3 Things You Forgot You Chose Before Coming to Earth
You chose everything about your entry
1. Your Parents
I don’t expect you to go and give your parents a big hug. Some parents have done a terrible job keeping the end of their bargain and I get it if you still want nothing to do with them after reading this, but that’s not the point.
Try to see beyond the physical.
It’s truly hard to believe someone in their right mind would choose horrible parents if your parents aren’t very great because it’s hard to be here but souls don’t think as humans think.
Souls don’t feel as humans do, and souls experience time differently. Seventy years come fast, but as humans, it’s a lifetime.
As a soul, you choose a couple who have conceived and would make good or bad parents depending on the lessons you wanted to learn and how fast you’re trying to evolve, and you choose those who would cause you early expansion.
This is what I expect you to understand. It’s never about the people and more about the lessons. You chose your parents, but you didn’t really choose them. You chose the experiences and the lessons they could give and teach you.
Parents are soul teachers, even the horrible ones. You knew that before coming here, but thanks to the matrix that’s great at putting people to sleep, you arrive here, forget all about your soul plans, and hold grudges against your parents refusing to put them aside. And that becomes a problem.
A big one.
When you hold grudges, you remain small. You don’t expand. You trap your soul within your earthly irrelevant problems which hold your soul back, but your soul will evolve one way or another, whether it’s in this life or the next.
Your physical body will die one day and your soul will rise.
Your soul will then choose again to return to the earth, to finish what never got done.
And that I believe is the goal of the matrix. To keep you coming back here, otherwise who would willingly choose this?
Think about it.
When you hate your parents because of their shortcomings and you can’t see past it because you’re deep in the matrix, you hold yourself in vibrational separation from your soul contract.
You also separate yourself from the lessons.
After here, you’ll want to come right back to get it right and so you’ll do this over and over again if every lifetime you can’t see past it.
This is why you have to take your focus off of the people and onto the lessons you knew you needed. Forgive and let it all go.
Rise above it all.
When this is said and done and you could never see the bigger picture, you will not be mad at your parents for what they did. You’d kick yourself so hard back onto the earth because it is you who couldn’t see past it.
This information isn’t being given to you so you can go and reconcile with your parents if they kind of suck, although if your parents are simply the best, you should give them the biggest hug. This information is being given to you so you can live accordingly.
2. Your Pain
You chose everything about your entry into this world. You chose your family, your struggles, and your pain.
Your soul is very much in on everything you’re going through. You chose all of it.
You didn’t choose it in the way humans choose things.
As humans, we choose the things we like and we look past the things we don’t. We go with what we want and we leave behind what we don’t.
This is what makes it so hard to believe that we actually choose our pain.
But as a soul, what you’re looking at isn’t the pain. You’re looking at the situations that can give you the most experience.
You look at the experiences that would give you the most contrast. You wanted contrast. You wanted something different from what you might have had in a previous lifetime.
Contrast causes expansion.
If you’ve had experiences that have caused you pain, you might have had a life without pain in your previous life. If your life has been a breeze so far, you might have had the worst in your previous life.
That’s the contrast a soul seeks to evolve.
This is why people choose absentee parents. Some others choose cancer. Some choose divorce. Some people choose homelessness. Others choose to leave home at an early age to live on their own. Some choose bankruptcy and some others choose to be cheated on and made a fool out of, all so there can be a contrast to what they might have experienced.
A soul wants to be able to say, I’ve experienced it all. It wants to be able to say I know what it feels like to have nothing and I know what it feels like to have an abundance. It wants to say I know what it feels like to suffer a lifetime and I know what it feels like to enjoy life.
As hard as this is to wrap the mind around, souls choose anything that will guarantee an early expansion.
Souls have their own plans. They have other places in the cosmos they’re trying to explore, levels they want to reach and painful experiences is the best teacher.
Pain is the fastest way to find your purpose when you reincarnate so you chose it.
3. Your Purpose
You know your purpose. You chose it and then you forgot it. You knew you would forget, but you knew through the pain and suffering, you would remember.
It was your experiences, good and bad, that were going to help you find your purpose.
You may have forgotten your purpose, but it’s not hidden. It’s in front of you and looking to be found. It’s in your passions and the things you enjoy doing the most.
The moment you decide to drop the things that are holding you hostage and look beyond them, you will find your purpose and the reason for being here.
But it’s your weakness of not being in alignment with what your soul chose that causes you to live in the absence of what you chose.
When it feels like you’re not making good choices, it’s not that you’re making bad choices, it’s just you’re not in alignment with your soul’s choices for you and so you make different choices that turn out to be bad.
But there’s still time to accept the choices you've made and make better ones.
If you really hate your life here, then this information is being given to you so the world doesn’t hold you hostage and prevent you from doing the things you chose to come here to do.
Things are always working out for you even when they seem very bad, and to the degree that you allow things to work out for you, you start to see the evidence of it.
The contrast and all the stuff that you think you would never ever choose is helping you to clearly define that which you want for yourself.
When you remember and create better for yourself, you create better for the souls that choose you as their parent and incarnate into your family line. You break negative patterns for yourself and also for them. But stay trapped in the negativity holding on to earthly grudges that won’t matter at all in the end and you pass the negativity on to generations after you.
It’s quite sad, but it’s also liberating knowing this.
As long as you look to learn from every experience, you’re no longer a vibrational match to the contrast, but a match to what the contrast produced.
Before you know it, you’re a match to the evolved and expanded version of you and you begin to feel good coming into alignment with who you are especially after being angry for so long for the cards you were dealt with.
Then you can say you allowed your pain, the difficult experiences, and the contrast to bring you into alignment with the life your soul has chosen for you and you’ll feel victorious when this is over and you know you did everything you agreed to do.
You know too much now and so you can’t look at certain things the same way.
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Note: This article is only meant to provide spiritual guidance and light-hearted content.
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