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The website content reflects on Tabitha King's personal significance of writing as expressed in her book "One on One," contrasting it with her husband Stephen King's perspective, and discusses the impact of being identified solely as his wife.

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The article delves into the personal connection that author Shaunta Grimes feels towards Tabitha King's novel "One on One," which she has reread several times over the years. Grimes discovered the book while searching for works by Stephen King, Tabitha's husband, and found a deeper resonance with Tabitha's writing. The piece contrasts the two authors' relationships with writing, highlighting a quote from an interview where Tabitha describes writing as merely the "frosting on [her] cake," suggesting it is not central to her identity, unlike Stephen, who equates writing with his life's purpose. The article also touches on the challenges of being a writer married to another prominent writer and the recent media attention Tabitha has received for speaking out against being solely identified as "the wife of" Stephen King. Additionally, the article recommends "One on One" to readers and concludes with a poem by Thomas R. Moore, alongside a call to subscribe for daily inspirational content.

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  • Shaunta Grimes expresses a profound personal connection to Tabitha King's "One on One," considering it a book that has become a part of her.
  • The article suggests that writing holds different levels of importance for different writers, as illustrated by the contrasting views of Tabitha and Stephen King.
  • Grimes empathizes with the difficulty of being recognized beyond one's relationship with a famous spouse, particularly in the context of Tabitha King's identity as a writer.
  • The author, Shaunta Grimes, values familiar stories during times of disorientation, as evid

Writing is only the frosting on my cake.

Tabitha King on writing. (The Commonplace Book Project)

Tabitha King (© Capture d’écran Twitter)

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“writing is only the frosting on my cake. I’m whole without it.” — Tabitha King

I found Tabitha King’s book One on One at the library. I was looking for a new book by her husband. I don’t even remember which one now. Or maybe I was just looking for anything of his that I hadn’t read yet. I was maybe 22 or 23 years old.

I found her instead.

It’s hard to say what makes a book reach inside and become part of you.

Stephen King’s body of work has been foundational for me, but there isn’t a single one of his books that is mine as much as One on One is. Mine as a reader.

Every two or three years, I get this strong desire to re-read it. Sometimes I just start thinking about Sam and Deanie and I want to visit them. Sometimes I’m feeling particularly discombobulated and only a very familiar story will do.

That’s where I am right now. Desperately homesick. Missing Nevada and the sun and the mountains. I haven’t connected yet with people in my new town. And there it was — the pull to re-read a favorite book.

So, I’m halfway through with maybe my sixth or seventh reading of One on One over the last couple decades.

The quote above is interesting to me. It comes from an interview in People magazine, where it’s contrasted with Stephen King saying that if he weren’t writing, “I might be like that guy in the Texas tower. Writing is what God put me on earth to do.”

I’ve wondered before how two writers can live together. I think it would be . . . difficult . . . to live with another writer. Especially one who is such a superstar that it would be difficult to ever move beyond being his wife.

That People article is really interesting.

So, I guess it makes sense that writing is more important to one of them than the other. Or, maybe not more important. More central.

Tabitha King, incidentally, has been in the news lately, coming down on being referred to as ‘the wife of.’

If you haven’t read One on One, I recommend it. It’s out of print, but easy to get used.

Today’s Poem:

Maine Burial Plot by Thomas R. Moore

Granite posts square a God’s acre, a tiny plot of blueberries and asters beside a crushed- stone drive to three new houses on the shore.

The black slate headstones vanished a few years back, pretty pieces for a garden in New York or maybe it was kids one night in a pick-up

drinking Bud Light who tipped them out, then regretted what they’d done and dropped the stones into a gully. Somebody knows. The names

are erased except on a tax roll or a family tree — hardscrabble farmers working thin soil over ledge, the husband cutting shingles at a mill

or wrestling granite or shaping white oak futtocks for a schooner in Castine. The new driveway skirts a rough-cut granite cellar

hole grown up in popple, the apple trees gone wild, the only sounds a clunking hoe, the gulls, the wind, a washboard’s splash and thrum.

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Shaunta Grimes is a writer and teacher. She is an out-of-place Nevadan living in Northwestern PA with her husband, three superstar kids, two dementia patients, a good friend, Alfred the cat, and a yellow rescue dog named Maybelline Scout. She’s on Twitter @shauntagrimes and is the author of Viral Nation and Rebel Nation and the upcoming novel The Astonishing Maybe. She is the original Ninja Writer.

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