This happened to me
What Price Family Unity?
Conflict within families is not new. But when and how do we end this discord to stand united again?

SOME people are easily moved by emotions and tear up easily. A melodramatic film, or a book that exposes the heart-rending inhumanity of men, or a very ill child who recovers from an expensive surgery funded by total strangers — these could trigger the tears of the highly sensitive among us.
Not me.
It’s not that I am insensitive to most real-life drama, it’s just that my tears do not flow from my eyes freely.
I have to feel a hard squeeze in my heart or a thundering rage, like when I read about the murder of babies or the abuse and sexual assault of children. I tear up and wish the harshest punishment for the perpetrators.
Less than a day ago, I saw a couple of pictures posted on Facebook by a niece. They were family photos, taken within the hour of posting.
Outside of British Summer Time, there are 13 hours’ difference in our time zones. So, I was having my morning coffee when I saw the photos while my kin, from the other side of the world, had just finished their dinner.
I sat by the breakfast table, transfixed at the images on my tablet, the coffee cup in my hand frozen before my lips.
I could not believe what the images were telling me.
And then I teared up. I can’t remember the last time I cried.
The photos that mesmerized me, tugging at my heart as tears welled up in my eyes showed my close kin — members of two families — having reconciled.
After almost 10 years of disagreement, they kissed and made up along with the children (all adults). For the same period, I have wished and hoped and prayed for that moment.
But what price unity? What price family harmony?
That is what my other lamentation is about. Reconciliation was set in motion because a member was diagnosed with late-stage cancer and only has months to live.
Wouldn’t you tear up as well, and ask what price family unity?
To uplift your spirit after reading this cheerless story, let me recommend a story by Elvie Lins❤️ in which she recommends a world-class beach for an unforgettable family (and lovers, too) outing.
Or, what about this piece by Olivia Marlene? She shares with us “the secret” of The Secret.
Dr. Preeti Singh is bubbling with joy as she writes about the spring festival. Spring, by the way, is my favorite season.
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