Summary
The author expresses contentment with embracing their authentic self after a period of trying to fit in by altering their appearance and behavior, ultimately finding fulfillment in their introverted nature and through writing on Medium.
Abstract
The article titled "Why I’m Happy Being Me" delves into the author's journey of self-acceptance. Initially, the author attempted to conform to societal standards of popularity, which involved wearing makeup, dressing in certain ways, and engaging in gossip. Despite these efforts, the author felt out of place and uncomfortable with the facade. The realization that true happiness lay in being genuine led to a transformation. The author found solace in solitude, nature, and books, and discovered that Medium provided a platform to express their true self, share vulnerabilities, and connect with others authentically. The article concludes with a quote from Ellie Jacobson, emphasizing the beauty of authenticity, and the author's declaration of happiness in their own skin.
Opinions
- The author previously tried to be popular by changing their appearance and behavior, which was not reflective of their true personality.
- The author felt like a "fish out of water" and was dissatisfied with pretending to be someone they were not.
- The author values solitude, introspection, and intellectual pursuits, which were not aligned with the superficiality of their previous attempts to fit in.
- The author believes that people can be misled by appearances, failing to see the introverted and intellectual nature behind the aesthetic.
- Medium serves as a significant outlet for the author to express their true self and share personal stories without the need for