When Do You Use The Term BIPOC?
a poem and a writing challenge

I’ve been told not to use this term because it divides more than it unites, even though its original intention was to highlight that there are differences within the group that falls under the “POC” umbrella.
I’ve been told not to use this term because “we are all people of colour”, a view that gave me pause because of how closely it mimicked arguments of being “colourblind” as a way to avoid racism, which ironically upholds the status quo to pretend that there aren’t genuine differences in experiences and hardships faced by people of colour.
Yet I use the term “BIPOC”, consciously.
Here’s why.
My guiding principle is to be a specific as possible because one of the genuine downfalls of using any term is when you’re categorizing in a way that dilutes the central message of a group.
All the same, I am not afraid to lean into the strength of a community, when this support is welcomed.
I remember how growing up, I had existed in a place that was diverse enough that I mostly used the term “Asian” to connect with others like me in a predominantly white space.
I also remember how “Asian” used to hold (and still does, for some) a heavy emphasis on East and South East Asians, to the exclusion of South Asian experiences from within this name.
I look back and see the privilege of first, living in a diverse enough place that I could lean back into the Asian community as a whole in order to process something that has happened to me; and second, that for a time, even in this process of lending in for support, I have been a part of a majority that has been exclusionary in the past.
Contrast this with now, where using the term “Asian” specifically de-anonymizes a BIPOC member of the department for all they have shared, because there are only the two of us. That being said, there ARE more of us Asians than the one single Black student, than the one single Latino student, than the one single Indigenous student, collected as if trophies to show off in the diversity stats but ignored when it comes to genuinely supported through the graduate journey.
I use the term BIPOC to lean into the strength of the community because otherwise my one (1) experience will be swept aside as an anomaly (sample size = 1 vs. sample size 50 white students who love and thrive in the program), while acknowledging that even with this group, I have been lucky and privileged to never have been the first nor the only Asian student.
The truth is I don’t know if this is the right way, and the most important thing I want to stress is the thought process behind it all, not because “good intentions” excuse harm done to others, but because … should this be the most clownish take, I make space to receive the most specific feedback about where I have gone wrong.
#WritingPrompt: to be specific to highlight or to generalize to lean into the strength of community and numbers?
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Hi, I’m Lucy Dan 蛋小姐 (she/her/她) and I’ve thought long and deeply about this one, and I think it’ll be one that I’ll continue to think long and deeply about.






