6 Ordinary Questions to Chat With Gorgeous Women
The simplicity is shocking.
You saw a beautiful woman at your favorite café.
If single and straight, you’d want to talk to her. But your marvelous brain has rocket-science thoughts at that moment. You cannot get a simple sentence out.
It’s frustrating.
Your brain protects you by keeping you away from the one thing you want to do most. Fear of rejection is a knife in your heart (or groin).
Why choose these sentences?
Each uses context. Content lowers the emotional damage associated with hearing no or silence. Instead of thinking you are the problem, your mind will say:
- “What’s her problem?”
- “My statement was not creepy. It was situational. I guess she was having an awful morning.”
- “Thank goodness I didn’t waste my time thinking about the perfect pun or one-liner.”
Questions have low risk. A low-risk, non-intrusive inquiry can cause faster recovery time from a no.
Always go with the situational small ask.
#1. At a friend’s party
When the weather outside allows partying, most friends will entertain guests. All the cool people in their contact list get invited. Including the hottie, you’ve had a thing for since the last BBQ or holiday fiesta.
Make your approach friendly and non-intrusive. How? Bring a case of chilled drinks. If you come empty-handed, ask a woman if she’d also like anything from the grill.
If you are shy? Walk up to the lady you like. Introduce yourself and ask if wants one of the beverages in your hand. Or if you can bring her back a plate when you head over to get one for yourself.
If you’re confident? Skip the work involved with the above. And ask this question first “Hi [your name], how do you know the host?”
#2. A woman you often see but never spoke to.
You’ve seen her several times. Familiarity may cause the lady to lower her guard — she is more trusting and open to communication. People like getting asked about themselves. Ask her a brief question about her day or another insignificant event.
- “Hi, how is your day going?”
- “Hey, what are you most excited about this fourth of July?”
- “Hey, we see each other here so much, yet we don’t even know each other’s names. I’m [your name]. And you are?”
#3. A coffee, aisle, or convenience store
Dive right into this one. There are so many items for you to ask about, especially the product the female picks up.
- “Hey, what’s up?”
- “Hi, you’re getting the coffee special. I’ve never had it. Is it good?”
- “Hey, go easy on me. I know you don’t work here. But I saw [the product name] in your cart. Where did you pick it up?”
#4. Entertainment event
Women usually get emotional. And you might have been watching her in a non-creepy way, I hope. No, assumptions. Tell her what you observed and ask her about it.
- “You looked pretty upset back then. Are you okay?”
- “I saw you hit the dance floor when [the song] came on. What other [name of the artiste] songs do you like?”
#5. At the park or other public place.
Many people are out walking their dogs or with a device. Ask a quick question based on the object in their hand. Don’t get creative. It might take time for the person’s understanding to happen. Keep it simple.
- “That’s a cute dog. What breed is it?”
- “Sweet phone case. Where did you get it?”
#6. When to ask for her number?
It’s the question you want to ask first. But save it for last. Form a connection before you ask for the woman’s number or social media name. Connection makes this request seem natural and heightens her interest in communicating again.
Have a pleasant conversation going. Acknowledge that you don’t want to keep up the lady’s time too much. Say you’d like to see her again, so you want her phone number to get in contact.
Thank you for reading this post.
© Annie Wegner 2022-Present.
Hey, I am Annie, a relationship and side hustle writer. For just $5/month or $50/year, you can unlock articles to help you achieve your income and love goals. This membership fee will support your dreams. Unlock the content with this link.