7 Unchartered Habits that can lead you to happiness

Habits are an essential part of life, and they help you grow faster when you use them right.

From the very beginning, I have witnessed “habits” make so much difference if you’re using them correctly because your actions are results of your habits. They guide you towards a peaceful life and to build better relationships.

As you know that everyone on this planet wants to live a peaceful life; no one wants to face problems or live in poverty or chaotic life.

If you’re not living happily; then what you are doing? Just ask yourself.

This article is not for reading; you must check and apply these things in your life because I only write about — what I a learned with time.

Why are habits important?

First of all, you must understand this. Your habit controls your actions, and your actions lead you towards success and failures.

If you are seeking success than you must watch at your habits.

Well Quoted by Mahatma Gandhi Ji:

Your beliefs become your thoughts, Your thoughts become your words, Your words become your actions, Your actions become your habits, Your habits become your values, Your values become your destiny.” ― Gandhi

These lines clearly explain everything; every action depends on your thoughts — and your endless thoughts turn into actions.

The same goes for developing new habits; you must repeatedly do whatever you want to add to your life because later, that thing will add to your life as a habit.

Generally, people ignore this fact due to the absence of awareness; they never understand the reason behind the miserable things that are happening to them.

Do you know the reasons behind your failures?

I think you know? — Your “habits” are the reason for your failure as well as for your success.

If I talk about only habits and their types — it will be impossible because the list is very long, and the reader may choose to ignore the article.

So, I am writing only a few habits that are crucial for everyone.

Why do you need to change your habits?

Suppose you have a habit of eating spicy food, since childhood, but now it’s hurting your stomach and causing health issues.

What’ll you do? You’ll try to change it because that’s the only solution.

The same goes for your habits that you must update them within time.

If you do not update them, then they will produce unwanted results for you in the future.

Let’s starts with habits;

1. Rise early and try to generate some sound thoughts.

I know — a lot of you do not believe in rising early — because nowadays people who do nothing are more famous than who put up their life on the line Because no one wants to be a monk who chants in the morning.

I think you must change your belief; likewise, monks are more peaceful and energetic than lazy people.

Usually, people neglect the importance of rising early because of the workload they are handling and the problems they are facing in their life. And that’s the wrong approach.

Why?

The reason is simple Rising-early solves several health concerns like depression, anxiety, and pain in your head.

Even Robin Sharma has written a book about waking up early “5 am club” .

What are the advantages of early wake-ups?

You’re well aware of all gurus and spiritual people — who wake early because of the specific importance of mornings. It’s written in our religious books that morning have different vibes than other parts of the day. And now it’s scientifically proven.

There are two best times in a day — mornings and evenings.

You have felt these — during mornings and evenings; you naturally become peaceful and cheerful if you are not involved in any conflict.

Morning time also knows as Amrit-vela (Time of honeydew) and Brahmmurat (Brahma idol), and science has proven it’s the best time for humans to wake up because your mind becomes more stable and your acts become more purposive of life.

2. Think right instead of thinking positively.

Thinking positive has become a disease — some mentors and Gurus are forcing people to think positive in every situation of life.

Even though you’re not feeling good about something, then also, you have to think positive, this is kind of a drag.

Suppose you are a student of a professional engineering college and you have spent a lot of money on your degree. And now you have opened a garage, and customers are not visiting your garage.

What will you do? You will think positive — which means you’ll wish for more accidents or more vehicles to get impaired.

It’s good for you and your work, but not for others; you must think right in this situation, try to promote your shop instead of wishing for more vehicles to get impaired.

You must try to think right instead of positive, and that’s the key — positive thinking plus right thinking.

3. Gain good habits of others instead of gaining bad ones.

The truth is — what we look in others; slowly, we start gaining that — it’s commonly known as “imitations”.

As most people believe we are advanced monkeys, even famous scientists say so, that’s why we’ve made ourselves monkeys. We are trying to imitate others without knowing the consequences.

