3 Signs Your Masculine Energy is Out of Balance With The Feminine Inside You

You achieve but you don’t receive rewards

1. You Can’t Stop Working

Masculine energy is characterized by doing, controlling, and achieving and is guided by logic. The feminine is more about being, allowing, and receiving and is guided by intuition.

Masculine energy is dominant in very masculine men and feminine energy in very feminine women but masculine and feminine energies are present in every man and woman. It’s what makes you whole and complete.

Most of the time when a person feels they need someone to complete them, what they’re really saying is they’re not whole and complete within themselves.

When something causes the masculine and the feminine to go out of balance and they turn against each other, discord enters the space. Where there’s discord, there’s no peace. There’s only chaos and confusion.

It’s the masculine nature to do the hard work, take action, and provide. When the masculine is out of balance, all you do is work. You can’t stop working regardless of whether you’re male or female. The man works hard through the day and the woman works hard in the night and early mornings.

It is the feminine that wants a break to recharge. It wants you to stay in the present moment to receive the blessings you have worked hard to achieve. But when the masculine is out of balance and ignores the feminine, the feminine closes off and refuses to open up to receive.

There must be love and unity within a person or it feels as if something is missing. Like there’s a void.

Another sign is when you’re out of alignment and not able to stop, slow down or take a break. You put so much in your schedule that you don’t have time to catch your breath.

When people work and work and refuse to take a break, it’s because they don’t want to slow down lest they feel things they’re so afraid to. They don’t want to slow down and think about the things that bother them so they keep themselves busy to avoid them.

The divine masculine and feminine represent self-love within a person. When you love yourself, you feel better. You achieve great things and then you receive in abundance.

It’s not good for the masculine to do it alone. It’s not good for the feminine to be alone. The masculine and the feminine are the divines and must work together in harmony.

Two are better than one because they have a good return on their investments. The feminine and the masculine must be and do it together as a team. A cord of two energy strands is not easily broken.

When your masculine energy is out of balance, all you do is work. You can’t stop working regardless of whether you’re male or female.

2. Your Relationships Are Rigid

When you stand alone in your masculine energy, you’re disconnected from yourself and from everything and everyone else. You’re disconnected from your emotional side.

You only rely on logic and you disregard the voice of your soul. You ignore the guidance of intuition and you’re too rigid.

The people around you will tell you they need more time with you. They’ll tell you they don’t feel heard or seen or they can’t connect with you.

You relate with people just to get it done. You do it just to be done with it. It’s all about getting it done.

You find that your relationships seem almost like business transactions. You’re never fully engaged because you are thinking about work or you are working.

You become way too rigid in your relationships unable to be soft, flexible, and spontaneous.

It’s fear that makes people rigid. It’s fear that makes them scared to open up and truly love a person. It’s the fear of getting hurt again. You build your walls high and you refuse to let anyone in to hurt again because the last time you did, you got hurt.

Hurt people hurt those who are closest to them.

Children are born from a woman but it is the feminine in the man that allows him to love and nurture his children. It is the feminine energy in balance that makes a man or woman caring.

When the father is not in touch with his feminine side, the children do not feel their father’s love. They feel he doesn’t care. He’s always working and too busy to play.

When your masculine energy is out of balance, you can’t let yourself have fun. It won’t let you play with your wife or husband or children because you’re serious all the time. You only care about providing and you don’t care how they need you.

When your masculine energy is out of balance, the people around you will tell you they need more time with you. They’ll tell you they don’t feel heard or seen or they can’t connect with you.

3. You Lack Clarity and Direction

When your masculine energy is out of balance, you hurt others and you hurt yourself.

You work and work some more and you grow tired. When you refuse to take a break and you keep working, you’re exhausted. You work again and again and you’re burnt out.

When you’re burnt out every day, you drain your soul of passion. You’re so tired you can’t see the vision. You’re too tired at night to hear the revelation and remember your dreams. And you’re too busy in the morning to allow yourself to feel what you feel.

Where there’s no vision, people lack direction. They go the wrong way ignoring every guidance of the soul. They miss important messages and fail to see the bigger picture. It creates conflict within a person.

When you’re in conflict within yourself, your inner compass can’t work as it should. You feel lost as result and you lack clarity and direction.

It’s a tragedy when the masculine and feminine work against each other. It’s a self-love story gone wrong. It’s tragic.

When the masculine and feminine work against each other, the person turns against him or herself. It overworks the body and self-sabotages the person so he or she never receives what they worked for.

You lead yourself into destruction when you don't pay attention to what's going on within you.

There’s a universe inside you and in your mind, You have to see it. You have to see yourself. You gotta look into your eyes and see it.

Stop and take a break. Slow down and be still. Go away and have a think. Allow yourself time to think about the things that hurt. Those you shoved deep down never to talk about. They are still there influencing your every move in ways you don’t see.

Choose to see it.

You arrived on the earth whole and complete. It is your adversary and adversary conditions that create fear, conflict, and disunity in a person.

Fear and conflict make you overwork yourself and self-sabotage.

It takes awareness.

The masculine and the feminine exists within every man and every woman. It's the yin to the yang. The moon to the sun. It's within every person to help them achieve and receive all that they came to achieve and receive.

Where you’re in alignment with yourself, you love doing and you enjoy being. You achieve and you receive in abundance. You use logic and intuition to create a life that is beyond your wildest dreams.

It is the masculine in you that makes you want to get up in the morning and conquer the day. It is the feminine in you that makes you want to take a break or sleep early so you feel really good to conquer another day. Together, it’s a powerful force within you.

Where the masculine is strong, the feminine is mighty. The masculine works and the feminine grows. The masculine charges forward and the feminine says retreat. Together a person is able to stay on the right path because they have both logic and intuition to guide them.

The masculine creates life and the feminine births it.

The masculine and the feminine on the same team make you feel whole and complete not needing anything outside of you to make you feel good.

When you’re in alignment with yourself, you’re able to love yourself and feel what you feel. You repress no parts of you and you suppress nothing because you know suppressing and repressing doesn’t make it go away.

When the masculine and the feminine are one, there’s peace and harmony within the person and the person is able to create peace and harmony for others.

When the masculine and the feminine are loving each other, the person grows up in love and so there’s no fear.

Perfect love drives out fear.

It’s a beautiful love story when the masculine and the feminine energies within a person works in one accord in perfect peace and harmony. It’s true happiness to be found and the highest vibration of love.

Where you’re in alignment with yourself, you love doing and you enjoy being. You achieve and you receive in abundance. You use logic and intuition to create a life that is beyond your wildest dreams.

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