glans head of his penis. It’s also very erotic when his pre-cum drips out, and I’m right there to lap it up.

At some point I may actually take the tip of his penis into my mouth, but don’t think I just start sucking his entire length. No, I continue to tease him by only sucking the tip.

As I titillate him with my lips, his cock hardens, and the more sensitive he becomes. This means he’ll get off even more when I do finally take his shaft all the way into my mouth.

Always get consent first

The brain is our biggest sex organ. Communication is not only the best way to discuss expectations and limits about any blowjob session before it happens, but talking about giving head also heightens arousal between partners.

Discussing consent is also the only way to make sure both partners feel comfortable with the proposed activities.

In my opinion, that’s what sex is all about — more hot fun for both partners.