For example — if you follow any artist or an actor; you will try to copy his way of living, his clothing style, his hairstyle, and even if he smokes, you will also try that too.

What does it indicate?

This simply means — you’re stupid. You are getting so influenced by someone that you’re trying to destroy your life.

So, you need to be very careful while learning things from others because they’ll be going to affect your life in the long run.

only gain good habits from others.

In my views, you must develop habits that make your life easy and complete, because the habits that you gain from others may not shoot your lifestyle.

In the same way, if you want to enjoy your life, then you must develop habits that are good for you.

4. Try to figure out what makes you feel alone.

A lot of people face this problem being alone — because of that; they push themselves into depression without any awareness.

Depression is caused by overthinking or by creating negative thoughts against the self.

Suppose you are alone and criticising yourself for everything. And forcing yourself to leave this world — trying to avoid people this shows you’re a victim of depression.

Quote;

If you’re alone, and not in a pleasant then it means you’re in the wrong company.

I think you can relate?

You must check your thoughts while you’re alone because that’s very important; otherwise, you’ll just end up wasting your entire life for nothing.

If you’re getting wrong thoughts whenever you’re alone, then you must change that because you’re inviting trouble for yourself.

Try to create some positive thoughts instead of getting influenced by negative thoughts that your brain is pushing at you.

5. Keep a journal and read what written last month.

It’s my favourite task; I keep a journal of my daily doings, and this helps me memorise things plus increases my awareness of what I went through in the past days.

In my opinion, it’s the best form of motivation for a person — because each day is different and you’re getting better every single day.

Writing daily also improves content writing skills and provides you with an idea of your mistakes and improvements.

When I started writing — I was awful at it, but by writing daily, my articles improved, and my tone in my articles also improved. And I am still working on it.

In my opinion, keeping a journal is the best way to correct your mistakes. And it also lends me motivation whenever I need because whenever I feel demotivated I just scroll back pages of my journal and reads them — they tell me that your last month was worst than this, lol.

I just Laugh at my previous month’s details and feels good after reading them, that I have made progress as compared to last month.

Mostly I scroll back pages when had a bad day or on a dull day.

When I read these pages — I see that there were days similar to this day. And they were gone and this will be gone too.

6. Try to find humour in tough situations.

People have a disease of seriousness, and they are killing themselves without any reason.

You must know this; you have one day to live, either live it with full joy or just waste it in seriousness.

By looking at current situations you can clearly see that things changes in the fraction of seconds.

I am not telling you to leave your work and enjoy the new season of — The dragon prince on Netflix; but stop being dead serious.

Once someone asked me? How one can be light in a tough situation?

I narrated to him one real event of my life; it goes like this;

When I was in class 10th I used to sit on a particular bench daily — one day someone just occupied that bench because I reached late to class that day ; due to my bus problem.

I just started fighting with this student and later this fight got serious. And suddenly, My class teacher entered the class, and asked? what happened pushpender?

Me: Mam he has taken my place.

Mam: How can you say i.e your place.

Me: This is my permanent place and I sit here daily.

Mam: (In angry voice) nothing is permanent pushpender just come and sit here.

That day I learned a valuable lesson, neither the good days nor the bad days are permanent.

Just live a happy life without thinking about — what had happened, and why?

Always remember your problems are also temporary they’ll leave you the moment you starts faceing them. or when you’ll leave this world, lol.

7. Keep yourself joyful in every situation.

It’s the best thing you can do for yourself; Staying joyful in every situation of your life.

Don’t confuse this with your outside situations; it doesn’t matter how you look from above the only thing matters is, what you feel inside.

What others say about is not important because your opinion is best for you.

“Suno sabki karo apni” which means “listen to everyone, but do what you want”

It’s my quote; I followed this from the very beginning of my life.

Conclusion;

You must start by developing new habits and must think positive plus right for yourself and others. Never try to copy others try to come up with original ideas.

Do not allow anyone to put labels at you and do not copy the bad habits of others.

Spread love, stay blessed and be motivated.