5 tips on how to treat/ keep a women.

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Let me just say this right now and get it out the way. Because I know all fellas ( and even women ) can agree with this statement:
Women are hard to figure out at times.
I still scratch my head sometimes with the things I’ve seen women do. And even though they can be a mystery sometimes…
you just have to pay close attention to them.
How they move.
How they think.
How they talk.
Etc.
You don’t have to be a quote on quote “ player “ to understand how to treat a women. From my experiences with women ( some good, some very bad to be real. Hey, live and learn ) I’ve learned one major thing that will usually have things work out for both of you if you do this from the jump:
Be yourself.
If your trying to build a solid foundation with a lady, lies and fronting are not going to help you in the long run. If the foundation is built on lies, it will crumble because lies don’t hold up over time.
But…
If you start off being yourself and be real and upfront on everything, even if things don’t work out, you will at least have respect from her instead of the guy that played himself being something he isn’t.
That’s a major tip I suggest you take to heart. Also make sure you take care of yourself and have ambition. I’m not saying take like 4 hours to get ready or anything but don’t expect anyone to want to get to know you if you don’t even put any effort forth on presenting yourself in a positive light.
So to expand on giving you solid advice on how to treat women, here are 3 other tips from personal experiences and things I have observed over the years that I feel will help you guys out there.
Here we go.
Number one was be yourself.
and number two was not only take care of yourself but how you present yourself in public.
So let get to number three.
Three: Respect.
You want a lady to respect you as a man right? And give you the space you need at times to unwind and such from a long day from work right? Well give her that same respect back. Now look, I’m not saying be a pushover. That’s the quickest way to lose a good women. Be a man but just understand the same things you are feeling she might be feeling as well. So just be considerate of that.
4: Sex.
Everyone enjoys different things in the bedroom so no reason to get too graphic. But I will say this to you guys out there right now. Pay close attention to what I’m about to say:
You better be putting it down in the bedroom and handling your motherfucking business.

Because believe me, people can deal with most bad things. But NO ONE can deal with having horrible sex. They will leave you and go seek it somewhere else. In your intimate/ private moments, really take your time. Don’t treat sex like a race. Enjoy the journey. Let her know how much you care about her. Because it’s just like the old saying:
“ Talk is cheap. “
And you know why?
“ Because actions speak louder than words. “
Think on that…
And number five: Communication.
This is a big one. We as men like to deal with things on our own. We could be hurting like hell but with our “ man pride “ we just sometimes sulk and deal with it internally. It’s great to deal with things on your own because it shows how independent you are but you gotta speak up though too.
Now don’t be some crybaby bitch. Have dignity and honor. But nothing wrong with talking to someone about things that concern you. Even though a lot of us are great in reading body language, that only goes so far. A lot of relationships break down before they even begin because of lack of communication. I will suggest don’t ever just tell everything. But don’t be afraid to tell what’s on your mind.
Remember this: Women love confidence in men. Lack of confidence shows insecurity and lack of backbone. And you will never keep a women that way if you don’t have confidence. We are the protectors and a women has to know they are safe in our presence and we will be there to protect them.
So if your a guy that acts like a spineless pussy, you lost before you already started. Think on that.
In closing, I hope these 5 tips help you guys out in your dating lives. Now remember: you might keep striking out before you meet a good one. But don’t let that discourage you. If you first don’t succeed, get up and try again.
Someone special is out there waiting for you.
Make sure you treat her right.
And apperciate what god blessed us by putting women on this earth to begin with:)

Good luck.
Thanks for reading.
Take care.
Peace.
Also a post I wrote on 10 rules of dating.






