3 Signs Your Feminine Energy is Out of Balance With The Masculine Inside You

You don't place yourself in a position to receive

1. You Dislike Hard Work

Men and women both possess masculine and feminine energies. Feminine energy is characterized by being, allowing, and receiving, guided by intuition, whereas masculine energy tends to do, control, and achieve and is guided by logic. The masculine pursues, plans, and focuses on the outside. The feminine creates, dreams, and focuses on the inside.

You are whole and complete when your masculine and feminine energies are working together.

When people say they need someone to complete them, what they’re really saying is that they’re not complete on the inside. Masculine energy without feminine energy isn’t complete. And vice versa.

If your masculine energy is out of balance, you may feel tired all the time, overworked, and burned out, yet you do not want to stop and rest. You give and give, yet you do not receive anything in return.

When your feminine energy is out of balance, you may feel too comfy to get up and get to work. You’re always sleepy while you work, and inconsistent in your day-to-day activities. You truly dislike getting your hands dirty. You dislike working hard and so you don’t place yourself in a position to receive.

The man sleeps until he is late for work and the woman doesn’t want to lift a finger to do anything for herself or others.

Feminine nature is to rest and just be. It wants to be soft and luxurious. When the feminine is out of balance, all you want is to do nothing. You just want to be left alone to rest and sit around all day. You want to just be. You may feel so comfortable with your life to the extreme that you fail to set goals in life. You cannot motivate yourself to get your work done.

And because you do not achieve anything substantial because you dislike hard work, you do not receive any rewards. Because you refuse to sow seeds, there’s no harvest to reap.

A balanced masculine energy allows you to take initiative, work hard, and be consistent. Having a balanced feminine allows the right opportunities and people to come your way. It allows you to place yourself in a position to receive.

When your feminine energy is out of balance, all you do is nothing. You may feel too comfortable to get up and get to work.

2. Your Relationships are Lenient

When you stand alone in your feminine energy, you have disconnected from yourself as well as everything and everyone around you. You become so in touch with your soul that you disconnect from your body and mind.

When your feminine energy is out of balance, you may become too lenient in your relationships without any ability to put your foot down and speak up for yourself.

You are easily manipulated and controlled. You may have trouble communicating your needs or setting boundaries.

You become so soft that others can take advantage of you. You believe you can save everyone you cross paths with.

When you’re too into your feminine energy, it can lead to you being too sheltering and nurturing towards others. You may feel responsible for saving and caring for people.

You always want to mother someone, even grown men. You may be too empathetic, sympathetic, and forgiving of others, allowing them to hurt you over and over again because you set no boundaries with people.

You have no boundaries and will do anything just so you don’t have to do the hard work. You don’t want to do any work and so you make friends with people just so they can do your work for you. You become friends with people to use them for personal gain. Because of this, you might find yourself attracted to very masculine men who will gladly do your work for you but end up dominating, manipulating, and controlling you.

When your feminine energy is out of balance, you’re more likely to attract karmic partners with many lessons to teach you.

When your feminine energy is out of balance, you may become way too soft in your relationships unable to put your foot on the ground and speak up.

3. You Lack Intuitive Guidance

Intuition and gut feelings are associated with feminine energy. Intuition is a thought, feeling, or knowledge that transcends conscious reasoning. It’s your inner voice that knows things before you know them. The first instinct you have about a particular situation is a powerful guiding force, and it can guide you in the right direction.

Your intuition comes from the depths of your soul, where the feminine energy is housed, so when the feminine energy is out of balance, you may struggle with your intuition.

Intuition puts you in touch with your instinctive defense systems, helping you to avoid harm. When this part of you is struggling, you can’t trust your own thoughts and feelings. You don’t trust your instincts.

Having feminine energy that is out of balance can lead to making decisions without carefully considering them, or using logic and reasoning without considering your feelings. You may find yourself second-guessing your decisions or feeling like you’re not sure.

Feminine energy in excess can make you delusional, relying solely on intuition without using any common sense. You become overly flexible in life believing everything is a sign, even meaningless things. You believe everything has a message and you sit around all day trying to find meaning where there is none.

But when you’re in alignment with yourself, you love doing and you have no problems just being. You achieve and you receive in abundance. You use logic and intuition to create a life that is beyond your wildest dreams.

By balancing masculine and feminine qualities, you can sow your seeds, reap your harvest, and take a break when needed.

When your masculine and feminine energies are balanced, you will know when to push forward and when to pull back. You will know when to speak up and when to listen. You will know what you can do and what you should allow God and the universe to do. You can dream wild dreams and also wake up and bring make those dreams a reality.

The masculine and the feminine together is a powerful force within you to use to become all that you came here to be. Together, a person is able to stay on the right path because they have both logic and intuition to guide them.

The masculine and feminine energies working together in harmony and peace make you feel whole and complete without needing anything outside of yourself to feel good. You can feel good all by yourself because you have everything you need within you.

Where you’re in alignment with yourself, you love being and you have no problems doing. You use both logic and intuition to create a life beyond your wildest dreams.

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