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1 pm. As if that wasn’t enough, the girlfriend (my friend, was from an upper-middle-class family).</p><h2 id="2aa9">His parents didn’t need money either, they lived very well and had a lot of assets.</h2><p id="652e">He and his girlfriend travelled a lot and had a lot of fun. They were made for each other. The years went by. More than 10 years after dating, both were part of each other’s family.</p><p id="1eb5">They weren’t married yet, but it was as if they were, he slept most nights at her house, and worked at his future mother-in-law’s restaurant at night, but only when he felt like it.</p><p id="b21d">During the day, he only wore suits, because of his job as a bank worker. Her mother bought him clothes. Of course, he didn’t need to pay anything. Well, it was time to think about marriage. They started making plans for the happiest day.</p><h2 id="f57f">And it’s not that the darn thing, he wins around 150,000 euros in the lottery again!</h2><p id="e4fa">OK perfect. So, let’s buy a flat. The future home was a T3, well located and new, I’ve been seeing the house with them and I really liked it. The problem is that the deal had to be done quickly, otherwise they would lose the house.</p><p id="9512">As the lottery money was not yet available, the parents and future in-laws advanced the cash. A month passed, two, three months, and still nothing of the lottery prize. However, one day I was passing by the bank branch where he worked (it was quite far from the city where we all lived), I decided to invite him for a coffee, but unfortunately he wasn’t there.</p><p id="807b">Parents and in-laws started to get worried and decided to investigate why there was so much delay in receiving the amount won in the game.</p><h2 id="21fa">They made the biggest tumble of their lives.</h2><p id="9a0f">There was no prize. He lied, he hadn’t won anything. Furious, they decided to go to his job and ask for an explanation. Well, he wasn’t there… I would even say, he was never there, he never worked there and nobody knew him.</p><p id="ab07">In shock, they went to the bank where he had an ac

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count and learned that the first prize he had won, about 15 years before, was also a lie.</p><p id="c58c">However, every day he left the house to go to work around 08:00 and for more than a decade, I myself often crossed paths with him at that time, when I (really) went to work.</p><p id="2e14">When we went out together, he always had stories to tell about his work, colleagues, and boss. No one knows what he did in his spare time. He said he read the newspaper and magazines in the car until it was time to go home. I don’t know if I can believe it, can I?</p><p id="72e5">The relationship ended, and she had the biggest heartbreak of her life. As punishment, his father bought him a new car, as the one he had was already old. So much luck in one person… I should have known! Maybe I got carried away by reading so many Scrooge books.</p><blockquote id="b7a4"><p>If I gave you 50 claps, it means I read your story in its entirety and liked it.</p></blockquote><div id="2553" class="link-block"> <a href="https://anthony-r.medium.com/list/f27bf248151d"> <div> <div> <h2>About Me Stories</h2> <div><h3>Edit description</h3></div> <div><p>anthony-r.medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/0*2422b7875e173f1f83a36bb04a18539a22848d8e.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><div id="6a7f" class="link-block"> <a href="https://anthony-r.medium.com/list/60d06611fe9d"> <div> <div> <h2>True & Incredible Stories</h2> <div><h3>Edit description</h3></div> <div><p>anthony-r.medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/0*00b07cbb9a854b6e6b92594e9f404827c5db2de2.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div></article></body>

You Need to Check Your Account Settings on Medium This Instant!

It’s highly recommended to use this feature.

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It can be confusing when you create your new Medium account. There are so many settings! I know I spent a good amount of time going through each option.

In this story, I’d like to focus on Private Notes. At first, I felt like I wanted to minimize the number of emails and notifications for my account.

Well, it’s a good thing I checked twice!

Private Notes are incredibly important.

Let’s dive in a little more.

What are Private Notes?

Readers can choose to send you a Private Note. This means that only you can see the note. If the story was published in a publication, the editor can see the note as well.

It’s a very useful feature.

For example, a reader may want to send you a private note to notify you of a mistake in your story. Private notes also make it possible for the editor to contact you if necessary.

If you disable this option in your account settings, nobody can send you a Private Note. In other words, you can’t be reached.

Read on for more about checking this setting on your account and how you can also send private notes to other writers.

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How Do I Check My Account Settings?

Reviewing your account settings for Private Notes is super easy.

  1. Click into your Account Settings. You can access it by selecting “Settings” in the menu below.
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2. Once you’re in your Account Settings, scroll down to the section “Account”.

3. Make sure the “Allow Private Notes” option is toggled to On. You’ll know it’s selected properly if “On” is highlighted in green.

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What If I Want to Leave a Private Note?

It’s just as easy if you want to leave a private note to a writer!

  1. Highlight a passage in the story, so that the menu bar shows up.
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2. You’ll see a Lock icon at the far right of the menu bar.

3. Select the Lock icon. A new window pops up.

4. In the new window, you’ll be able to type your message. Click Send.

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After you click Send, the writer will receive a notification about the Private Note on their end. Once they respond, you will also receive a notification.

You’ll see a little asterisk on your story if a Private Note was added.

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And that’s all there is to it! It’s an easy setting, but can be easily overlooked.

Take a minute to check your account settings today.

Hope this helps you on your Medium journey! Happy writing!

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