5 Brutal and Ugly Truths About Fitness I See No One Talking About
Had I known these earlier — I would’ve saved a lot of effort, time, mental anguish, and money
It has been close to 5 years since I first stepped foot in a gym and the most shocking thing is just how much fitness misinformation there is out there.
The fitness industry looks glamorous and flourishing on the outside but in reality, is one of the darkest industries out there — it practically thrives because of the misinformation.
I sat down to write this article after a lot of hesitation but these ugly truths need to be said and everyone needs to hear them.
Had I known these earlier, I would’ve saved myself a lot of effort, time, mental anguish, and money as well. I learned them the hard way but you don’t have to.
#1 — Having a Shredded Six-Pack Is Extremely Unhealthy
When I first got serious about fitness, I embarked on a fat loss journey and almost killed myself in the process.
Dudes with paper-thin skin, washboard abs, rippling muscle fibers, and veinous roadmaps all over social media. So it’s natural to want to look the same way.
I achieved a shredded six-pack but at the cost of muscle, strength, and my physical and mental wellbeing.
I became anorexic and looked like a zombie —with sunken cheekbones, sickly pallor, deep bags under my eyes, and zero sex drive. I developed an unhealthy relationship with food and obsessively counted every single calorie I ate.
Those smiling shredded fitness models aren’t healthy at all. Research has shown that extremely low body fat is extremely dangerous for your health with effects such as —low testosterone, extreme hunger, depression, heart risk, and even death.

Add in the fact that more than 99% of them are on steroids, diuretics, or some kind of PEDs as well and you’ve got a slew of other health effects such as — heart risk, organ damage, hormone disruption, brain fog, impotence, etc. to deal with.
To actually lose fat in a healthy sustainable manner, grab my easy-to-use Notion-based fat-loss checklist.
#2 — Steroid Use Is Much More Common than You Think
Building off the earlier point, most including my past self believe that steroids and other PEDs are limited to the upper echelons of bodybuilding but in reality — they’re used almost everywhere.
Walk into practically any gym on earth and you’ll run into at least one steroid user. Almost every single fitness model on Instagram is on steroids. Your favorite actor’s body transformation? Steroids again.
In fact, PEDs are used in the higher echelons of any athletic sport. Some such as Tyson Gay and Lance Armstrong are caught but most aren’t.
“What I am against is the unreal standards they generate by concealing the fact that they aren’t natural.”
Now, before you think I’m a jealous anti-steroid flagbearer, let me tell you — I have nothing against them. In fact, if used carefully and responsibly, I believe they can be helpful to achieve your goals. I have been natural so far but if I see the need, I wouldn’t hesitate to consider using them.
What I am against is the unreal standards they generate by concealing the fact that they aren’t natural — be it someone bench pressing your deadlift 1 rep max as his warmup or a hulking dude with veins the size of your arms.
Steroid use is rampant and most steroid users won’t admit their usage. Don’t let this skew your standards.
“Walk into practically any gym on earth and you’ll run into at least one steroid user.”
You can still achieve a great enough physique naturally, it will just take an awful lot of time and effort. Close to 5 years in and I’m just beginning to like my physique. To get an idea, I’d suggest watching this video.
#3 — Your Favorite Influencer’s Workout Program Is Absolute Bullsh*t
Almost every single fitness “influencer” is busy inventing new gimmicky useless exercises and selling his/her workout programs. But most of them are bullsh*t for two main reasons:
- They don’t follow their own workout programs. They have their own coaches, often secret. A friend of mine who happens to be a famous strength coach says — “I train quite a few famous influencers bro but none of them reveal it as otherwise, it’ll affect their own coaching business.”
- The “influencers” aren’t experienced or knowledgeable enough. Despite working out for 5 years, I still don’t consider myself experienced enough to design effective workout plans. So it’s beyond me how an “influencer” — most often a juiced-up kid that started working out a year or two ago can do so.
Sure, there are influencers that are actually knowledgeable but there’s still no need to turn to paid workout programs as — the best workout programs are available for free on the internet.
These are ones created by famous coaches or experienced trainees, time tested and built on the fundamentals. Here are the best muscle and strength-building programs.
Another common misconception is — you need to change your workout program from time to time to “trick” your body and not plateau. I’ve been using the same workout program (An altered version of this) for more than 2 years now and I continue to make excellent progress.
As long as you are making good progress and enjoying your workout program, there’s no need to change it.
#4 — Lasting Fitness Transformations Take an Awful Amount of Time and Effort
As someone that’s gone through multiple body transformations, it frustrates me to no end when — fitness “coaches” advertise unreal body transformations in super-short time frames while putting in barely any effort. These are extremely misleading for two main reasons.
- Factors like the lighting, pump, flexing, food intake, angle, etc. can make a huge difference in how someone looks. Often, in the after photos, these things are optimized to make the person look more impressive than they actually are. To truly grasp this, give the below video a watch.





