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Summary

The article advocates for the benefits of dating "woke" women, emphasizing their support for emotional expression, sexual exploration, personal growth, financial independence, and social awareness.

Abstract

The author of the article argues that dating women who are socially and racially conscious, often referred to as "woke," can lead to more fulfilling and supportive relationships. These relationships are characterized by mutual emotional support, which is crucial in a society where men often struggle with expressing vulnerability, contributing to high suicide rates. The article also suggests that "woke" women are more open to exploring diverse sexual experiences, such as prostate massage, without societal judgment. Furthermore, the partnership is likely to be one of equals, with both parties contributing to financial aspects and pushing each other towards success. The author posits that such relationships are not only personally rewarding but also contribute to making individuals more empathetic and socially responsible, ultimately leading to personal growth and a better society.

Opinions

  • "Woke" women are more likely to be attracted to men who are open with their emotions, which is beneficial for men's mental health and societal progress.
  • The article criticizes the patriarchal view that equates men's emotional expression with weakness and suggests that "woke" women challenge this stereotype.
  • It is implied that prostate orgasms are a pleasurable yet underexplored aspect of male sexuality, and "woke" women are more likely to engage in such explorations without prejudice.
  • The author believes that equality in a relationship, including financial contributions, leads to a healthier dynamic and shared success.
  • The author expresses concern over the rise of regressive ideologies and the vilification of "woke" culture, suggesting that these attitudes hinder personal and societal growth.
  • "Woke" women are seen as catalysts for men to become more empathetic and socially aware, which is essential for addressing societal issues and promoting a more inclusive world.
  • The article challenges the traditional expectation that men should be the primary financial providers in relationships, advocating for a more balanced approach to dating expenses.

5 Reasons Why You Should Date “Woke” Women

Dating a woman who is aware of social justice, and racial issues will never be a bad thing

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According to Merriam-Webster, “woke” is defined as being “Aware of and actively attentive to important facts and issues (especially issues of racial and social justice)”.

For those who don’t know, Laurence Fox is a British actor and singer who after seeing the success of his peers (Piers Morgan and Katie Hopkins) has taken a sudden career pivot into TV politics. He holds absolutely no qualifications for the gig which makes him overqualified under today’s standards. He has said a lot of problematic things — can you imagine saying something that shocks even Piers Morgan — but recently he came under fire for stating that he would never date a woman under 35 as they are “too woke”.

He said this is because we are primed to believe we are victims and revealed he broke up with his girlfriend after she praised the Gillette advert (you know the one teaching men their feels are important).

With the rise of nationalism, it is no surprise that incel culture is making its way out of the underground. Fox himself has even admitted that following his divorce; he spent a lot of his time watching YouTube interviews which radicalised him and caused his “crusade against woke culture and political correctness.”

Seeing as nothing is being done about the problem at hand, it will only get worse and as Vicky Spratt stated in her article The Dangerous Rise Of Men Who Won’t Date “Woke” Women:

Right now, Laurence Fox, whether he realises it or not, has just landed the biggest part of his life. He is legitimising hatred and division. And yet he cannot be completely unaware of the role he plays; he has spoken about being “radicalised” himself on YouTube.

So I wanted to write a piece, highlighting why dating woke women is the best thing a man (and people of all genders) could do.

1. We will get turned on (not off) by your emotions

Elite singles conducted a survey and found that 95% of women answered ‘yes’ to the question ‘do you think women prefer men who are open with their emotions?’ whereas only 84% of men answered the same way. Therefore, it could be said that woke women are 95% more likely to find sensitive men more attractive than women who prescribe to patriarchal ideals.

As we all know, suicide is the biggest killer of men under the age of 45. Across the globe, men are three times more likely to die by suicide in Australia, 3.5 times more likely in the US and more than four times more likely in Russia and Argentina. These statistics are troubling, and it is society that is to blame.

From childhood, we teach our boys that they have to be strong at all times. As Colman O’Driscoll, former executive director of operations and development at Lifeline stated, “We condition boys from a very young age to not express emotion because to express emotion is to be ‘weak’.” As a result, men are less likely to admit when they’re struggling and seek help.

By dating a woman who doesn’t expect you to move mountains, you can be assured you will find a partner who will support you through thick and thin. No, we can’t cure mental illness, but we won’t expect you to go through it alone. We won’t judge you for feeling down, and we certainly won’t emasculate you over a few tears. Sensitivity is not a weakness!

Finding emotional damage sexy is so 2010s, and this decade we seek to pursue secure men who aren’t afraid to be unashamedly themselves.

2. You will have the best orgasms of your life

According to many men, prostate orgasms are said to be the god-tier of male orgasms. They are said to feel similar to penile orgasms but a lot more intense and felt through the entire body. Through porn, I know that they are achievable via hands-free stimulation.

I believe that all people with a prostate should try it, but as with all things, the patriarchy has done quite a number on us. Some many men and women think men introducing anal play into the bedroom is a sign of latent homosexuality. But it isn’t (unless you’re a part of the LGBTQ+ community).

Now, the likelihood of a ‘woke woman’ worrying about your sexuality due to anal play is pretty slim. She should and will be able to understand that as a woman, stimulating your prostate is still heterosexual intercourse. So please do it for the prostate massages!

3. She will push you to success.

As the saying goes, ‘Behind every great man there’s a great woman’. Now imagine the power a couple has when they’re stood side by side as equals, supporting each other and sharing the load.

I think it is important to date your equal because instead of having to pick up the slack, you can concentrate on building each other up instead. This isn’t to say women who aren’t woke are unsuccessful, they are. But as I said above, the likelihood is they won’t expect you to be strong all the time, which can do wonders for productivity and preventing burnout.

4. You will save money

Regarding dating and splitting the bill, an NBC survey found:

  • 84% of men and 58% of women report that men pay for most expenses after dating for a while
  • 57% of women offer to pay, but 39% of women want their men to reject the offer
  • 44% of women were bothered when asked to pay
  • 64% of men say that women should contribute financially to a relationship
  • 76% of men feel guilty when a woman pays
  • 44% of men would end a relationship if women did not contribute financially
  • 75% of men and 83% of women share some dating expenses by the six-month mark

Though it appears that modern dating is a bit behind the times regarding evolving gender roles, a change is occurring.

On all social media platforms, you are bound to come across at least one post where a man will complain about having to pay for dates. The thing is with most woke women; we won’t expect you to be the sole breadwinner or expect you to shower us — we can do that to ourselves.

I prefer paying for myself because it allows me more freedom on dates — I can get the most expensive meal on the menu because I want to. I like being treated just as much as any person; however, there is no expectation for it to be a regular occurrence. To me, it means more when it happens out of the blue.

I am sure I am not alone in this, so you can believe that dating us is a cost-effective investment for a more fruitful future. Plus the likelihood is that she’ll be bringing home a lot of money too — a win-win.

5. She will make you a better man

I believe empathy is the key to many of our problems, whether they be societal or personal. As much as empathy is innate, I also think it is a skill that needs to be practised on the regular. As we have seen time and time again through history, it is a lot easier to hate and fear what you don’t understand. It is challenging to be empathetic to issues that don’t concern or affect you because they don’t feel real.

Dating a woke woman is a sure-fire way of becoming a better person. They will have you practising empathy regularly and caring for people and situations you had no idea where real.

Men like Laurence can, by law, do what they want, but I can’t help but worry about the fate of the world and our future. Many people want to go back to “the good old days” where things were good, but I have to ask, good for who? As the saying goes, “When you’re accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression”. So it is no wonder why so many privileged people are terrified.

I believe the reason men want to avoid women like ourselves is to avoid feeling guilty or being held accountable. Ignorance is bliss, and the world is dark and full of terrors.

I believe dating a woman who is aware of social justice and racial issues will never be a bad thing. It is good to care about people beyond yourself. It is good to want to be better.

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