Why Was I Born as a Twin Flame? 2 Important Reasons That Determine Your Life Purpose

What is the real purpose of this intense feeling of love inside us?

I always asked this question in my meditations. Why was I born as a twin flame? Because just as we don’t get to choose most of our lives, being a twin flame was not something I could choose. It was a life lesson coded into my soul. It took me a year to understand this.

As I progressed on the twin flame journey, I took a close look at my many emotions, my loving habits, and everything that made me angry. I am someone who has had a vital life purpose from an early age. I have never sought my life’s purpose. I already knew what to do. I let the universe gently guide me.

I wanted to be a writer. I spent the childhood and teenage years of my life filling out notebooks and reading thick books. I wasn’t a nerd, but I was a “weird” person who cared about nothing but getting information. I say weird because it always felt weird to not be as interested in beautiful clothes, men, or love as my peers. I was more of a person living in my world.

But I always felt inside me that there was a strong sense of love. I fell in love too much. But the way I love was hidden inside my introverted character. Because I didn’t love myself, I used to think that other people wouldn’t like me either. So I buried all my strong feelings in my heart. All the love I poured deep into my heart opened a wound. And there was a traumatic memory that was an extension of all those wounds. My goal on the twin flame journey was to learn to love myself.

But the interesting thing is that I had come a long way in my personal development journey before I entered my twin flame journey. I knew myself. I had learned astrology and was improving my writing by writing articles. When I entered the twin flame journey, I realized that my previous spiritual development was almost an elementary school.

This journey was like experimenting with dangerous and dense liquids in the laboratory. And I had to learn to face the poisonous liquids (feelings) within me in order to extract the gem within me. When you stay in the emotions too much, you melt with them and you turn into your feelings. But emotions alone do not form our character. They are just a few of our molecules.

As I learned not to feel ashamed or powerless for having my emotions, I began to grow with them. As my behavior grew, my abilities increased, and new meaningful data grew into my vast library of emotions, I used that information to turn it into a greater reality. I expanded my own life purpose by connecting to universal knowledge. This meant initially connecting more intensely with my twin flame and healing the wounded child inside me.

As human beings, it is in our nature to improve ourselves by looking at things better than ourselves. We think that someone is more “successful”, more “beautiful” or more “lucky” than we are. This culture of comparison makes some of us more determined, while others lead to more despair. While we think “I will never be the person I want to be”, there are always goals that we want to reach. Sometimes we never realize that these goals are the lives of others.

Each person shines a light on a part of the cave inside us that we cannot see.

While on a twin flame journey, we may consider our twin flame superior to ourselves and run after it to get its attention. The dynamic in twin flame travel is mostly about attracting the absence of a “thing”. We go after everything we feel longing for. This is where the love, presence, or interest of our twin flame is at stake. Because the reason we need that attention is because we have a deep lack of value inside.

The universe, on the other hand, always throws our twin flame beyond us to increase our own worth. It reminds us that what we are after is within ourselves. Because indeed, the further we chase our twin flame, the further away they get from us. The more we try to make peace with our twin flame, the more we find that everything falls apart. The twin flame journey is all about discovering the jewel within us.

We have a lot to learn about ourselves on the twin flame journey. So as a result of my readings and research, I have found that twin flames also divide into groups among themselves.

Twin flames whose purpose is to “learn”

We are all students on the twin flame journey because we are in a long process of unraveling our souls. Twin flames who come into the world to learn the “lessons of life” have intense life agendas. They go through turbulent events, a social life filled with heartbreak, and many karmic partner lessons. Because they have to spend most of their twin flame journey clearing their karma and learning not to create it again.

Although we have a completely different and brand new life in this world from our other lives, we cannot reach a peaceful point without giving the lessons in our karmic notebook. And what we repeat all the time and can’t get over reflects our biggest problem. If you are taken on a twin flame journey to learn, your actions will run faster than your thoughts. So you are improving yourself by experiencing something.

Sometimes you can get bored with things and feel like you have nothing. But you must remember that you have the ability to figure out why everything happens.

You may always find yourself in complex situations, or you may be questioning why you make the same mistake in all your relationships. If somehow life leaves you at a point where you always say “This time it didn’t go well” then you should really stop and see what you need to learn from the people who have passed your life. Because each person shines a light on the part of the cave inside us that we cannot see.

It is worth remembering: As twin flames who come to learn to improve themselves, they also raise the frequency of the world. and as they break their own mold, they come closer to a twin flame reunion. The twin flame merger is already the same thing as one’s self-union.

Twin flames that come to unite

Of course, there are twin flames sent to Earth to “merge” as well as to learn and to raise the Earth’s vibration faster. Here the scenario is slightly different. The twin flames that come to unite also need to “learn”. They feel much less lost than other twin flames. Because they already have a lot of information that they can learn through programming in their past lives. These people, who seem to be “wise” from birth and feel like they have swallowed a book, need to put their inner knowledge into practice.

Although they have the knowledge, the twin flames who came into the world to unite are quite lacking in the experience part. There is much for them to discover within themselves. Twin flames who come to unite are more open to learning than the other group. But they need action-based learning, not passive learning. Because the unification they need to complete will only come about when they discover their own worth.

These people may like a more introverted, calmer life plan compared to the other group. And some think that they have known everything since childhood. Since childhood, these people have been given life goals. And they live their lives with a deep sense of knowing. All they have to do is bring out the deep love of the universe in their hearts. Trusting and believing are two very important concepts for twin flames who are born to unite.

Which of these two twin flame groups do you feel closer to? Which one fits your story better? You can specify in the comments.

Hi, I’m Bensu. I write about mind, hard feelings and self-love. If you enjoyed my articles about surpassing yourself and achieving your dreams, you can start your medium subscription from this link: