avatarO.J. Gillom

Summary

The article emphasizes the importance of emotional connection and mutual respect in a sexual relationship, suggesting that the best sexual experiences are those shared with a partner who is valued and cherished beyond physical intimacy.

Abstract

The author of the article asserts that while sex is a pleasurable and divine aspect of human experience, it reaches its peak enjoyment when shared with the right person. This is because true intimacy involves not just physical satisfaction but also emotional connection and mutual respect. The article highlights that as individuals mature, they begin to seek more than just sexual gratification; they look for partners who respect them, care for their needs, and with whom they can envision a future. It warns against the pitfalls of relationships that are solely based on sex, as these can lead to negative consequences such as unplanned pregnancies or sexually transmitted diseases. Ultimately, the article conveys that the most fulfilling sexual relationships are those where both partners share deep feelings and value each other, making the experience not just enjoyable but 'priceless'.

Opinions

  • Sex is enhanced when there is a deep emotional connection and mutual respect between partners.
  • Physical intimacy should be complemented by shared values and a potential future together.
  • Great sex alone is not a sufficient basis for a relationship; compatibility in other areas is crucial.
  • Engaging in sexual relationships without respect and value can lead

Sex is great…But it’s even better with the right person.

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NSFW.

As we all know, sex is a great thing that god put on this earth for all of us to experience in our lives.

It not only brings you close to someone, but it’s a great way to to show someone how much you care. It’s one thing to tell someone how much they mean to you.

But intimacy shows that person your passion and desire for them.

Like they always say,

“ Actions speak louder that words “

Plus as a man, it’s a great euphoric feeling to not only satisfy a lady but for her to also make sure your needs are met as well.

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Now I can go on and on about when your and your significant other give each other that passionate fiery look in the eyes,

how you both will lean in to kiss and how your motor will get going from the passionate kissing,

then when you go down south and use your tongue in various ways on a ladies body,

and before you know it, you enter the women and use various techniques that you know to bring that women to a climax.

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But that’s not my point.

This is what makes sex even better:

When both of you value and respect each other.

The older you get in life, you realize anyone can make you bust a nut. And trust me, that will never get old.

I’m sure all of you can agree with me on that statement.

But then you realize this over time and start asking yourself these questions:

“ Does this person respect me at the end of the day? “

“ Do they care about my needs as well? “

“ Besides fucking, is there anything else that this person brings to the table besides great sex? “

“ And most important, could I see myself settling down with this person in the future? “

If the answer is no to all of these questions, that’s when you need to stop and reevaluate what you are doing.

When your young, you are just wanting to experience as much as you can. But over time, there will be more than a few instances that yes, you might have great intimacy with someone.

But that’s the only thing you two have in common.

Then you realize this person doesn’t value you.

They don’t care about how you feel.

They are just using you.

And why care about getting someone else off that doesn’t even respect your worth as a person?

See what I’m saying?

If you are in a situation like that now, I suggest you take a time out and rethink how you are going about things.

Because if you don’t, you will put yourself in a horrible position where either you have a baby with someone that is not good for you,

or worse, catch a sexually transmitted disease.

So please…

think about that.

Before it’s too late.

Like I said before, yes sex is a great thing that god put on this earth for all of us to enjoy.

But…

to be able to share true feelings with one another and to know that the person you are with values you, only word comes to mind:

Priceless:)

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So in closing yes you will always enjoy the act of sex.

Damn sure will never get bored of it.

But…

it means even more to you when it is with someone you love and cherish.

You know why?:

Not only because you can have a future with them,

but also because that feeling you both have for each other will never get old.

And you can always enjoy the euphoric feeling they give you in the pits of your soul when you are with them:)

Keep that in mind.

Thanks for reading.

Take care.

Peace.

Bonus: Scene from Terminator. This is exactly what I’m talking about when you cherish someone. And the sex is just the icing on the cake.

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