3 Struggles Only High Vibrational People Can Understand

It's plenty of sunshine and rainbows until the weather changes

1. Being Misunderstood

Everything you do and say will look and sound crazy. Your friends won’t understand why you won’t go out with them anymore. They’ll think, “What happened to you?”

You’ll quit everything that doesn’t serve you, including relationships, friendships, and jobs. You won’t look back.

Nobody will understand you. People will talk behind your back. They’ll look at you funny.

Your family won’t understand why you’ve suddenly changed and perhaps this is the biggest struggle of all. They’ll look at you as if someone else is inhabiting your body.

Everybody will wonder what in the world happened to you for you to change so much.

Your friends will think that you have either finally lost your mind or you’re on drugs. They will worry about you and tell you to snap out of it already. They’ll be concerned about your new identity.

They won’t understand that it’s the sanest and the soberest you’ve ever been!

You will also be concerned about them.

You’ll wonder why they’re not waking up to see what you’re seeing, but you’ll learn not to judge them and leave them alone. You’ll understand that everybody’s journey is different and you’ll focus on your own journey and how to become successful in the things that you're doing.

2. Nothing Resonating

The things you used to tolerate will no longer resonate. Old destructive habits won’t resonate with you anymore. You’ll wonder why.

Certain people, places, and things will fall off and out of your life. You’ll lose friends who can’t understand or support your new lifestyle. You'll lose those who judge, criticize and shame you for changing.

You'll lose lovers who bring you down.

You’ll hold on to nothing that drains your energy or holds you back. You will let go of any and everything that drags you down.

You’ll stop doing anything don’t serve you. You’ll stop being mean to yourself and quit the negative self-talk. You’ll pay close attention to the thoughts you think and the feelings you feel.

You will have to start truly loving yourself, whether you like it or not.

You’ll change those limiting beliefs about yourself. You won’t just accept what you’ve been told. You’ll have no choice but to rebel against the rigid rules and beliefs that make no sense, and you’ll search for freedom.

You may quit your job that's stealing all your precious time and energy or be forced to move out of your comfort zone.

The universe will do that.

You’ll start asking some of the deepest life questions and existential crises are bound to happen many times throughout your life because of your need to find meaning.

You will find out there’s indeed more to life than we are told.

It's a struggle when things no longer resonate, but you will find new things that resonate with your soul.

3. No Destination

The spiritual journey is an ongoing process and you never actually stop or arrive anywhere. You keep going. You don’t stop learning. You learn until the second you take your very last breath and if you don’t like learning very much, this will be such a struggle.

You don’t stop growing, and you don’t stop becoming better. There will always be improvements to do on yourself. There’ll be always new things to learn, new places to travel to, and new interests to explore.

You don’t become enlightened either.

You’ll spot the spiritual ego in those who make such claims about themselves. You learn that we’re not truly enlightened until we're dead, and the feeling of enlightenment you sometimes feel is a state of consciousness — one that you move in and out of.

You could be in a state of bliss reaching beyond the skies today and tomorrow you could be balled up in the fetal position on your bed in the darkness with shadows lurking in the background.

The ups and downs are a struggle, but it's part of the process. The only time it's a flat line is when you’re dead.

As you raise your vibration, you’ll realize that there will be more layers to shed and more work to be done.

The journey doesn’t have an end or destination.

There’ll always be new ways to think, new ways to feel, new things to talk about, and ultimately new things to worry about. It's a struggle, but it's one that feels so much better than being in low vibration.

In high vibration, you can weather the storm and get through all the seasons.

So even though it's not always sunshine and rainbows, the gloomy days are sometimes quite calming and there's something satisfying about the sound of rainfall.

Note: This article is only meant to provide spiritual guidance and lighthearted content.

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