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    </div><h1 id="0136">4. Give Him Space.</h1><p id="0921">Another way of making your ex want you back is by giving him space. This means not holding onto him too tightly or following his every move. You should give him enough room to breathe and live his life. This will make your ex feel like he still has some independence, which is healthy for both of you.</p><p id="3ca3">Not only will this make him more likely to want you back (because he knows not having you around won’t make him lose any freedom), it will also make you less desperate and clingy in his eyes. This, in turn, will make him want you back even more.</p><h1 id="2a47">5. Don’t Talk About Your Exes.</h1><p id="d27d">Talking incessantly about your exes does not inspire positive emotions in your ex or make him want to get back with you; on the contrary, it may annoy and frustrate him.</p><p id="f7b5">So, refrain from bringing up old flames when he’s around (or when you’re on the phone or texting), and try to change the subject if he starts talking about exes in your presence.</p><figure id="fd66"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:800/0*XsYBaeUi1p20IPDB"><figcaption>Photo by <a href="https://unsplash.com/@charlesdeluvio?utm_source=medium&amp;utm_medium=referral">Charles Deluvio</a> on <a href="https://unsplash.com?utm_source=medium&amp;utm_medium=referral">Unsplash</a></figcaption></figure><h1 id="15f9">6. Persevere.</h1><p id="d444">Getting your ex to want you back takes time and effort, so try not to get discouraged if he doesn’t want you after a week or two. He may need more than that to miss you properly. However, don’t wait too long; the longer you wait, the less likely it is that he’ll get back together with you.</p><div id="4f5b" class="link-block">
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    </div><h1 id="0a26">7. Don’t Compare Him to Other Men You Know.</h1><p id="7a81">If you compare your ex to other men around you, it will make him feel inadequate and insecure. So, avoid doing this at all costs. If you must compare him to someone else (for example, if he asks), remind yourself that there’s no comparison. You won’t find another man like your ex, period.</p><h1 id="6d21">8. Adopt an Indifferent Attitude Towards Him.</h1><p id="470f">If he does contact you, act somewhat aloof and disinterested in him at first. This will encourage him to try harder to get your attention again (and it’ll bother him that he can’t). Make him feel like he has to work to get you back in his life.</p><div id="bc31" class="link-block">
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11 Ways to Make Your Ex Want You Back [Quick Fixes]

Are you struggling to get your man back?

Feeling like he’s slipping through your fingers?

If you’re willing to put in a little effort, I’ve got 11 easy steps that could bring him running back into your arms again. Keep reading to find out what they are!

It’s happened to most of us at one time or another. You’re in a relationship, it’s going along great, and then suddenly something happens and your partner is gone — seemingly forever.

While there is no one-size-fits-all answer to this question, there are some things you can do to improve your chances of getting back together.

If you want him back, don’t give up hope. Here are 11 easy steps that could make all the difference.

1. Draw Attention to Yourself.

By drawing attention to yourself, you can make your ex-boyfriend notice you, and perhaps re-evaluate his decision about breaking up with you. The idea is that by raising your value in his eyes again, he may be more likely to want to reunite.

One way of drawing attention to yourself is to make yourself as beautiful as possible. Practice your flirting and seduction skills, as well as those that improve your appearance (such as wearing makeup or getting a new hairstyle).

Also, be on your best behavior for a while. Treat him with respect and consideration. After all, you want to make it clear to him that if he does want to get back together, he’s going to have a much better situation with you than any other woman who is vying for his attention.

Of course, if you can become more desirable in general (for example, by losing weight), it will also make your ex want you back.

2. Make Him Miss You.

One way of getting your ex to want you back is by making him miss you. In other words, give him a taste of his own medicine. Don’t call or text him for a few days, and only appear available but aloof when he does contact you.

This will make your ex want to work harder to get your affection again. Again, if he thinks he’s got a better chance of getting you back, he’ll be more likely to want it.

3. Don’t Rush into Contact.

Try not to contact him too soon after the breakup. He may have gotten angry or upset at you for breaking up with him, and because of this, may need time apart to reflect on what happened. By delaying contacting him, you may encourage him to miss you more.

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4. Give Him Space.

Another way of making your ex want you back is by giving him space. This means not holding onto him too tightly or following his every move. You should give him enough room to breathe and live his life. This will make your ex feel like he still has some independence, which is healthy for both of you.

Not only will this make him more likely to want you back (because he knows not having you around won’t make him lose any freedom), it will also make you less desperate and clingy in his eyes. This, in turn, will make him want you back even more.

5. Don’t Talk About Your Exes.

Talking incessantly about your exes does not inspire positive emotions in your ex or make him want to get back with you; on the contrary, it may annoy and frustrate him.

So, refrain from bringing up old flames when he’s around (or when you’re on the phone or texting), and try to change the subject if he starts talking about exes in your presence.

6. Persevere.

Getting your ex to want you back takes time and effort, so try not to get discouraged if he doesn’t want you after a week or two. He may need more than that to miss you properly. However, don’t wait too long; the longer you wait, the less likely it is that he’ll get back together with you.

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7. Don’t Compare Him to Other Men You Know.

If you compare your ex to other men around you, it will make him feel inadequate and insecure. So, avoid doing this at all costs. If you must compare him to someone else (for example, if he asks), remind yourself that there’s no comparison. You won’t find another man like your ex, period.

8. Adopt an Indifferent Attitude Towards Him.

If he does contact you, act somewhat aloof and disinterested in him at first. This will encourage him to try harder to get your attention again (and it’ll bother him that he can’t). Make him feel like he has to work to get you back in his life.

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9. Show You Aren’t Needy or Desperate.

Again, don’t cling to him or act too eager. This will only show him how desperate and needy you are for his affection; it won’t inspire warm feelings in your ex towards you. Instead, keep in mind the mantra “you don’t need him, he needs you.”

10. Get Back in Touch with Your Friends and Family

Just because you’re feeling down doesn’t mean you should cut yourself off from the people who love and care about you. The more often you talk to your friends and family, the less attention your ex will be able to get out of you. Remember, if he wants you back, he’ll have to come through your friends and family. He may not have figured out how to get through to you.

11. Stop Taking Him for Granted

If he’s gone, it means that there was a problem in the relationship; stop taking him for granted and start treating him like a treasure. Everyone likes to feel special, cherished, and appreciated. If you want your man back, don’t take him for granted.

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Take Away

Accept that you don’t have all the answers. No one ever has all of the answers, but if you want your man back, it’s time you started accepting it. The world isn’t going to end if you don’t have all the answers.

Life is unpredictable, and that’s what makes it so much fun. If you want your man back, remember that you can still be in control even when you don’t know everything.

Sometimes, even when we want something or someone more than anything in the world, it’s not meant to be ours. If that’s the case, then what you need to do is accept it and move on. Don’t beat yourself up over things that are simply out of your control! If you want your man back, let go when it’s time to let go.

What do you think? Leave a comment below and tell us what you think or share this post so more people can read it. Thank you so much for reading.

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