a">As I said, I’d never heard of Dr Wayne Dyer (1940–2015) or his ego acronym until I read <a href="undefined">Sheri Jacobs</a>’ <a href="https://thehubpublication.com/whats-your-problem-b30d76c55a6a">story</a>. I did what most of us do when curiosity gets the better of us — I consulted the repository of all-knowing, Google!</p><p id="a823">Google did what Google does best and tossed up heaps of links about Dr Dyer and his achievements. In amongst it were several YouTube clips including this one. The visuals are poor but the audio is fine and the message is even better. Please have a listen:</p>
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— Norman Vincent Peale (1898–1993)</p><p id="cbd3"><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Norman_Vincent_Peale">Norman Vincent Peale</a>, by the way, is recognised as the ‘father of positive thinking’ and wrote the international best seller, <a href="https://www.amazon.com.au/Power-Positive-Thinking-Norman-Vincent/dp/0749307153/">The Power of Positive Thinking</a>. His spiritual and religious teachings have been hugely influential. I don’t know for sure but I suspect they influenced Dr Wayne Dyer.</p><p id="a455">The meme’s ‘<i>change your thoughts</i>’ messaging is phenomenally powerful — that’s why I bought the magnet. I hoped the person I bought it for would think so, too, and begin to re-think their ego-driven approach to life and their self-defeating sense of entitlement that often man
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</div><p id="94d3">It would seem <a href="undefined">Sheri Jacobs</a> and I are on a similar wavelength. Yesterday, her <a href="https://readmedium.com/want-to-break-that-habit-9cb8e4ebf630">story</a>, <i>Want to Break that Habit?</i> was published. In it, she refers to Dr Wayne Dyer’s, <i>change your thoughts, change your life</i> quote —</p><div id="8dd3" class="link-block">
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</div><p id="b8e3"><a href="undefined">Sheri</a> and I are talking the same language but coming at it from different directions. Sheri has a great story to tell about a friend she calls Mike who overcame his maladaptive nail-biting habit by training himself to practice positive thinking. We can only hope ego-Eric is taking notes. 🙏</p><p id="a345"><b><i>Thank you</i></b> and <b><i>welcome back</i></b> to <a href="undefined">Liberty Forrest,</a> and her publication, <b>HopeHealingHumour</b>. The idea for my story was already forming in my head when Liberty <a href="https://readmedium.com/hope-healing-and-humour-open-for-submissions-again-912c73ff7303">announced</a> that she was reopening her publication after what has been a drama-filled hiatus worthy of a documentary. Knowing I was writing this piece with her publication in mind gave me the orientation I needed to pull it all together. I hope I’ve pulled it off. 🙏 🌼</p><p id="571b"><b><i>Thank you all for reading. </i></b>🙏 💕</p><p id="c66f"><b>✨ If you like what you’ve read, please consider —
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You Know About Burger King, But Burger Queen?
The first Burger Queen restaurant opened its doors in 1956 in Winter Haven, Fla. Photo courtesy of Druther’s Facebook page.
Before Burger King became royalty among burger restaurants, another burger royal made its bid to take over the throne: Burger Queen.
Two years younger than the king, owners Harold and Helen Kite opened Burger Queen in 1956, 200 miles south of its royal cousin, in Winter Haven, Fla. The Kites oversaw the restaurants’ initial expansion throughout Florida before selling the chain to James Gannon and John and George Clark in 1961. The trio expanded to Louisville, Ky. That location would also become the company’s corporate home.
I found a video put together by Recollection Road on YouTube not long ago, inspiring me to take a small glimpse at the franchise. It’s an interesting look at the past.
Druther’s traces its history back to 1956 when Harold and Helen Kite opened the first Burger Queen restaurant in Winter Haven, Florida. In 1961, Jim Gannon and business partners George and John Clark bought franchise rights and were granted the right to expand the chain into Kentucky.
The chain continued to use neon lights to promote its stores in Florida, but that may have been too much glitter for Kentucky. Instead, their mascot would be Queenie Bee.
At left, Queenie Bee passes out balloons to kids. At right, the Burger Queen logo and Queenie Bee. Photos are courtesy of Druther’s Facebook and Twitter pages.
It was a decade of promise for the fledgling franchise, which saw the company open its 50th store in Danville, Ky. In 1973. Burger Queen would grow to 125 locations in Kentucky, Indiana, and Tennessee.
The queen’s reign was short-lived, however. In 1981, Burger Queen Enterprises Inc. announced it would change its name to Druther’s International Inc. Their 171 company-owned and franchised restaurants would also undergo a name change: Druther’s Restaurant. Less than a decade later, in 1990, the company agreed to become a franchise operator for Dairy Queen. At the time of the conversion, Druther’s had operated 145 restaurants in Kentucky and surrounding states. The last Druther’s restaurant, operating since 1970, can be found in Campbellsville, Ky.
According to the Winchester Sun, Charles McCarty built the Campbellsville store. The Sun reported there was already a Dairy Queen not far from Druther’s. He was given the choice of renaming the store or keeping the original Druther’s name. He opted for the latter.
Burger Queen Sunday Chicken Special: a quarter box of chicken for 99 cents. Photo courtesy of Druther’s Facebook page
Sadly, Charlie McCarty passed away in 2012. But the store continues to be part of the McCarty family. Bobby Brockman of the Central Kentucky News-Journal wrote a farewell to McCarty. Clearly, he made an impact on the community.
These days, Druther’s continues to make an impact in the Campbellsville. The restaurant’s Facebook page shares photos of its efforts to help families in need. They are raising money through bake sales to help the Toys for Kids program.
Last year, Taylor County was hit by two tornadoes in three week. Druther’s added this post to its Facebook page: “Our hearts go out to the families affected by the storm. If your home was impacted and you need a hot meal today we’re here for you. It’s on the house.”
Druther’s is also mentioned in “All about the Burger: A History of America’s Favorite Sandwich (Burger America & Burger History, for Fans of The Ultimate Burger and The Great American Burger Book),” authored by Sef Gonzalez in 2019.
Finally, one last look at a 1981 commercial by Druther’s. Yeah, they may be corny, but most commercials of the 80s were.
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