3 Things You Should Avoid To Be Wealthy
Keep in mind every day!
Have you ever wonder why you stop a task because you don’t have a mood? Or Why you start hyper-motivated at the beginning of a project, and after a couple of weeks, just don’t feel you can do it and give up?
In these times, when everyone is only focused on results, we never think about the progress. If something doesn’t work, the way we want means that it’s all bad. Therefore, we gave up and started to dream about a new task without even have tried the one you started.
Everyone is focusing on the fruit, which is the results not in the root, which are how you start, how was your mindset. Remember is the root and the seed, which creates the fruit. What’s under the ground creates what’s above the ground. There is something that we have to be aware of before starting a project to don’t give up early.
If you want to change the fruit first, you have to change the root. If you’re going to change the visible, first, you have to change the invisible — Your Thoughts, Your mind.
When you start with the right mindset, any project or task, you will be ready for everything that comes with it and feed your mind with positive thoughts. Whatever problem arises, you will be prepared to overcome it. And stepping out of your comfort zone will not be that complicated.
Imagine this scenario,
When You print a document from your printer, and then you realize you want to erase a word. You get an eraser and delete that word and print again, and you see still the same mistake, then you decide to get a better eraser and try again and decide to print again. The error wasn’t fixed. It can’t be deleted in the physical world. It can only be changed in the program, the emotional and spiritual world.
It’s how it works. We have to change the program. The real problem can’t be changed in the physical world; it can only be changed in the program, your mental emotional and spiritual world.
The results are a reflection of your inner world.: Money is a result. Wealth is a result, health is a result, illness is a result, and your weight is a result.
It’s is important to not playing the Victim Game. I don’t believe that everyone is a victim, but I believe everyone loves to play the victim game. There are three crucial things that we all should avoid if we want to start changing that program in your mind.
Stop Blaming To Everyone.
“The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny” — Albert Ellis
Maybe just maybe you know someone like this. People are professional in blaming others. It’s fun to point the fingers to others without ever looking at yourself.
When something doesn't come out the way that they’re expecting victims blame the economy, the government, the stock market, the type of business, employer, employees, managers, the partner, customer service, the spouse, God, and of course they always blame their parents.
It’s always someone else or something else to blame. The problem is anything or anyone but them.
Stop Justify For Everything You Do
“When you justify (show or prove that your wrong actions are right or reasonable), you magnify the negative.” ― Meir Ezra
If victims are blaming, you always find them justify or rationalizing the situation by saying something like: Money isn’t really important!
If you say that your girlfriend, your friend, or your wife aren’t important, will any of them be around for long? I don’t think so and neither with money.
It’s a coincidence that people who say that are always broke. When people compare love with money, and they say I prefer love. That comparison doesn’t make sense, is like to compare which one do you prefer your right hand or your left hand? Both, of course.
Therefore, if you hear that somebody said money isn’t important you should say You Broke.
Stop Complaining About Everything
“What you’re supposed to do when you don’t like a thing is change it. If you can’t change it, change the way you think about it. Don’t complain.”― Maya Angelou
This is worse you can do for your health and your wealth, The worse. When you complain, you're only focusing on what is bad in your life, in your project, or your task in hand. You are blind; you can’t see the good things around.
Remember whatever you are focus on always growing. When you complain, you are focusing only bad thing you are expanding those things. Why are you not focus on positive things?
When you are complaining you’re attracting negativity in your life. You’re becoming a negativity magnet. Notice that complainers always have a rough life. It’s because they complain about their lives are like that.
Remember, you have to be sure not to put yourself close to complainers. Negative energy is infectious. Plenty of people love to hang out with complainers. Why? Because they are waiting for their turn to complain.
Remember, blame, justification, and complaints are like pills, like stress reducers, they reduce the stress of failure. When you catch yourself feeling this, remember that you are creating your life, and this it’s a process. Choose your thought and your words wisely. And the most important if you want to be wealthy, don’t play the Victim Game.
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Godofredo Rojas is a writer, chef, and constant learner from Peru. He studied in Le Cordon Bleu in Lima, Peru. He moved to New York in March 2011. He’s on Facebook and Twiter.