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Why Young Women Should Have Sex With Old Men
There’s value & pleasure in offering your body to old men who are married, poor, with a small cock, and a big beer belly.
I write erotica novels & short stories. I also publish sex confessions as a spermivore, spermaholic, and teen slut. Yes, teen slut! And I’m proud of it! Sex is good. And girls who love sex shouldn’t have to hide and pretend to be “pure.” Sex is pure! And naked skin is natural.
Warning: I’m not a sex therapist, even less a relationship therapist, and certainly not a health expert. Always take proper safety measures when having sex and seek expert advice when in doubt.
In My Sex Life Diary, I share my sexual adventures as a young female in South Florida, sometimes going back to my earlier experiences as a teenager living with my parents up north. I always loved sex, and even more so after I moved to South Florida a couple of years ago and hooked up with a kinky couple. In the process, I’ve had sex with a few old men at home and dozens in South Florida.
Through these numerous encounters with saggy balls and gray beards, I’ve learned a lot about myself, about men, and about sex. I believe these lessons will help me for the rest of my life, and here’s why.
This is not about “love” or “relationship.” I envision myself raising kids one day with a man about my age simply because I want the father of my kids to play ball and go scuba diving with them, which he wouldn’t be able to do at 90 years old with a walker. But I’ve had sex with 50, 60, 70, and 80 years old men. A cock can always become a hard rod to play with, thanks to Viagra! Besides, one lesson I picked up from having sex with old men is that the penis doesn’t always matter.
For those of you reading my stories with a hand on your cock, hang in there! I think you’ll find naughty bits of stories that will get that penis hard, and your juice will flow out of it! But first, let me clarify a few things for those interested in the deeper meaning of this topic.
Before sitting down to write this post, I asked Google a few questions. There is a lot written about young women with old men, but it’s mostly about relationships and daddy issues. I’m not interested in that!
I want to talk about sex and only sex. However, some of the stuff I read on the topic of “old & young” was shocking to me. For instance, a sentence that appeared repeatedly was: “Why aren’t old men hitting on women their age instead of me?”
What? Speak for yourself! I love it when old men notice me and flirt with me — even more if I detect a hard-on in their pants! Yes, I crave attention. I also don’t mind bringing sunshine into an old man’s life simply by smiling (or with some wardrobe malfunction, but that is a different topic). If everybody gets offended every time somebody flirts, there will be no more babies on this planet!
However, it often stops at flirting.
In this post, I will explain how much I enjoyed having sex with many old men and why I think it would be a great learning experience for more young women to live the same. That doesn’t mean that you, old men, can take young women for granted. Not every woman is like me. Harassment is never OK. Consent is always required. Got that?
Now for the juicy parts…
Reasons For Young Women To Have Sex With Old Men
There are so, so, so many reasons why having sex with old men is a good thing for a young woman, especially before she commits to a man, a marriage, or a family. Here is my list of such reasons, in no particular order. I experienced them firsthand and hope to relive them all repeatedly while my firm breasts and tight pussy still get cocks hard. I’m not ready to settle yet!
a) Your Young Female Body is Worth Being Worshipped
The first boyfriend with whom I had sex as a teenager led me to believe that giving head to a guy automatically involved swallowing the juice coming out of the pipe. On top of that, he always had that thing deep down my throat.
Was I unlucky? I don’t know! But I don’t mind, really. It got me practicing deep-throat, and when I realized that most women didn’t do it, it gave me an edge! And not all women swallow, either. Today, I have no issue with deep-throat. I almost never gag. And I swallowed so much sperm through the years, it’s just like hot milk to me. But back to the matter at hand…
There’s that time I was in bed with an old man, and he wouldn’t even let me kiss his cock. He told me I was a princess, and he only wanted to do stuff that was good for me. To this day, he’s worshipped my pussy for hours, while I never had to suck his dick. I never swallowed his cum.
Just to be clear: I enjoy swallowing sperm, especially when I can see the man’s face while I do it. Men love it, and their expression is priceless! And I love the taste. But that’s not the point.
This old man adored my body so much that he was willing to do anything to please me without expecting anything in return. That experience partly inspired me to define “Sex Position 61” for other men who only think of themselves, which were usually guys my age.
