Perception, connection, and judgment
3 Signs Your Ego is Starting to Dissolve
Surprisingly, you find that you’re happier and more peaceful than you were before
1. You Perceive Things Differently
Your ego controls your life and judges things the way you do.
It can become the boss of your life and rule you. It controls your thinking patterns and drives you to act, and you're most likely to regret whatever you do when you act out on your ego. But once you can hold yourself back from acting out on impulse, your ego has started to dissolve.
Once you see yourself look at things differently from a new perceptive and you see that you're perceiving things in a new light, you know your ego is starting to dissolve.
Ego is the judgmental one. Being able to take another person’s idea or see things the way another person sees them requires you to operate from a place behind the ego.
It requires something as high as the soul.
Seeing someone do something you wouldn’t do and still look at them with love and compassion means the ego is no longer in the driver's seat. You look at things beyond what you can physically see. You search for the deeper meaning behind everything and that's something the soul would do. Ego would say its craziness.
Once your ego starts dissolving, your way of observation becomes keen. You become more self-aware. You talk less and you listen more. It's the ego that loves to talk endlessly. Soul wants to listen so it can receive.
When ego starts dissolving, you become very observant. You observe everything. You take notice of your mind and how it thinks. You take control over the mind and you dictate what thoughts leave and which one's stay.
Ego no longer has a say in important life matters because now your soul has taken the driver's seat and leading you where you need to go.
Seeing someone do something you wouldn’t do and still look at them with love and compassion means the ego is no longer in the driver's seat.
2. You Start to Get Close to People
When I had a big ego, I couldn’t stand some people because of the things they said or did. I kept my distance from those people. I saw myself as on a different level or frequency than they were.
They thought I was weird. I knew I was chosen, and they had no idea!
But I grew up, and I noticed my big ego. It knew it couldn't be where it was seated ruling my life. I needed to move it to the back, so I started working on it. I tamed my ego and moved it into the backseat, where it could just watch my back.
I invited my higher self to lead the way. I gave her the keys to this human vessel.
Suddenly, even though I still knew that I was a special kid, I wanted to draw close to people. I wanted to have deep conversations with people just to know where their minds were at.
It was fascinating to see how people think. I could better understand why people did the things they did, even the things I couldn't understand.
The strive to be somebody fell off when my ego started dissolving. I wanted to be nobody. I just wanted to be my cool self around people. It turned out people liked me being my cool self.
The tendency to compare my life with others also disappeared. All of a sudden, I was special and unique and so was everyone else.
This didn’t always come naturally. I had to work on it. I had to push myself to be nice to the receptionist who was making me mad by being so damn rude to me understanding she could be having a terrible day. Without ego ruling my life, it was easy to remind myself to rise above all of it and put myself in other people’s shoes.
Every time I did that, I had compassion for those people. I became nicer to people and people, in turn, became nicer to me.
When your ego starts dissolving, you begin to see everyone as the same. The times that you looked at people with judgment are over.
You begin to see how everyone is special in their own unique way. You see that no one is greater or better than the other. You come to terms with the fact that we are all one and connected.
When your ego starts dissolving, you begin to see everyone as the same. The times that you looked at people with judgment are over.
3. You Replace Judgment with Acceptance
People who are being led by their ego have serious issues concerning what is right and what’s not. They look at the lives others live and they can’t accept it, so they try to force others to change in passive-aggressive ways. Others are just plain aggressive when they point out what's wrong in others.
The ego becomes the judge when it’s seated in the driver’s seat. It becomes pompous. But as the ego dissolves, you start to look at the lives of others with an eye of wonder no matter how their life may look like because you know nothing is as it seems.
You become less concerned with who’s awakened and who’s still stuck in the matrix and you focus on your own journey because you understand that everybody’s journey is different and must be respected.
You become less concerned with how others live their lives because it becomes clear that everybody is doing the best they can with what they have.
You no longer judge how others live their lives and you don’t judge yourself. You accept yourself just the way you are and you also learn to accept others just the way they are.
And surprisingly, you find that you're much happier and peaceful with ego watching your back and the higher self driving.
Note: This article is only meant to provide spiritual guidance and light-hearted content.
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