What Women Think About During Sexual Intercourse
It's not you!
What do women think about during sexual intercourse? It is an age-old question.
In truth, it depends on the situation, and no two sexual experiences are the same, even if we want them to be.
I have done some extensive research 😘to find out some of the answers for you, and it may be of some surprise.
Whilst the answer does vary depending on age group and type of partners, the majority come back to the same thing time and time again.
Before we get to that, let us explore some of the options that I found along the way.
Age groups between 18 to 25 women tend to think about their partner; they enjoy the moment and the lust it brings. Every man hopes that his partner is thinking during their sexual acts.
My research into the 26–35 category brings me to most women's "childbearing age," this is where things really get interesting. There is a definite split between women with children and women without them.
Women without children around this age tend to find that their mind wanders, and are prime to think of others during their intercourse time, guys I know you do not want to hear this, but unless you put in a lot of effort, women can get bored, quickly.
It is very different for women who have children; whilst this may be hard to believe, most are actually thinking about housework, what to have for tea, or getting things ready for the morning rush.
The only real-time they think about their partner is if they are intoxicated; of course, there are variants to this, and I am writing this from my personal research.
The next category takes us into the 36–50 years of age, and, interestingly, women have said they "fall in love again" with their partners and appreciate them more.
During intercourse, most once again turn to think about the partner that they are with; some do drift into a fantasy world and are willing to experiment whilst they still "feel worth it."
Women understand that their "bodies have changed"; however, at times enjoy intercourse more than they ever did when they were younger.
It saddens me that my research stopped at 50 years of age; maybe it will continue in the future. I am keen to know your comments and hope I do not get slated for this article; it is not usual.
I will remind you that this information has come from my own personal research from a group of around 250 women.
What are your personal experiences? Would you like to share it with the community? I understand if you don't.
Written by Robert Ralph
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