It seems to me that older men appreciate every second they can spend with a young female body, and it shows when my naked body is available to them.
If your young boyfriends are always requesting you give them oral sex and do not reciprocate, try an old man for a while. It will build your self-esteem. And making that selfish boyfriend wait for you is not a bad idea either!
b) Discover What It Feels to Be Truly Desired
It’s a similar reason to the one discussed above, but I had to say something in addition to the benefits of the sex act.
I remember a particular first morning after having sex with an old man. When I woke up, he was already in the kitchen, and the smell of coffee enveloped his condo. That’s convenient, right? But I bet some guys our age can make coffee too!
The uniqueness of the situation was in his look when I walked out of the bedroom. I could feel his eyes wanting me as much as the night before.
So often, with guys my age, their interest in me disappears as fast as they unload their juice in my mouth and only come back at their next hard-on. I’ve never seen guys my age look at me like old men do after we have sex. The gray-hair ones still want me even with their cock as soft as a cooked noodle.
c) You Can Have More Orgasms Than The Guy
It’s with an old man that I discovered I could have more orgasms than the guy.
Up to that point, I always assumed it was “normal” for women to have the short end of the deal. After all, men can ejaculate regularly and pretty fast! We often need more time. That is another reason that brought me to “Sex Position 61.”
But with quite a few old men, I discovered they were thrilled to be worshipping my entire body until I came over and over… Even if they didn’t come at all on that night. As I explained above, many old men are simply thrilled to be able to touch, kiss, and eat a young woman with firm tits and a juicy pussy. Try finding that from a guy in his mid-20s!
Of course, I didn’t do an extensive worldwide survey, but I’ve had sex with quite a few men — young and old — and I never got that instant feeling of being worshipped when I was with guys my age. Yet, I got it repeatedly with old men.
d) Penis & Penetration Are Not Always Required
Yes, I know. Some of these reasons are repetitive, but I feel the need to list them all!
With pills, most old men can get their penis hard and penetrate me with no problem. But here’s the thing. I’ve slept with many old men who still wanted to have sex with me, even if they had not taken the pill. Simply taking care of me as a woman was making them feel good.
The way I see it… Physical sensations are a key part of sex. But as the man grows older, what he sees (my young naked body) and does (touches me, kisses me) is just as exciting to him, and that is just awesome!
e) Practice Makes Perfect
I’m sitting here thinking about all the men with whom I’ve had sex in my life, especially in the last 2 or 3 years in the Miami region, and I can hear people calling me a slut. Pick a number! I was called a slut in high school, too, especially by tight-ass girls jealous of my long blonde hair! That’s part of the reason I publish under a pen name — my conservative social media clients must not see me as a slut!
If a guy fucks a dozen cheerleaders, he gets an attaboy. If I fuck a dozen men, I’m called a slut. Socially, this is mind-boggling. And mathematically, it’s pretty illogical. If you want the guys to get these attaboys, there have to be girls having sex! But let’s get back to my real topic…
I’ve learned a lot by experimenting, thanks to my mom, who encouraged me to do so. And I really feel good about everything I’ve done. I can guarantee you that whenever I decide to settle on a husband, he will never go elsewhere for not being sexually satisfied!
The fact is that practice makes perfect. It applies to everything, including sex.
But do you need old men to practice sex? Well, let’s see. Imagine you want to get better at tennis. Would you go with a bunch of new players who barely know how to hold a racket? Of course not! You’d want to practice with people who have experience. Well, the same applies to sex.
The fact is that you will learn a lot more about sex from experienced old men than from boys who still giggle at boobs. Of course, not every old man I had sex with turned out to be a maestro. In fact, some of them seem to have less experience than me! But that’s why you should keep on fucking. Try as many old cocks as you can. In the batch, over time, I am certain you will learn a lot. I did.
f) Learning How To Coach Guys
With old men between my legs, I also learned how to coach guys.
I’m sure you’ve encountered that in your bed at one point: the guy who puts his head between your legs and, before touching your clit, asks you what to do. As frustrating as it can be, it’s understandable. Who could possibly have taught him? His mother? His dad? His sister? Right! Nobody. Because sex is evil in our society, and we shall not talk about it — especially not in Florida under the repressive regime of Ron DeSantis.
