3 Signs You've Healed Most of The Things You Need to Heal

You're caring less and less about certain things

1. You're Becoming Aware of the Patterns

As long as you have breath running in your nostrils, there will always be something to heal from. The healing work never stops, and it's not linear. One day you could be up in the skies dancing with the stars and the next you could be down in the heart of the earth battling with demons.

We spend most of our lives and expend most of our energy doing the healing work that we don’t take the time to look back and acknowledge the work we've done. We don’t see the demons we've slayed, the battles we've won, the mountains we've climbed over.

We don’t notice how great we've already done.

But after years and years of doing the healing work, when something happens and you immediately become aware of where you went wrong and what you could have done or said differently, that is the greatest sign that you’ve done the work. When something happens and you become aware of the patterns and see how they no longer serve you, It's a sign that you've healed more than you know.

When you notice that you're becoming aware of the negative patterns in your life or relationships or even in your family when it comes to breaking ancestral cycles, it's a huge sign that you're doing a marvelous job on yourself and you have to give yourself some credit.

You deserve it and it feels the best when it's coming from you to you because you are the most important person in your life.

You should be seen and acknowledged for all of your efforts.

When you've healed and become aligned with yourself and the universe, you quickly see when you fall out of alignment and you work to bring yourself back into flow, and that's how you know you're healing and growing.

You may still mess up every now and then but you get the message. You may fall flat on your face from time to time, but you manage to stand tall with your head held high. You may get out of the magical flow state, but you understand that it's all a matter of getting back in flow moving in one accord with yourself and the universe.

When you notice that you’re becoming aware of the negative patterns in your life, relationships, and even in your family, it’s a cosmic sign that you’re more healed than you think.

2. You're Not Worried About What Others Think

Gone were the days when what people thought or said about you would eat you up from the inside for days. It bothered you so much when people didn't think or say nice things about you.

Before a person is truly healed, when they don't know who they are and why they're even here, people pleasing will be something they do often. They may live life just to be liked by others because being liked gives them a sense of validation and approval. They want to portray a certain image and prove to the world that they have it all together.

The moment you start healing yourself, you see that you care less and less about what people think. You care less about the way your journey looks and more and more about how it feels to you. You stop caring so much about the external world and you care more about being true to who you truly are.

The moment you love and accept yourself and where you currently are in your life, you no longer need the approval of others and you surrender that need to please people.

When you heal, you can validate and approve of your own self. You heal to please God alone and also your higher self.

You'll have no need to compare your life with others or to compete because you know who you are and the work you're here to do and you understand your journey is unique to you and so you go at it at your own pace not needing to race anyone to get there.

And that's how you know you're growing and advancing on a soul level even if it doesn't feel like it.

The healing journey never stops as long as you continue to live and make mistakes. More and more things will come up to be healed until you take your very last breath, but it won't change the fact that you've healed most of them.

You know you’ve healed more things in your life when you care less about the way your journey looks and more and more about how it feels to you.

3. You Can Easily Forgive Yourself

As long as your heart beats a beat within your chest, you will make mistakes. You're a human being.

But gone were the days when you would be so angry with your poor self and beat your ‘self’ up all day and all night long when you made a mistake. The world would beat you up and you would go home and beat yourself up on top of it.

Those were hard times, and that made life a thousand times harder.

But now that you're healing, when you make a mistake, you may be upset about it for a minute because you want to be and do better but you won’t turn against yourself. You no longer do that to yourself because you give yourself the same grace and compassion you give others.

When those you love make a mistake and they are beating themselves up, you are there for them assuring them that it's okay and they will get through it. You've healed and so you love yourself just as much as you love others. You treat yourself with the same grace and compassion.

When you make a mistake, you forgive yourself and you may even be the one consoling and getting yourself to let it all go so you can feel alright again.

Because you treat yourself so much better when you make mistakes, you’re able to bounce back faster and get back on your feet quicker, whereas in the past when you were knocked down, you would be down on yourself for days.

You can now tell yourself it's okay, and that everything is going to be alright.

You're kind and gentle with yourself because you and your self are on the same team. You don’t turn against each other no matter what.

You’re able to have mercy and compassion on yourself because you know you are doing your very best and mistakes are how you learn to become better.

You came here to learn and making mistakes is part of the process.

You make mistakes, take the lessons out of it, pick your own self up, and move forward with nothing but love for yourself.

You may have even mastered H’oponopono and so you never hold grudges against yourself.

I’m sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you. I love you.

Those four sentences which make up the H’oponopono practice have become your mantra, which helps you to let go of mistakes and quickly forgive yourself.

If you're able to treat yourself in this kind, gentle, and loving way, you’re more healed than you think, even if it doesn’t feel like it. You deserve a pat on your back for a job well done.

© 2022 Kimberly Fosu. All rights reserved.

Note: This article is only meant to provide spiritual guidance and lighthearted content.

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