Even when I knew what I wanted men to do with their tongues and fingers on my clit, I wasn’t always sure how to explain it. I’ve gained confidence on that front with old men who weren’t shy discussing it with me — sometimes after sex while cuddling, sometimes while having a margarita at the pier. But more importantly, I discovered things I didn’t even think I would like!
So now, when a young bull is lost between my legs, I am comfortable providing instructions. Somebody gotta do what his mom didn’t care about doing.
g) Old Men Want My Young Female Body “As Is”
One thing that often puzzled me in my relationships with men is the condition of the body before sex. They expect my body to be well prepared for their enjoyment: shaved head to toe and clean. I’ve had guys request I take a shower before they give me oral sex.
Yet, I’ve never seen a guy having an issue with me sucking his cock out of his pants at the end of a long day, no matter how it smelled or tasted and no matter how much pubic hair ended up on my tongue.
Why is that? I don’t know. But I do know that over the last few months, many old men wanted me just the way I was.
I’ve had old men eat my pussy in the morning before a shower, right as we walked in after a dinner in town, straight out of the beach… They want me and find me tasty & desirable all the time.
Try it! I bet it will help your self-esteem. It will also give you a perspective on what to expect from a man. Let’s raise the bar for the young ones!
Maybe we are too easily giving a pass to guys our age. I don’t know how older men managed to learn these things through the years, but I suggest we help guys our age learn them sooner rather than later!
Which Old Men Should I Have Sex With, As A Young Woman?
As I explained in the introduction to this post, I am not looking for a sugar daddy, and, in fact, I expect to marry, one day, a guy my age to raise a family — and I will teach my son and daughter about sex!
Instead, I’m talking here about enjoying sex while I have a young body so often coveted by men. I’m talking about learning from sexual experiences and getting better at sex.
Therefore, I suggest you stay away from good-looking, rich old men. Why? These men will probably think you are a gold digger. Furthermore, they may actually not be a very good one to bring to bed. They may be lazy. Their good look and/or their money probably provided them with more pleasures than they actually deserved.
At the other end of the spectrum, the old man who doesn’t expect young ladies to be after him will probably worship you more than the sugar daddy.
In fact, the most mind-blowing sex I had with an old man was with a guy who carried an enormous beer belly, a tiny dick, and no apparent money. You should have seen the expression on his face. The fact that I was “out of his league” made him even more devoted to me. If there was a word to describe an entity above ‘goddess’, that is what I was to him. And it showed in everything he did.
Of course, for me, the size of the penis doesn’t matter. I usually don’t climax from penetration, but I do from clit stimulation, and that man was good at it. Really good! My guess is that he had no choice. With such a small dick, he had to learn to be the best at oral sex, and I was there to enjoy it!
I also had a thrill twisting my tiny body around that huge beer belly. It was fun!
I’m having the time of my life, enjoying sex while I am young, and men of all ages want me.
And I like to believe that my future husband will benefit from all the sex I’m having with old men right now. It’s providing me with an experience he will benefit from. And it’s showing me what sex can be with men of all ages and shapes.
Also, it’s offering me a fresh perspective on what penises look like. They come in all shapes and sizes, but unless you do what I’m doing, you’ll never know because I can tell you one thing: the ones you see online in porn videos are not typical of what you will find on men!
A side note about married men.
Some of the penises I got inside of me over the last few months were part of a marriage. I wondered about that for a while, but I ended up concluding that I was actually helping their marriage. I know! It’s a self-serving conclusion. But these men had sexual urges, and I was simply allowing them to live their fantasies with me before going back to their wives, more sexually happy than ever.
Let’s take a step back. Imagine a married man unsatisfied sexually in his marriage. He buys a jelly pussy at a sex shop and masturbates when his wife is not around. Is that cheating? Of course not!
Well, I am just like that pussy. I’m there for sexual gratification with no strings attached. On top of that, I’m free, and so I save them money, too!
I don’t know if any of these principles apply to young men and older women. I have no experience on that front. It will be years before I can report on that!
From what I see in society, especially in South Beach, it is much more frequent to see old men with young chicks than the other way around. I may find it frustrating and unfair when I get to that age, but for now, it’s giving me an extra reason to take full advantage of my young body, firm boobs, tight pussy, and blonde hair while I can.
Hugs & kisses!
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